I would never post that photo of my child. Her mouth is smirky and her body posture is too weird. Is it sexual? I can see where others think that, but I think it's the smirk on her face that makes my stomach hurl.
So you all can feel that way about a 4 year old but sweetshabbyroses is a perv for feeling people should have a shirt on in the living room with other fully clothed people eating lunch? That's pretty hypocritical of you.
No, she's a judgmental bitch for singling out a developing 13-year-old. If everybody else wore a t-shirt or cover-up and the teenager didn't, it would be a different story. But singling out the teenager, as she did, is woman-shaming.
Not really #2, the 4yo was purposely posed that way, the 13yo was changed for the pool and eating. She's probably totally unaware of how much her body has change, or in denial still wanting to be one of the kids.
That pose the 4yo is in is a total boudoir pose.
If you can't, or won't see the difference between an innocent action on the part of the 13yo and and dumbass mom posing her 4yo that way you're idiot.
Really Red must be a total negative person to be around. And why must she continue to mention that she is a single mother in almost every post. Does she think she is the only one? Or does it somehow make her problems more special?
If you see a difference between the mom posing the 4 year old that way and the mom of the 13 year old with an adult body not telling her to put a shirt on in the living room you are an idiot.
I bet that 13-year old kid was showing about 1/8" of her boob on that bikini top and the poster just started frothing at the mouth about it.
But let's put the mother of this 13-year old child on the stake here, afterall, she is not buying "proper attire" that fits for her maturing 13-year old daughter. THE MOTHER NEEDS TO BE CRUCIFIED!
If you see a difference between the mom posing the 4 year old that way and the mom of the 13 year old with an adult body not telling her to put a shirt on in the living room you are an idiot.
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I seriously hope this is sarcasm. If not, well, you can't fix stupid.
"It would be if the circumstances were the same, they are not, not even close."
True. Sweetshabbyroses didn't sexualize anyone. Just thought she should wear a shirt for lunch. Blog bitches on the other hand did exactly that. Even used the word sexualized to describe the picture.
There is a reason the book club will never go anywhere. One person needs to just post saying "here is how it is going to go, these are the rules" and quit asking questions. There are way too many people, someone will get all butt-hurt over how it is being run. Someone will always complain about the book selected. It is the peas, they can't just be happy about it, they have to ruin it.
Well, I guess I am a pervert and old fashioned, as I don't think a 4 year old needs to pose in a provocative position, with her body arched, a smirk on her face, holding a red rose, laying on a piano. Too much.
Well, I guess I am a pervert and old fashioned, as I don't think a 4 year old needs to pose in a provocative position,
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I don't think you are a pervert. I also don't think sweetshabbyroses is a pervert or that there is anything wrong with either of your opinions on the matter.
23 Anonymous said... 23 "Did you see the pic? The first time I saw it, I got an icky, uncomfortable feeling. Not a pose that a child should be posing in."
Aaaand there it is. The same thought process that sweetshabbyroses is being called a pervert for.
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ffs you are arguing just to argue. Can't you see the difference between a child being posed into an inappropriate photo and a 13yo how has developed quickly? The 13yo wasn't being posed by anyone. She was simply trying to hang out with the kids.
fwiw I'm guessing shabbyrose is over selling the "tiny" part of the suit. She just seems like an over invested drama queen looking to be righteously offended.
God forbid some poor girls body matures faster then her mental age.
She's not holding a red rose or laying on a piano. That's all in your head.
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My apologies. It is a white flower, and I don't know what she is laying on. I still stand by what I said, it is totally inappropriate. The pic is in this op's siggy...
"ffs you are arguing just to argue. Can't you see the difference between a child being posed into an inappropriate photo and a 13yo how has developed quickly?"
I have a point to make just as you do. Should I say ffs you are arguing just to argue because you would like your point to be heard just as I would like mine to be?
Can't you see the similarities between a child being posed and a 13 yo being half naked?
I just looked at the photo of the 4 year old. Ok she's holding what appears to be a white daisy and she is reclining. To me the pose looks awkward - the smirk on her face is what bugs me the most. I don't find it particularly sexual -more strangely awkward like someone posed her that way. I would say its weirdly inappropriate, but the child appears to be challenging the viewer. It reminds me of some really bad high school graduation photos I've seen.
As a victim of child molestation I can tell you that it doesn't matter what you wear or don't wear, a pervert doesn't care. BUT I do know that after I was abused I became very ashamed of my body and have always been a prude when it comes to clothing choices. I rarely if ever wore shorts in public. I also tend to see the worst or most sexual connotation of a situation involving children because I was myself was abused. I always kept a close eye on my kids and avoided overly sexual situations or clothing for them.
The point is you can't bash sweetshabbyroses for sexualizing a 13 year old after sexualizing a 4 year old yourself. It's hypocritical. May 28, 2013 at 11:17 AM
Serious question: If this was just a normal scared kid, he would be a brat...but since his is an autistic scared kid, it's ok that he was screaming? I honestly don't get it. Why can't grace be extended to any scared kid?
Batya must be having a cow. Everybody KNOWS she's the arbiter of all things literary at the bucket. @@ I wonder how long it'll be before she tries to take over.
What is so hard to understand? Her son is a deadbeat, so she now has custody of her grandson, and she had to sell everything she could to make money to support him.
Oh gawd, let's not start the whole berrysmoothie thing again. She'll show up to justify and deflect, justify and deflect. It was bad enough the first two or three times around.
She posts here as bananalady. Her mother-in-law gave the district attorney proof of berrysmoothie stealing her identity had she was arrested and charged for identity theft. I believe she was arrested before this also.
And 259 is correct, she does justify and deflect over and over again. She gets really annoying pretty quick. She is not that smart.
I never left here and I live in a shitty town. I also live in a dry county which I think is stupid and I live in a state that still has Sunday blue laws and has passed some of the stupidest legislation in the country this year.
And I don't see the point in hiding what is publicly available information. It's out there. And just for shits and giggles, since ya'll act like the previous charge is such a BFD it was a failure to appear on a traffic violation because I had to have surgery that day. It was cleared up when the court found out what happened and that is why you can't find any details about it online.
And try not to confuse justification with explanation. If people ask me questions I tend to answer them. And whether "you" would do that or not has zero bearing on what I should or shouldn't do. You make your own choices and I'll make mine. It doesn't equal superiority on your behalf or mine, it is just different. And why people have such issue with people having differences is one thing I will never get.
Yes 61, I did mean people in my town. One of the people who I thought was a friend of mine sent my mug shot to everyone we went to high school with. Guess she hadn't planned on me finding out about it from one of my real friends.
Times like these, you really find out who your friends are. Wish that wasn't such a painful process but what can you do?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237924 I don't care who you are, that thread title is hilarious......my mil's cousin's neighbor's dog died. Dog worshippers are idiots.
Well I tested my family last night. I put my bikini on last night and served dinner. I sat down and ate with them. I told them I was going swimming after we ate, but they all thought I was strange. I told them to stop treating me like a sex object though.
I don't smack Cecilia because she isn't your typical pea. She isn't always trying to portray this perfect facade to the the pod. She doesn't always post poor me posts, or look at what a super kind and intelligent person I am.
I can do one better. I put my bikini on before dinner, went for a swim and then served dinner in my wet bikini. We all know a wet bikini shows more than a dry bikini.
I don't smack Cecilia because she isn't your typical pea. She isn't always trying to portray this perfect facade to the the pod. She doesn't always post poor me posts, or look at what a super kind and intelligent person I am.
As for Cecilia, she's hardly on the short bus since she does have a degree or two(?) in "something" (i forget what lol).
As for the bikini, no one cares if you're not RUNNING around like you are just 2 or 3 years old and tripping in front of people. I'm hoping it at least fit? [adding to your sarcasm].
What is so hard to understand? Her son is a deadbeat, so she now has custody of her grandson, and she had to sell everything she could to make money to support him. _____________
She's going to rely on God, and Paypal. Gullible peas have donated in the past.
"Well I tested my family last night. I put my bikini on last night and served dinner. I sat down and ate with them. I told them I was going swimming after we ate, but they all thought I was strange. I told them to stop treating me like a sex object though"
Agree 84 and I can't believe this part of her story:
"There is nothing for kids to do in this town. They aren't allowed to go the movies in groups larger than 2 and then not at all past 9:00 pm. The bowling alley never has lanes available for anyone other than the adult bowling leagues and even if they did, they do not allow groups of kids greater than 2."
I can't possibly see that movie theater thing as being true. Our local theater probably makes most of it's money off teens going to shows. They seem to be the majority of patrons.
And seriously if 3 groups of 2 kids show up do they only let the first couple in? How could you enforce that?
It makes no sense at all.
As far as the bowling alley ours is always busy and it's mainly with league bowlers. It has noting to do with keeping teens down. There isn't a lot of free bowling time for anyone.
i guess I am not understanding how JRenae is saying that she is just a good parent and crap happens. I think CPS should have investigated a toddler that had prescription pills in their system. By accident or not, that seems investigation worthy.
Sec. 17.5-21. Short title. This article shall be known as the Minor Curfew Ordinance. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 2, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-22. Findings and purpose. The board of directors of the city finds that special circumstances exist within the city that call for the special regulation of minors within the city in order to protect them from each other and from other persons on the street during the nocturnal hours and during normal school hours, whether public, private or home schooling, to aid in crime prevention, to promote parental supervision and authority over minors and to decrease nocturnal crime rates and crime rates during school hours. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 3, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,825, § 1, 1-3-95)
Sec. 17.5-23. Definitions. For purposes of the Minor Curfew Ordinance, the following terms, phrases, words and their derivations shall have the meanings [ascribed to them by this section]: (a) City is the City of Little Rock, Arkansas. (b) Emancipated minor means a minor who no longer has a parent-child relationship as a result of marriage, or as a result of being recognized as an adult by order of a court of competent jurisdiction. (c) Legitimate parentally approved errand means a minor performing a necessary task at the direction of the minor's parent, and that the nonperformance of the errand, or delay of performance until after curfew hours have abated, would result in injury or undue hardship. (d) Minor is any unemancipated or unmarried person under the age of eighteen (18) years of age. (e) Parent is any person having legal custody of a minor (i) as a natural parent, (ii) as an adoptive parent, (iii) as a legal guardian, (iv) as a person to whom legal custody has been given by order of the court. (f) Public place means a publicly or privately owned place to which the public or substantial numbers of people have access. A public place does not include the residence of a minor or, the residence of a minor's parent or a responsible adult. (g) Responsible adult means a person at least twenty-one (21) years of age to whom a parent has expressly given permission to accompany a minor. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 4, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-24. Curfew for minors. (a) It shall be unlawful for any minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate or be a passenger of any automobile, bicycle, or other vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places between the hours of 10:00 p.m. and 5:00 a.m., Sunday through Thursday, or 12:00 midnight and 5:00 a.m., Friday and Saturday. (b) It shall be unlawful for any minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate or be a passenger of any automobile, bicycle, or other vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places: (1) Between the hours of 9:00 a.m. and 3:45 p.m., when the public schools are in session; or (2) If the hours in subsection (1) are different from the hours of a regular school day at the school where the minor is registered to attend, the time between the normal start time and normal dismissal time for students at the school where the minor is registered to attend. (c) It shall be unlawful for any parent to permit a minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate, a vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places as set forth in subsections (a) or (b). The fact that a minor is in violation of the provisions of subsections (a) or (b) hereinabove, without a defense as set forth in section 17.5-25, shall create a rebuttable presumption that a parent is in violation of this subsection. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 5, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,825, § 2, 1-3-95; Ord. No. 18,629, § 1, 1-2-02)
Sec. 17.5-25. Exceptions to curfew. (a) Notwithstanding the provisions of section 17.5-24, the Minor Curfew Ordinance does not apply: (1) At any time a minor that is accompanied by a parent, or by a responsible adult authorized by a parent to take the parent's place to accompany the minor for a designated period of time and purpose within a specified area. (2) If the minor is employed, for a period of time forty-five (45) minutes after work, provided that circumstances suggest the minor is returning from work to a place of residence. (3) When a minor is returning home from an activity that is supervised by adults and sponsored by the city, a civic organization, a public or private school, or any entity that takes responsibility for the minor, provided that the activity has not concluded for more than forty-five (45) minutes. (4) At any time the minor is on a legitimate parentally approved errand. (5) At any time the minor is on a trip in interstate commerce. (6) At any time the minor is required to leave a residence because of an emergency. (7) At any time the minor is engaged in an activity that is protected by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, or the freedom of speech, religion or expression provisions in Article II of the Arkansas Constitution. (b) If a minor being questioned about the possible violation of the Minor Curfew Ordinance provides a law enforcement officer with sufficient reason to believe that the minor is entitled to an exemption under subsection (a) above, the law enforcement officer shall take no more enforcement actions under this article, provided the officer may make a report of the minor's identity, the exemption claimed, and other necessary information to note the possible violation of this article. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 6, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-26. Penalties and law enforcement. (a) A minor found to be in violation of this article shall be subject to penalties provided in section 1-9 of the Little Rock, Arkansas, Revised Code of Ordinances, or to such other disposition including suspension, probation, or conditions for suspension for probation, as determined by the judge of the district court in accordance with Arkansas law. (b) A parent of a minor charged with violation of this article may be notified of such violation and required to appear before the district court for any hearing which involves the minor. (c) At the discretion of the law enforcement officer, any minor arrested or cited for violation of the Minor Curfew Ordinance may be released to immediately return home or to school, may be escorted to their home or school, or may be taken into custody and delivered to an appropriate location, or juvenile authority, to be held until a parent can be located to take custody of the minor. (d) Nothing in this section shall preclude a law enforcement officer from taking any or all appropriate actions for a minor's violation of any other local or state law. (Ord. No. 16,564, § 7, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,602, § 1, 2-15-94; Ord. No. 18,548, § 1, 8-21-01)
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98 - I did read & saw that they did. I guess I was commenting that they should have and it wasn't an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason.
I'm starting to think that berrysmoothie is the hostile bitch that posts here. You know, the one that has to have the last word and has a fucking stick up her ass.
101: Hey, Jrenae is annoying, but if her story is true, how is it not an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason? I know this is the smack blog, but I guess since I've had a family member falsely accused of something and then cleared, I'm thinking fairly here how it does happen.
And yes, I have been busy teaching. Some of us actually spend all day doing productive things. Really.
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I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
"I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone."
She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
"I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone."
She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
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Yeah, I love how people are assholes and then people dish it right back at them and get called trolls for it. I see it all over the bucket and no it's migrated here. It's bullshit.
Yeah I can be bitchy right back. But isn't that true of everyone here at a smack blog? Sorry if people are offended that I am not all sunshine and roses while taking shit from people online and real life. If you aren't being bitchy to me then my snark isn't aimed at you. Since everyone here is Anonymous I can't cherry pick and tell who is being an ass and who isn't.
Hey, Jrenae is annoying, but if her story is true, how is it not an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason? ______________________________________
She wasn't "crucified". She was investigated. And I'm sorry but I agree with 101 and if a toddler shows up at the ER with a controlled substance in his system, an investigation from CPS is warranted. Can you imagine if they didn't and the kid died because the mom had say Munchhausen by proxy and was giving him prescription meds to make him seem sick?
Here is the thing though, if you have never been investigated by CPS then you really don't understand the nightmare they can make your life. When I had to go through all of it before the woman who called it in couldn't get anybody to just come out and investigate us homeschooling so she embellished her story. She claimed we locked our kids out of the house for hours at a time, that we had no food in our house and that they couldn't read or do math. It was easy to prove it all false, the investigator saw that we had plenty of food, that the kids were in fact inside and when interviewed individually none of them were ever able to tell of an instance of being locked out of the house. They all also read to the woman and did some of their current math work in front of her. It was easily unfounded. But the hiccup came when they wanted to make sure we had all the i's dotted and t's crossed. The school districts claimed to have no record of any of my children although 2 of them had been enrolled in both the public school and a charter school for years. We were in the middle of moving and all my paperwork was boxed up and wasn't readily available. Now, I never box my paperwork up. And they not only wanted our current year's paperwork, they wanted 13 years of records. I had to go in person to 3 different schools and find someone to sign off that they did in fact have records of my kids and after that voila! the schools all managed to "find" the paperwork they claimed they didn't have before. It took hours of phone calls, driving around, cutting through red tape with schools who were very hostile about homeschooling. It all came out ok, but if you haven't been through it, you have no idea how horrible it feels to have someone threatening to take your kids away if you can't come up with one sheet of paper from 10 years ago.
I never said that. But I do cringe whenever the peas say oh call it in, CPS will figure it out. I think if you have to add to your story to get CPS to investigate and you are coming up with outright false claims, then MYOB. And I think expecting homeschoolers to meet standards that the public schools don't meet is ridiculous. CPS shouldn't be threatening to take kids away over a freaking sheet of paper. And if I never shared my story people would never know how ridiculous it can be. There may be one person out there right now who is currently thinking I am lying and calling me every name in the book who someday finds themselves where I've been. And I hope they can remember my story and know that it isn't just them, sometimes these agencies get overzealous. It's hard but it isn't impossible to prevail. But I truly hope it doesn't happen to anyone because it is awful.
I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
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She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
OMG Bananaboobs is back! ARGGGGGG who is responsible for letting the trash back in?????
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Well, we know it's not Banana Lady, because Banana Lady isn't responsible for ANY of the bad things that happen to her.
I doubt anyone is calling CPS on her because she's such an excellent parent. One case I can understand, but two? And then add in the whole "I'm being prosecuted because MIL said so but there is no evidence against me" thing, and my b.s. meter is at 1,000,000.
The only people I've ever known with similar stories brought their drama on themselves.
I thought it was funny that enjoytotheend piped in on BerrySmoothie's thread to commiserate. Psychos in a pod, those two.
I doubt anyone is calling CPS on her because she's such an excellent parent. One case I can understand, but two? And then add in the whole "I'm being prosecuted because MIL said so but there is no evidence against me" thing, and my b.s. meter is at 1,000,000. ******************************
Don't forget that her neighbor stopped her visiting friend to "dress him down about us homeschooling." Or that she compares herself to people freed by the Innocence Project.
I think she's either a troll or has a personality disorder.
Hey 125, I haven't had CPS called on me twice. Learn to read. Do I think some neighbor who is getting overly invested in my decision to homeschool is whackadoodle enough to do it? Well, it has happened before so hell yeah I think it is possible.
But since you haven't known anyone personally then it doesn't exist. The earth, people, it revolves around 125. And yes, that is snark and I am trying to make it specific to particular posters.
Every single person I've known who had CPS called on them deserved it. So do many more who haven't had CPS called on them. CPS, like animal services, can't be strict enough.
Have a nice night, fellow blog bitches. I have a chem midterm in the morning.
I think I'm allowed to have an attitude to people who are being bitchy to me. I don't have to lay down and take it and I highly doubt any of you would. You'd just post some bitchy shit, sign it as anonymous and be fine with it. I'm not afraid to say it consistently under the same screen name. And if number whatever doesn't want to be my anonymous friend anymore I think I will probably live.
Loving all the armchair psychologists too. I have had shit for a decade so I knew I needed regular therapy. Trust me, you aren't going to pull off a diagnosis my own psych that I have been seeing for 10 years hasn't detected.
Really 123? You think you are too high brow for anyone on a smack blog? Talk about delusional. ==================== Not 123 but I'll chime in anyway. You missed the point, none of us are too highbrow but we do think you are too low brow, there's a difference.
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Just because you don't understand it doesn't make it untrue, just makes you either too stupid to understand anything or you don't get out much. I'll go with the first one.
You really should follow the advice that others are giving you, especially the one where you need to step away from the keyboard. You are acting rather bitchy. It doesn't matter if someone was bitchy to you, you are suppose to take the high road. Maybe this is why you have such legal problems, because you can't.
Why am I supposed to take the high road? I'm the only person here who is supposed to do that? WTF? You people have spent like the past 2 weeks doing nothing but calling each other cunts anonymously. High road my ass.
Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told?
62 banana lady said... 62 It's out there. And just for shits and giggles, since ya'll act like the previous charge is such a BFD it was a failure to appear on a traffic violation because I had to have surgery that day. It was cleared up when the court found out what happened and that is why you can't find any details about it online.
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Justify and deflect, justify and deflect. What a loser.
That's the first time I've posted in this space, 346. Try again. How can you not see BS's justification and deflection? It's as predictable as childofgrace's dumb dishware threads or Enough's Obama-is-the-devil threads.
Yeah I can be bitchy right back. But isn't that true of everyone here at a smack blog? Sorry if people are offended that I am not all sunshine and roses while taking shit from people online and real life. If you aren't being bitchy to me then my snark isn't aimed at you. Since everyone here is Anonymous I can't cherry pick and tell who is being an ass and who isn't.
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I'm sure I don't need to tell you this, but here's the deal. You control what is online about you. So, you also control who you take shit from online. Because if you don't put it out there, connected to your user name, then you don't have to take shit about it.
I don't know what benefit you get from all of this, but I firmly believe that as humans, we do things because we benefit from them in one way or another. It doesn't matter whether that benefit actually looks like a benefit from an outsider; in some way we do things that fulfill a need we have. I don't know what that need is for you and I never will.
But let's call this what it is - YOU control what others know about you online. YOU associate it with a username on a scrapbooking message board that would have otherwise not been known. To go one further, YOU also associated your story with a username on an anonymous smack board for the scrapbooking message board you frequent. YOU did that for a reason. And YOU get something from that.
So stop with the BS and stop acting as though this doesn't serve some purpose for you. We all agreed to smack anonymously and you just can't seem to help yourself. We all see it for what it is. So stop. Just stop.
Or don't. Just know you out yourself for being a bigger weirdo than anyone who would participate in anonymous smack on an anonymous smack board. We all own who we are. Do you?
You can call justify and deflect all day but what exactly am I deflecting your attention to? Do you know the meaning of deflect? And if answering someone's question is justifying then ok. I admit to running a stop sign and so I got ticketed for it. I'm not making any excuses for that. It was my first and only traffic offense so it isn't even on my driving record.
And 344 I already answered that question. But it was related to my running a stop sign. I didn't show up for court and so a bench warrant was issued. Once the circumstance surrounding my reason for missing that court appearance were proven to the court, the FTA was dropped, I paid my fine, and I went on my way.
Nice cops, nice judge and I turned myself in as soon as I got out of the hospital. Real exciting stuff.
I agree with 147 above. BS's responses are BS. If you have to appear for a traffic violation, you know that in advance, it's not a surprise, so the minute you find out you are having surgery, you contact whoever you need to contact and let them know you are unable to attend. Or you have surgery on a different day. Trying to pretend there was nothing you could do is ridiculous. Take some responsibility and stop lurching around fucking up your life and then act like there was nothing else you could have done.
That's the first time I've posted in this space, 346. Try again. How can you not see BS's justification and deflection? It's as predictable as childofgrace's dumb dishware threads or Enough's Obama-is-the-devil threads. May 29, 2013 at 9:13 PM
Doesn't matter how many times you pick at the bone on *THIS* thread. You think there's a pattern, I think there's a bone. LOL
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150 why are you so worried about her business? Because she share it? People asked (yes, I've asked).
Oh no you don't own who you are. You have members here who act like calling each other cunt all day is an elegant tea party.
What do I get out of it? That is a good question, probably the only intelligent one ever asked here. Partly I want people to hear my story. Shit can happen to people and if any of this kind of shit happens to any one, including people who are raving bitches to me, then maybe some how they can learn something from it. For example I know how to step by step help someone fight an educational neglect charge. Sometimes I feel like venting because there is a lot of shit that is unfair and I get pissed off just like everyone else.
So now 348 what do YOU get out of coming to a smack blog and talking shit about people and then not owning up to it? And what does anyone get out of acting like this is some close-knit country club that is members only? Most of you don't even know who the other is.
And I'm a big girl, I can take shit. I've been taking it my whole life. But I can hand it back too and that is what the whiners on here seem to have a problem with. I don't see what is enjoyable about post 2 : you are a cunt, post 3: you are a fatass, post 4: post 1 MUST be (insert name of pea here). I don't participate in that crap because I think it is stupid. But a bunch of you here think that isn't low brow.
Ever hear of emergency surgery 350? Funny, the judge was familiar with the concept. It was not a big deal, but you just keep on believing that I am some serial killer or whatever bullshit you have convinced yourself must be true.
Of course it was an "emergency" they rushed you right into the OR with no warning because you would die if you didn't have surgery right.this.minute. On the same day as your court case, what a co-incidence! You are so full of crap.
"I'm sure I don't need to tell you this, but here's the deal. You control what is online about you. So, you also control who you take shit from online. Because if you don't put it out there, connected to your user name, then you don't have to take shit about it."
You're an asshole and it's all Banana's fault. I know a rape victim if you'd like to tell her that it was her fault she got raped because she had control over what she put on that day.
Well my appendix was about to rupture so my doc didn't think I needed to stand in the long line while waiting to have my court case called and then come in for the surgery. But hey, you obviously know way more than the hospital's ER, Surgical Team, and eventually the courts since they accepted my paperwork from my doc as proof. I'll make sure they know that anonymous number 354 on a Smack Blog needs to approve any and all surgeries on either an inpatient or outpatient basis from here on out. Fuck my insurance company, my pre-approvals must come from 354.
No 158 that not the reason. There's other reasons why that claim is BS. You keep spinning your stories and deluding yourself that people are buying your lies but they really aren't.
148/348 I'm not trying to answer for her but I do believe her first (not anon at least lol) reply here was to defend herself. It's been done before, it'll be done again by others. Big deal.
It then became dialogue for some and other became hateful even more because they could. Simple...
Yes 360, because people are assholes and it's all Banana's fault that they are. They just can't control themselves and it's all her fault that they can't.
She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts.
WASHINGTON – Many people who buy their own health insurance could get surprises in the mail this fall: cancellation notices because their current policies aren't up to the basic standards of President Obama's health care law.
They, and some small businesses, will have to find replacement plans — and that has some state insurance officials worried about consumer confusion.
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It's "affordable health care" NOT "affordable health insurance...
Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told? ________________________________
Because ONE time one of the "popular" peas did that so now every other pea who WANTS to be a top-tier pea has to do it.
Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra.
164 Anonymous said... 164 Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told? ________________________________
Because ONE time one of the "popular" peas did that so now every other pea who WANTS to be a top-tier pea has to do it.
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Geesh. Take a chill-pill.
I've done it and I'm an invisible pea. I wasn't even aware a "top-tier" pea did it first.
To answer the original question, I have done it a couple of times because it doesn't take much for a thread to go south over nothing.
I remember asking a simple, totally random question late one night (with NO "Fluff Post" disclaimer in the title). I think is was about food or pets or some other mundane thing.
Anyway, after a couple of peas answered, someone took the time to post that it was "a stupid question", " a waste of time", "just Google it", "you're stupid", "you're and uneducated idiot" blah, blah, blah, Then a slew of others started pouncing and saying the same thing. Over night It became a 2-3 page mudslinger about wasting peoples time. It was really weird.
From then on, IF I start a thread (which is really really rare), and I think it's a silly, "fluff" post, I'll put that in the title or the body of the post. It seems to help eliminate the snark and faux-hostility.
I guess I should qualify that statement and say that while I agree that China has some very lax food safety standards, and I would be and am worried about eating food produced there, the "oh the Chinese are trying to take over our country one pig farm at a time,whatever shall we do" bullshit on that thread is where my comment about paranoia came from.
"No 158 that not the reason. There's other reasons why that claim is BS. You keep spinning your stories and deluding yourself that people are buying your lies but they really aren't."
I agree with this statement. Everything she says sounds like bullshit.
Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra. May 30, 2013 at 6:10 AM
"Not about you." LOL THIS made me laugh. Scroll or start a new bash but YOU brought her up.
I would have sent my husband to court with a doctor's note in hopes that the judge would give a new court date. I would do whatever it takes to avoid being arrested and having my mug shot on the internet.
It's pretty irresponsible that she didn't call or send anyone to court to represent her.
Now I understand why she has so many problems with CPS and her family and why she gets so hostile when others point out her mistakes.
Ok, 376, I made a mistake. I did not handle the traffic violation in the most perfect way possible. As a matter of fact I should not have even had a traffic violation. That was my fault and I own that. When my appendix needed to come out, the perfect way to handle everything else in the world wasn't exactly first and foremost in my mind. I wish I were like you and had the ability to do the perfect thing in every circumstance all the time. Luckily, the judge that I dealt with was more understanding than people here, otherwise I guess I would still be in jail for running a stop sign and missing my court date. I was lucky that they allowed me to turn myself in, process me, and then immediately released me on my own recognizance.
I had ONE problem with CPS. ONE. That is not "so many".
There's always an excuse with you, bananalady. It is always someone else's fault. How about you take a look in the mirror and take some personal responsibility for a change? And also, how about you stop defending yourself to a bunch of internet strangers and focus on the real issues in your life? Aka get off the internet.
Whose fault is it that my appendix had to come out? I guess mine. Whose fault is it that I yielded at a stop sign instead of coming to a complete stop? That was 100% my fault. I take responsibility for things that are under my control.
379, I do try to keep bananas on hand now but my kids eat the hell out of them. I just don't ever offer to do things for kids in the neighborhood anymore. That is the part I guess I have the most trouble with. When my mother claimed her husband was abusing her and she needed to get away from him ASAP, I tried to "rescue" her. He harassed the living shit out of me and my grandparents and then she went back to him and she shit all over those of us who helped her. I should have learned my lesson. But no, I fucked up again and tried to help my mil. And she turned around and shit on me too. Obviously my judgment on who I should help and who I should just let rot needs to be tweaked.
And 380, you think I'm not focused on the real issues in my life? What more do you think I should be doing? I tried to catch the neighbor last night, dh said she only comes outside to get her newspaper in the afternoon. So I waited on the front porch reading. And she got in her car and drove around to the front of her house and picked up her paper. I'll try again this afternoon. Otherwise, I can only let my attorney do his job and wait for my next court date. I spend time with my kids and my friends and I get on the internet (the horror!).
And again what am I attempting to deflect your attention to? Please look up the meaning of the word deflect before using it again. It hurts when people use words they don't know the meaning of.
Re: The Pope says everyone, even atheists, "redeemed." Thread.
Is DesertPea an alter for another or previous Pea? She certainly qualifies as "hostile" on that thread. She keeps talking in circles. I don't know how the atheists are keeping up with her loops.
Appendix out? Wow my spread sheet is way off I thought the first arrest had something to do with shoplifting. My bad. But seriously BL you need to take a long slow look at your life. You are a drama magnet whether you wish to admit it or not. I still don't believe you on the whole ID thief thing.
If you really wanted to talk to your neighbor you would go and knock on her door. You're making excuses again. "It's HER fault because she drove to get her paper."
You knew she was home, put your big girl pants on and knock on the door.
I don't want to knock on her door and disturb her. I'd rather just catch her outside. There is no law stating that I HAVE to explain my homeschooling to her so I 'm not making a special trip to do so. I want to catch her outside, exactly the way she has done both my husband and our friend.
And god no 383, I have never shoplifted. I haven't ever stolen anything. May I ask what evidence has convinced you of my guilt of ID theft? Or is evidence something you don't think is necessary to determine guilt or innocence?
Is DesertPea an alter for another or previous Pea? She certainly qualifies as "hostile" on that thread. She keeps talking in circles. I don't know how the atheists are keeping up with her loops. *************************** No, she's been posting her nonsense for years under that peaname. Remember this gem? She lives in a desert bunker, holed up with guns, gold, the Tanakh (not to be confused with the Torah or the OT), and apparently a laptop.
185 banana lady said... 185 I don't want to knock on her door and disturb her. I'd rather just catch her outside. There is no law stating that I HAVE to explain my homeschooling to her so I 'm not making a special trip to do so. I want to catch her outside, exactly the way she has done both my husband and our friend.
She obviously wants nothing to do with you. You need to let it go before she has you arrested for harassment/assault, because I am sure with your attitude, you would hit her.
Yeah, that is my MO. I go around hitting old ladies. Google away, you will NEVER find anything related to me and shoplifting. You people really like to make shit up as you go along.
Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra. May 30, 2013 at 6:10 AM
"Not about you." LOL THIS made me laugh. Scroll or start a new bash but YOU brought her up. May 30, 2013 at 9:04 AM
Oh yeah. Too much protesting. You sure do love bitching about her.
She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts. ******************************************
Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
196 Anonymous said... 196 She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts. ******************************************
Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
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Right because it is perfectly normal to have your mil accuse you of ID theft, have an appendix attack on the same day you should be in court, have a neighbor call CPS on you, have another neighbor - in a completely different city be all up in your business about home schooling and to spend all day refreshing some lame ass smack blog to see if 1) some anonymous person is talking about you and 2) take the time to actually respond back.
Right because it is perfectly normal to have your mil accuse you of ID theft, have an appendix attack on the same day you should be in court, have a neighbor call CPS on you, have another neighbor - in a completely different city be all up in your business about home schooling and to spend all day refreshing some lame ass smack blog to see if 1) some anonymous person is talking about you and 2) take the time to actually respond back.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 515 Newer› Newest»I would never post that photo of my child. Her mouth is smirky and her body posture is too weird. Is it sexual? I can see where others think that, but I think it's the smirk on her face that makes my stomach hurl.
So you all can feel that way about a 4 year old but sweetshabbyroses is a perv for feeling people should have a shirt on in the living room with other fully clothed people eating lunch? That's pretty hypocritical of you.
No, she's a judgmental bitch for singling out a developing 13-year-old. If everybody else wore a t-shirt or cover-up and the teenager didn't, it would be a different story. But singling out the teenager, as she did, is woman-shaming.
Not really #2, the 4yo was purposely posed that way, the 13yo was changed for the pool and eating. She's probably totally unaware of how much her body has change, or in denial still wanting to be one of the kids.
That pose the 4yo is in is a total boudoir pose.
If you can't, or won't see the difference between an innocent action on the part of the 13yo and and dumbass mom posing her 4yo that way you're idiot.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237813
Really Red must be a total negative person to be around. And why must she continue to mention that she is a single mother in almost every post. Does she think she is the only one? Or does it somehow make her problems more special?
If you see a difference between the mom posing the 4 year old that way and the mom of the 13 year old with an adult body not telling her to put a shirt on in the living room you are an idiot.
What I see is someone who wants nothing more than to argue with strangers over stupid shit.... points at 206.
I bet that 13-year old kid was showing about 1/8" of her boob on that bikini top and the poster just started frothing at the mouth about it.
But let's put the mother of this 13-year old child on the stake here, afterall, she is not buying "proper attire" that fits for her maturing 13-year old daughter. THE MOTHER NEEDS TO BE CRUCIFIED!
This is hell on earth! You all will suffer! Satans work just has started!
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I'm not worried, cuz I'm doin' the back stroke in a big ole pool of Jesus blood. :P
200 Anonymous said... 200
Yes 197, she was not including you because of your high horse and frothing bitch fat ass.
May 28, 2013 at 9:35 AM
Freak out much?
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This is hell on earth! You all will suffer! Satans work just has started!
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I'm not worried, cuz I'm doin' the back stroke in a big ole pool of Jesus blood. :P
May 28, 2013 at 10:59 AM
His work has just started? THIS is funny.
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If you see a difference between the mom posing the 4 year old that way and the mom of the 13 year old with an adult body not telling her to put a shirt on in the living room you are an idiot.
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I seriously hope this is sarcasm. If not, well, you can't fix stupid.
THE MOTHER NEEDS TO BE CRUCIFIED!
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Just like the mother of the 4 yo in the picture.
200 Anonymous said... 200
Yes 197, she was not including you because of your high horse and frothing bitch fat ass.
May 28, 2013 at 9:35 AM
Freak out much?
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Who's freaking out?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237735
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The point is you can't bash sweetshabbyroses for sexualizing a 13 year old after sexualizing a 4 year old yourself. It's hypocritical.
The point is you can't bash sweetshabbyroses for sexualizing a 13 year old after sexualizing a 4 year old yourself. It's hypocritical.
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It would be if the circumstances were the same, they are not, not even close. Again, you can't fix stupid.
The point is you can't bash sweetshabbyroses for sexualizing a 13 year old after sexualizing a 4 year old yourself. It's hypocritical.
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It would be if the circumstances were the same, they are not, not even close. Again, you can't fix stupid.
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Also there is that minor detail of assuming that it is the same posters making those comments.
"It would be if the circumstances were the same, they are not, not even close."
True. Sweetshabbyroses didn't sexualize anyone. Just thought she should wear a shirt for lunch.
Blog bitches on the other hand did exactly that. Even used the word sexualized to describe the picture.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3237827
Here we go again with the peas RAVING about how good of a cook PW is. Yeah if you like Cream o Crap type foods.
The thead about the child with autism and the haircut will be a 10-pager by this evening, just watch!
Blog bitches on the other hand did exactly that. Even used the word sexualized to describe the picture.
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Did you see the pic? The first time I saw it, I got an icky, uncomfortable feeling. Not a pose that a child should be posing in.
"Did you see the pic? The first time I saw it, I got an icky, uncomfortable feeling. Not a pose that a child should be posing in."
Aaaand there it is.
The same thought process that sweetshabbyroses is being called a pervert for.
There is a reason the book club will never go anywhere. One person needs to just post saying "here is how it is going to go, these are the rules" and quit asking questions. There are way too many people, someone will get all butt-hurt over how it is being run. Someone will always complain about the book selected. It is the peas, they can't just be happy about it, they have to ruin it.
Well, I guess I am a pervert and old fashioned, as I don't think a 4 year old needs to pose in a provocative position, with her body arched, a smirk on her face, holding a red rose, laying on a piano. Too much.
She's not holding a red rose or laying on a piano. That's all in your head.
25 Anonymous said... 25
Well, I guess I am a pervert and old fashioned, as I don't think a 4 year old needs to pose in a provocative position,
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I don't think you are a pervert. I also don't think sweetshabbyroses is a pervert or that there is anything wrong with either of your opinions on the matter.
23 Anonymous said... 23
"Did you see the pic? The first time I saw it, I got an icky, uncomfortable feeling. Not a pose that a child should be posing in."
Aaaand there it is.
The same thought process that sweetshabbyroses is being called a pervert for.
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ffs you are arguing just to argue. Can't you see the difference between a child being posed into an inappropriate photo and a 13yo how has developed quickly? The 13yo wasn't being posed by anyone. She was simply trying to hang out with the kids.
fwiw I'm guessing shabbyrose is over selling the "tiny" part of the suit. She just seems like an over invested drama queen looking to be righteously offended.
God forbid some poor girls body matures faster then her mental age.
She's not holding a red rose or laying on a piano. That's all in your head.
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My apologies. It is a white flower, and I don't know what she is laying on. I still stand by what I said, it is totally inappropriate. The pic is in this op's siggy...
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3227643
"ffs you are arguing just to argue. Can't you see the difference between a child being posed into an inappropriate photo and a 13yo how has developed quickly?"
I have a point to make just as you do. Should I say ffs you are arguing just to argue because you would like your point to be heard just as I would like mine to be?
Can't you see the similarities between a child being posed and a 13 yo being half naked?
I just looked at the photo of the 4 year old. Ok she's holding what appears to be a white daisy and she is reclining. To me the pose looks awkward - the smirk on her face is what bugs me the most. I don't find it particularly sexual -more strangely awkward like someone posed her that way. I would say its weirdly inappropriate, but the child appears to be challenging the viewer. It reminds me of some really bad high school graduation photos I've seen.
As a victim of child molestation I can tell you that it doesn't matter what you wear or don't wear, a pervert doesn't care. BUT I do know that after I was abused I became very ashamed of my body and have always been a prude when it comes to clothing choices. I rarely if ever wore shorts in public. I also tend to see the worst or most sexual connotation of a situation involving children because I was myself was abused. I always kept a close eye on my kids and avoided overly sexual situations or clothing for them.
I have thought that about the picture of the 4 yo since the first time I saw it. Inappropriate.
16 Anonymous said... 16
The point is you can't bash sweetshabbyroses for sexualizing a 13 year old after sexualizing a 4 year old yourself. It's hypocritical.
May 28, 2013 at 11:17 AM
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FFS 34, you can't fix stupid. Too bad stupid doesn't hurt.
It would be if the circumstances were the same, they are not, not even close. Again, you can't fix stupid.
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Also there is that minor detail of assuming that it is the same posters making those comments.
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There you go, with your logic and facts and shit.
BOTH SIDES DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!1!!!!!!11!!
FFS 34, you can't fix stupid. Too bad stupid doesn't hurt.
I know right! Too bad they don't see the hypocrisy.
23 Anonymous said... 23
"Did you see the pic? The first time I saw it, I got an icky, uncomfortable feeling. Not a pose that a child should be posing in."
Aaaand there it is.
The same thought process that sweetshabbyroses is being called a pervert for.
May 28, 2013 at 12:52 PM
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Oh no, it's totally different when they do it. Facts and logic and all, you gotta know by now, they don't apply here.
1. Girl at a BBQ, changed for swimming and proceded to eat lunch in her suit (in the house), doing what all the other kids are doing.
2. Young girl that mom posed into a provocative pose, giving a smirky look (some might say bedroom look, if she were older).
Yep, looks like it is the exact same situation//sarcasm
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237735
Serious question: If this was just a normal scared kid, he would be a brat...but since his is an autistic scared kid, it's ok that he was screaming? I honestly don't get it. Why can't grace be extended to any scared kid?
1. Half naked well developed 13 year old girl running around a group of fully dressed adults sitting and eating their lunch.
2. Young girl that mom posed into a provocative pose, giving a smirky look (some might say bedroom look, if she were older).
Yep, looks like it is the exact same inappropriate situation.
1. Well developed (some might say half naked) 13 year old girl running around a group of fully dressed adults sitting and eating their lunch.
2. Young girl that mom posed into a provocative pose, giving a smirky look (some might say bedroom look, if she were older).
Yep, looks like it is the exact same inappropriate situation.
May 28, 2013 at 3:21 PM
Fixed it.
White flag. You win. No point to trying to point out logic and facts to idiots.
"No point to trying to point out logic and facts to idiots."
Alrighty then. I'll stop doing that then.
Oh my heart cat! Could you have taken the $68 to the salon for a hair makeover instead?
I will be the first to say here she looks decent with clothes on LOL
I don't like the white shoes with the black hose, 46. Isn't that a fashion no no?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237865
How does she keep finding these people in her life and what kind of town has curfews like that for children?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237872
" at a 2 car vehicular accident "
Isn't one of those words redundant?
Poor Berrysmoothie. No matter what she does, someone is always after her. Paranoid much?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237816
Batya must be having a cow. Everybody KNOWS she's the arbiter of all things literary at the bucket. @@ I wonder how long it'll be before she tries to take over.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237883
Huh?
What is so hard to understand? Her son is a deadbeat, so she now has custody of her grandson, and she had to sell everything she could to make money to support him.
If you are here berrysmoothie, how is your court case going? Any word yet?
Heartcat'a outfits were ugly and dated. Who wears black hose anymore? And those red shoes? And the open toed shoes with the nylons? Fugly!
Don't ask her that, 254. She will NEVER leave if you do!
She's not here now 56.
Re berrysmoothie - what are her other legal troubles? Her name sounds familiar but I can't remember any details!
Oh gawd, let's not start the whole berrysmoothie thing again. She'll show up to justify and deflect, justify and deflect. It was bad enough the first two or three times around.
She posts here as bananalady. Her mother-in-law gave the district attorney proof of berrysmoothie stealing her identity had she was arrested and charged for identity theft. I believe she was arrested before this also.
And 259 is correct, she does justify and deflect over and over again. She gets really annoying pretty quick. She is not that smart.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237865
Here's her "poor me" story and how we rip her apart for everything, LOL!
I would never tell strangers about what happened to me on a message board. That's just stupid of her to do.
I never left here and I live in a shitty town. I also live in a dry county which I think is stupid and I live in a state that still has Sunday blue laws and has passed some of the stupidest legislation in the country this year.
And I don't see the point in hiding what is publicly available information. It's out there. And just for shits and giggles, since ya'll act like the previous charge is such a BFD it was a failure to appear on a traffic violation because I had to have surgery that day. It was cleared up when the court found out what happened and that is why you can't find any details about it online.
And try not to confuse justification with explanation. If people ask me questions I tend to answer them. And whether "you" would do that or not has zero bearing on what I should or shouldn't do. You make your own choices and I'll make mine. It doesn't equal superiority on your behalf or mine, it is just different. And why people have such issue with people having differences is one thing I will never get.
But carry on, I have bigger fish to fry.
"And why people have such issue with people having differences is one thing I will never get."
Me either. They expect everyone to follow along like sheep.
61 Anonymous said... 61
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237865
Here's her "poor me" story and how we rip her apart for everything, LOL!
I would never tell strangers about what happened to me on a message board. That's just stupid of her to do.
May 28, 2013 at 8:28 PM
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That's funny, she didn't say the blog liked to rip her for it. Maybe she meant people in her shitty town?
Anyway, I like her. She's articulate and probably a better teacher than MrsT LOL
Yes 61, I did mean people in my town. One of the people who I thought was a friend of mine sent my mug shot to everyone we went to high school with. Guess she hadn't planned on me finding out about it from one of my real friends.
Times like these, you really find out who your friends are. Wish that wasn't such a painful process but what can you do?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237903
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wth
Maybe if we ignore bananafartlady, she will go away.
67 Anonymous said... 67
Maybe if we ignore bananafartlady, she will go away.
May 29, 2013 at 4:08 AM
I bet her children are more mature than you are.
(No, I'm not her. It's a shame that the clueless have to have it explained to them that it's not just one poster here).
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237924
I don't care who you are, that thread title is hilarious......my mil's cousin's neighbor's dog died. Dog worshippers are idiots.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237923
No we don't need more idiotic proof that you're a baseball fan. We already know you're a loser.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237896
Just when I think KristenL16 can't get any dumber she does.
Aww. c'mo 279, dontcha know Cecilia rides the short bus? WE aint allowed to smack her because she's 'nice'.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237924
My great uncle's step niece's best friend had a stray barn cat die last night.
Off to post so I can get my accolades and sympathy.
Well I tested my family last night. I put my bikini on last night and served dinner. I sat down and ate with them. I told them I was going swimming after we ate, but they all thought I was strange. I told them to stop treating me like a sex object though.
Yes because that is the exact situation that shabbyrose was describing 74.
I don't smack Cecilia because she isn't your typical pea. She isn't always trying to portray this perfect facade to the the pod. She doesn't always post poor me posts, or look at what a super kind and intelligent person I am.
72 Anonymous said... 72
Aww. c'mo 279, dontcha know Cecilia rides the short bus? WE aint allowed to smack her because she's 'nice'.
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There hasn't even been a 279th post yet.
She can see into the future 77.
"I told them I was going swimming after we ate, but they all thought I was strange."
And they know you are an idiot. Just another normal day with you I'm sure.
I can do one better. I put my bikini on before dinner, went for a swim and then served dinner in my wet bikini. We all know a wet bikini shows more than a dry bikini.
I don't smack Cecilia because she isn't your typical pea. She isn't always trying to portray this perfect facade to the the pod. She doesn't always post poor me posts, or look at what a super kind and intelligent person I am.
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I agree with this.
Maybe if we ignore bananafartlady, she will go away.
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Yay! It's working! AMEN!
No 82 she's teaching.
As for Cecilia, she's hardly on the short bus since she does have a degree or two(?) in "something" (i forget what lol).
As for the bikini, no one cares if you're not RUNNING around like you are just 2 or 3 years old and tripping in front of people. I'm hoping it at least fit? [adding to your sarcasm].
As soon as I saw the word 'homeschoolong' my eyes glazed over.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237865
I don't know what possessed me, but I read on. This woman lives in a fantasy world of plots, schemes and victimhood.
What is so hard to understand? Her son is a deadbeat, so she now has custody of her grandson, and she had to sell everything she could to make money to support him.
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She's going to rely on God, and Paypal. Gullible peas have donated in the past.
"Well I tested my family last night. I put my bikini on last night and served dinner. I sat down and ate with them. I told them I was going swimming after we ate, but they all thought I was strange. I told them to stop treating me like a sex object though"
Ha!
Agree 84 and I can't believe this part of her story:
"There is nothing for kids to do in this town. They aren't allowed to go the movies in groups larger than 2 and then not at all past 9:00 pm. The bowling alley never has lanes available for anyone other than the adult bowling leagues and even if they did, they do not allow groups of kids greater than 2."
What fucking town is this? I have never heard of such bullshit.
I can't possibly see that movie theater thing as being true. Our local theater probably makes most of it's money off teens going to shows. They seem to be the majority of patrons.
And seriously if 3 groups of 2 kids show up do they only let the first couple in? How could you enforce that?
It makes no sense at all.
As far as the bowling alley ours is always busy and it's mainly with league bowlers. It has noting to do with keeping teens down. There isn't a lot of free bowling time for anyone.
i guess I am not understanding how JRenae is saying that she is just a good parent and crap happens. I think CPS should have investigated a toddler that had prescription pills in their system. By accident or not, that seems investigation worthy.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237865
jrenae is an idiot. I'm surprised that at the time it happened she didn't post a "funny" photo and bump it constantly.
If I were her I won't have even mentioned it now, especially not to try and make whacko berrysmoothie like she's done nothing wrong.
You can't have that much drama in your life without starting some of it.
Sec. 17.5-21. Short title.
This article shall be known as the Minor Curfew Ordinance.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 2, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-22. Findings and purpose.
The board of directors of the city finds that special circumstances exist within the city that call for the special regulation of minors within the city in order to protect them from each other and from other persons on the street during the nocturnal hours and during normal school hours, whether public, private or home schooling, to aid in crime prevention, to promote parental supervision and authority over minors and to decrease nocturnal crime rates and crime rates during school hours.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 3, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,825, § 1, 1-3-95)
Sec. 17.5-23. Definitions.
For purposes of the Minor Curfew Ordinance, the following terms, phrases, words and their derivations shall have the meanings [ascribed to them by this section]:
(a) City is the City of Little Rock, Arkansas.
(b) Emancipated minor means a minor who no longer has a parent-child relationship as a result of marriage, or as a result of being recognized as an adult by order of a court of competent jurisdiction.
(c) Legitimate parentally approved errand means a minor performing a necessary task at the direction of the minor's parent, and that the nonperformance of the errand, or delay of performance until after curfew hours have abated, would result in injury or undue hardship.
(d) Minor is any unemancipated or unmarried person under the age of eighteen (18) years of age.
(e) Parent is any person having legal custody of a minor (i) as a natural parent, (ii) as an adoptive parent, (iii) as a legal guardian, (iv) as a person to whom legal custody has been given by order of the court.
(f) Public place means a publicly or privately owned place to which the public or substantial numbers of people have access. A public place does not include the residence of a minor or, the residence of a minor's parent or a responsible adult.
(g) Responsible adult means a person at least twenty-one (21) years of age to whom a parent has expressly given permission to accompany a minor.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 4, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-24. Curfew for minors.
(a) It shall be unlawful for any minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate or be a passenger of any automobile, bicycle, or other vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places between the hours of 10:00 p.m. and 5:00 a.m., Sunday through Thursday, or 12:00 midnight and 5:00 a.m., Friday and Saturday.
(b) It shall be unlawful for any minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate or be a passenger of any automobile, bicycle, or other vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places:
(1) Between the hours of 9:00 a.m. and 3:45 p.m., when the public schools are in session; or
(2) If the hours in subsection (1) are different from the hours of a regular school day at the school where the minor is registered to attend, the time between the normal start time and normal dismissal time for students at the school where the minor is registered to attend.
(c) It shall be unlawful for any parent to permit a minor to be upon the streets, sidewalks, parks, playgrounds, public places and vacant lots, or to ride in or upon, drive or otherwise operate, a vehicle in, upon, over or through the streets, or other public places as set forth in subsections (a) or (b). The fact that a minor is in violation of the provisions of subsections (a) or (b) hereinabove, without a defense as set forth in section 17.5-25, shall create a rebuttable presumption that a parent is in violation of this subsection.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 5, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,825, § 2, 1-3-95; Ord. No. 18,629, § 1, 1-2-02)
Sec. 17.5-25. Exceptions to curfew.
(a) Notwithstanding the provisions of section 17.5-24, the Minor Curfew Ordinance does not apply:
(1) At any time a minor that is accompanied by a parent, or by a responsible adult authorized by a parent to take the parent's place to accompany the minor for a designated period of time and purpose within a specified area.
(2) If the minor is employed, for a period of time forty-five (45) minutes after work, provided that circumstances suggest the minor is returning from work to a place of residence.
(3) When a minor is returning home from an activity that is supervised by adults and sponsored by the city, a civic organization, a public or private school, or any entity that takes responsibility for the minor, provided that the activity has not concluded for more than forty-five (45) minutes.
(4) At any time the minor is on a legitimate parentally approved errand.
(5) At any time the minor is on a trip in interstate commerce.
(6) At any time the minor is required to leave a residence because of an emergency.
(7) At any time the minor is engaged in an activity that is protected by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, or the freedom of speech, religion or expression provisions in Article II of the Arkansas Constitution.
(b) If a minor being questioned about the possible violation of the Minor Curfew Ordinance provides a law enforcement officer with sufficient reason to believe that the minor is entitled to an exemption under subsection (a) above, the law enforcement officer shall take no more enforcement actions under this article, provided the officer may make a report of the minor's identity, the exemption claimed, and other necessary information to note the possible violation of this article.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 6, 1-4-94)
Sec. 17.5-26. Penalties and law enforcement.
(a) A minor found to be in violation of this article shall be subject to penalties provided in section 1-9 of the Little Rock, Arkansas, Revised Code of Ordinances, or to such other disposition including suspension, probation, or conditions for suspension for probation, as determined by the judge of the district court in accordance with Arkansas law.
(b) A parent of a minor charged with violation of this article may be notified of such violation and required to appear before the district court for any hearing which involves the minor.
(c) At the discretion of the law enforcement officer, any minor arrested or cited for violation of the Minor Curfew Ordinance may be released to immediately return home or to school, may be escorted to their home or school, or may be taken into custody and delivered to an appropriate location, or juvenile authority, to be held until a parent can be located to take custody of the minor.
(d) Nothing in this section shall preclude a law enforcement officer from taking any or all appropriate actions for a minor's violation of any other local or state law.
(Ord. No. 16,564, § 7, 1-4-94; Ord. No. 16,602, § 1, 2-15-94; Ord. No. 18,548, § 1, 8-21-01)
THAT is for the "big 'ole town of Little Rock".
Thanks for posting that, Berrysmoothie. Maybe you should move to the country where you have no neighbors and you can let your kids go outside.
There's usually no internet access in the country, but consider that a blessing for all of us!
Damn you're dumb 95. EVERYONE has google; bananalady did NOT post that. SMH
Now run along and buy your walmart shit (from the state that ships your crap and shouldn't have internet access). LOL
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Switch or be a pansy!
"I think CPS should have investigated a toddler that had prescription pills in their system. By accident or not, that seems investigation worthy."
They did. Didn't you read? It was ruled an accident after CPS investigated.
The Innocence Project, really? Smdh.
I also don't live in Little Rock but a smaller town. But thanks to the poster who looked that up.
And yes, I have been busy teaching. Some of us actually spend all day doing productive things. Really.
98 - I did read & saw that they did. I guess I was commenting that they should have and it wasn't an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason.
Now run along and buy your walmart shit (from the state that ships your crap and shouldn't have internet access). LOL
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I don't shop at Walmart, you cunt.
I'm starting to think that berrysmoothie is the hostile bitch that posts here. You know, the one that has to have the last word and has a fucking stick up her ass.
101: Hey, Jrenae is annoying, but if her story is true, how is it not an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason? I know this is the smack blog, but I guess since I've had a family member falsely accused of something and then cleared, I'm thinking fairly here how it does happen.
And yes, I have been busy teaching. Some of us actually spend all day doing productive things. Really.
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I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
"I'm thinking fairly here"
No. We can't allow that to happen here.
"I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone."
She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
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"I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone."
She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
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Yeah, I love how people are assholes and then people dish it right back at them and get called trolls for it. I see it all over the bucket and no it's migrated here. It's bullshit.
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Now run along and buy your walmart shit (from the state that ships your crap and shouldn't have internet access). LOL
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I don't shop at Walmart, you cunt.
May 29, 2013 at 12:29 PM
Couldn't really tell, you know, with all that class you exude.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237996
She got what she wanted. Love Labs took the bait.
3 posts lol, I guess her Saltymom wouldn't post for her anymore.
That sure was a short engagement.
Yeah I can be bitchy right back. But isn't that true of everyone here at a smack blog? Sorry if people are offended that I am not all sunshine and roses while taking shit from people online and real life. If you aren't being bitchy to me then my snark isn't aimed at you. Since everyone here is Anonymous I can't cherry pick and tell who is being an ass and who isn't.
No, 111, but your attitude shines through loud and clear.
LOL @ 112 - You're a peach! (No, I'm not BL)
Hey, Jrenae is annoying, but if her story is true, how is it not an example of an innocent parent being crucified for no plausible reason?
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She wasn't "crucified". She was investigated. And I'm sorry but I agree with 101 and if a toddler shows up at the ER with a controlled substance in his system, an investigation from CPS is warranted. Can you imagine if they didn't and the kid died because the mom had say Munchhausen by proxy and was giving him prescription meds to make him seem sick?
"Couldn't really tell, you know, with all that class you exude. "
Honey, you are no better. If anything, you are worse than the person calling you a cunt.
Here is the thing though, if you have never been investigated by CPS then you really don't understand the nightmare they can make your life. When I had to go through all of it before the woman who called it in couldn't get anybody to just come out and investigate us homeschooling so she embellished her story. She claimed we locked our kids out of the house for hours at a time, that we had no food in our house and that they couldn't read or do math. It was easy to prove it all false, the investigator saw that we had plenty of food, that the kids were in fact inside and when interviewed individually none of them were ever able to tell of an instance of being locked out of the house. They all also read to the woman and did some of their current math work in front of her. It was easily unfounded. But the hiccup came when they wanted to make sure we had all the i's dotted and t's crossed. The school districts claimed to have no record of any of my children although 2 of them had been enrolled in both the public school and a charter school for years. We were in the middle of moving and all my paperwork was boxed up and wasn't readily available. Now, I never box my paperwork up. And they not only wanted our current year's paperwork, they wanted 13 years of records. I had to go in person to 3 different schools and find someone to sign off that they did in fact have records of my kids and after that voila! the schools all managed to "find" the paperwork they claimed they didn't have before. It took hours of phone calls, driving around, cutting through red tape with schools who were very hostile about homeschooling. It all came out ok, but if you haven't been through it, you have no idea how horrible it feels to have someone threatening to take your kids away if you can't come up with one sheet of paper from 10 years ago.
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"Couldn't really tell, you know, with all that class you exude. "
Honey, you are no better. If anything, you are worse than the person calling you a cunt.
May 29, 2013 at 4:17 PM
LOL "Honey", you must not be able to read then.
Sooo because it was difficult for you, CPS should just not investigate?
I never said that. But I do cringe whenever the peas say oh call it in, CPS will figure it out. I think if you have to add to your story to get CPS to investigate and you are coming up with outright false claims, then MYOB. And I think expecting homeschoolers to meet standards that the public schools don't meet is ridiculous. CPS shouldn't be threatening to take kids away over a freaking sheet of paper. And if I never shared my story people would never know how ridiculous it can be. There may be one person out there right now who is currently thinking I am lying and calling me every name in the book who someday finds themselves where I've been. And I hope they can remember my story and know that it isn't just them, sometimes these agencies get overzealous. It's hard but it isn't impossible to prevail. But I truly hope it doesn't happen to anyone because it is awful.
"LOL "Honey", you must not be able to read then. "
Honey, you must be Tyler... always gotta have the last word.
I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
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This ^^^.
112 Anonymous said... 112
No, 111, but your attitude shines through loud and clear.
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Are you stupid? Everyone has an attitude here.
OMG Bananaboobs is back! ARGGGGGG who is responsible for letting the trash back in?????
121 Anonymous said... 121
I seriously don't understand you berrysmoothie. You write long posts explaining yourself and defending yourself, but then you just turn around and bitch and be mean to everyone. I used to actually defend you, and ask how you were holding up, but the more I read and see your posting style, the more I realize I need to stop feeding the trolls. Please step away from the computer and concentrate on your family. (and I mean that in a nice way, not snarky)
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This ^^^.
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She's probably responding to the asshole(s) being mean to her. Not everyone.
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No this ^^^.
OMG Bananaboobs is back! ARGGGGGG who is responsible for letting the trash back in?????
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Well, we know it's not Banana Lady, because Banana Lady isn't responsible for ANY of the bad things that happen to her.
I doubt anyone is calling CPS on her because she's such an excellent parent. One case I can understand, but two? And then add in the whole "I'm being prosecuted because MIL said so but there is no evidence against me" thing, and my b.s. meter is at 1,000,000.
The only people I've ever known with similar stories brought their drama on themselves.
I thought it was funny that enjoytotheend piped in on BerrySmoothie's thread to commiserate. Psychos in a pod, those two.
Really 123? You think you are too high brow for anyone on a smack blog? Talk about delusional.
Bananalady has previous charges too.
I actually agree with 123. She is trash.
I doubt anyone is calling CPS on her because she's such an excellent parent. One case I can understand, but two? And then add in the whole "I'm being prosecuted because MIL said so but there is no evidence against me" thing, and my b.s. meter is at 1,000,000.
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Don't forget that her neighbor stopped her visiting friend to "dress him down about us homeschooling." Or that she compares herself to people freed by the Innocence Project.
I think she's either a troll or has a personality disorder.
Yeah, there is something not right with Berrysmoothie.
Hey 125, I haven't had CPS called on me twice. Learn to read. Do I think some neighbor who is getting overly invested in my decision to homeschool is whackadoodle enough to do it? Well, it has happened before so hell yeah I think it is possible.
But since you haven't known anyone personally then it doesn't exist. The earth, people, it revolves around 125. And yes, that is snark and I am trying to make it specific to particular posters.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3238062
Big stretch on this one. I see a teapot with a handle, not a Hitler.
You see bananalady, your attitude in your post 131 really puts a bad light on you.
Every single person I've known who had CPS called on them deserved it. So do many more who haven't had CPS called on them. CPS, like animal services, can't be strict enough.
Have a nice night, fellow blog bitches. I have a chem midterm in the morning.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3238061
Do you really need to ask if your 15 year old needs to watch Lost? Nevermind, I guess you do seeing who the OP is.
I think I'm allowed to have an attitude to people who are being bitchy to me. I don't have to lay down and take it and I highly doubt any of you would. You'd just post some bitchy shit, sign it as anonymous and be fine with it. I'm not afraid to say it consistently under the same screen name. And if number whatever doesn't want to be my anonymous friend anymore I think I will probably live.
Loving all the armchair psychologists too. I have had shit for a decade so I knew I needed regular therapy. Trust me, you aren't going to pull off a diagnosis my own psych that I have been seeing for 10 years hasn't detected.
Really 123? You think you are too high brow for anyone on a smack blog? Talk about delusional.
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Not 123 but I'll chime in anyway.
You missed the point, none of us are too highbrow but we do think you are too low brow, there's a difference.
I doubt anyone is calling CPS on her because she's such an excellent parent. One case I can understand, but two?
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Just because you don't understand it doesn't make it untrue, just makes you either too stupid to understand anything or you don't get out much. I'll go with the first one.
Loving all the armchair psychologists too.
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You really should follow the advice that others are giving you, especially the one where you need to step away from the keyboard. You are acting rather bitchy. It doesn't matter if someone was bitchy to you, you are suppose to take the high road. Maybe this is why you have such legal problems, because you can't.
133 Anonymous said... 133
You see bananalady, your attitude in your post 131 really puts a bad light on you.
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OMG you are stupid. Find a friend and show them this blog and have them explain this blog to you.
Why am I supposed to take the high road? I'm the only person here who is supposed to do that? WTF? You people have spent like the past 2 weeks doing nothing but calling each other cunts anonymously. High road my ass.
And 340 +1,000,000.
120 Anonymous said... 120
"LOL "Honey", you must not be able to read then. "
Honey, you must be Tyler... always gotta have the last word.
May 29, 2013 at 5:45 PM
Seriously? You MUST be stupid, so lets see, I'll call you Scrappertastic...
So far you've called me Berriesmoothie, MrsT and a cunt. Yep, call me impressed.
It's not at all about the last word, it's about content and your inability to keep up. It's a good thing the vocabulary here is very limited.
Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told?
What were you arrested for in the past, Berrysmoothie? I remember someone saying you were arrested previous to this last incident.
For 344:
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It's out there. And just for shits and giggles, since ya'll act like the previous charge is such a BFD it was a failure to appear on a traffic violation because I had to have surgery that day. It was cleared up when the court found out what happened and that is why you can't find any details about it online.
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Justify and deflect, justify and deflect. What a loser.
I don't think she deflected anything LOL
I don't think she justified anything either, just answered a question for someone.
You are like a dog with a bone 145.
That's the first time I've posted in this space, 346. Try again. How can you not see BS's justification and deflection? It's as predictable as childofgrace's dumb dishware threads or Enough's Obama-is-the-devil threads.
Banana Lady/Berry Smoothy, you wrote this:
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Yeah I can be bitchy right back. But isn't that true of everyone here at a smack blog? Sorry if people are offended that I am not all sunshine and roses while taking shit from people online and real life. If you aren't being bitchy to me then my snark isn't aimed at you. Since everyone here is Anonymous I can't cherry pick and tell who is being an ass and who isn't.
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I'm sure I don't need to tell you this, but here's the deal. You control what is online about you. So, you also control who you take shit from online. Because if you don't put it out there, connected to your user name, then you don't have to take shit about it.
I don't know what benefit you get from all of this, but I firmly believe that as humans, we do things because we benefit from them in one way or another. It doesn't matter whether that benefit actually looks like a benefit from an outsider; in some way we do things that fulfill a need we have. I don't know what that need is for you and I never will.
But let's call this what it is - YOU control what others know about you online. YOU associate it with a username on a scrapbooking message board that would have otherwise not been known. To go one further, YOU also associated your story with a username on an anonymous smack board for the scrapbooking message board you frequent. YOU did that for a reason. And YOU get something from that.
So stop with the BS and stop acting as though this doesn't serve some purpose for you. We all agreed to smack anonymously and you just can't seem to help yourself. We all see it for what it is. So stop. Just stop.
Or don't. Just know you out yourself for being a bigger weirdo than anyone who would participate in anonymous smack on an anonymous smack board. We all own who we are. Do you?
You can call justify and deflect all day but what exactly am I deflecting your attention to? Do you know the meaning of deflect? And if answering someone's question is justifying then ok. I admit to running a stop sign and so I got ticketed for it. I'm not making any excuses for that. It was my first and only traffic offense so it isn't even on my driving record.
And 344 I already answered that question. But it was related to my running a stop sign. I didn't show up for court and so a bench warrant was issued. Once the circumstance surrounding my reason for missing that court appearance were proven to the court, the FTA was dropped, I paid my fine, and I went on my way.
Nice cops, nice judge and I turned myself in as soon as I got out of the hospital. Real exciting stuff.
I agree with 147 above. BS's responses are BS. If you have to appear for a traffic violation, you know that in advance, it's not a surprise, so the minute you find out you are having surgery, you contact whoever you need to contact and let them know you are unable to attend. Or you have surgery on a different day. Trying to pretend there was nothing you could do is ridiculous.
Take some responsibility and stop lurching around fucking up your life and then act like there was nothing else you could have done.
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That's the first time I've posted in this space, 346. Try again. How can you not see BS's justification and deflection? It's as predictable as childofgrace's dumb dishware threads or Enough's Obama-is-the-devil threads.
May 29, 2013 at 9:13 PM
Doesn't matter how many times you pick at the bone on *THIS* thread. You think there's a pattern, I think there's a bone. LOL
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150 why are you so worried about her business? Because she share it? People asked (yes, I've asked).
Good Luck BL - Screw the haters lol
Oh no you don't own who you are. You have members here who act like calling each other cunt all day is an elegant tea party.
What do I get out of it? That is a good question, probably the only intelligent one ever asked here. Partly I want people to hear my story. Shit can happen to people and if any of this kind of shit happens to any one, including people who are raving bitches to me, then maybe some how they can learn something from it. For example I know how to step by step help someone fight an educational neglect charge. Sometimes I feel like venting because there is a lot of shit that is unfair and I get pissed off just like everyone else.
So now 348 what do YOU get out of coming to a smack blog and talking shit about people and then not owning up to it? And what does anyone get out of acting like this is some close-knit country club that is members only? Most of you don't even know who the other is.
And I'm a big girl, I can take shit. I've been taking it my whole life. But I can hand it back too and that is what the whiners on here seem to have a problem with. I don't see what is enjoyable about post 2 : you are a cunt, post 3: you are a fatass, post 4: post 1 MUST be (insert name of pea here). I don't participate in that crap because I think it is stupid. But a bunch of you here think that isn't low brow.
Ever hear of emergency surgery 350? Funny, the judge was familiar with the concept. It was not a big deal, but you just keep on believing that I am some serial killer or whatever bullshit you have convinced yourself must be true.
Of course it was an "emergency" they rushed you right into the OR with no warning because you would die if you didn't have surgery right.this.minute.
On the same day as your court case, what a co-incidence!
You are so full of crap.
"I'm sure I don't need to tell you this, but here's the deal. You control what is online about you. So, you also control who you take shit from online. Because if you don't put it out there, connected to your user name, then you don't have to take shit about it."
You're an asshole and it's all Banana's fault.
I know a rape victim if you'd like to tell her that it was her fault she got raped because she had control over what she put on that day.
Well my appendix was about to rupture so my doc didn't think I needed to stand in the long line while waiting to have my court case called and then come in for the surgery. But hey, you obviously know way more than the hospital's ER, Surgical Team, and eventually the courts since they accepted my paperwork from my doc as proof. I'll make sure they know that anonymous number 354 on a Smack Blog needs to approve any and all surgeries on either an inpatient or outpatient basis from here on out. Fuck my insurance company, my pre-approvals must come from 354.
"Appendix about to rupture"...lol, you are such a fucking liar.
Yep,must be lying because it has never happened to you so it can't happen to anyone.
No 158 that not the reason.
There's other reasons why that claim is BS.
You keep spinning your stories and deluding yourself that people are buying your lies but they really aren't.
148/348 I'm not trying to answer for her but I do believe her first (not anon at least lol) reply here was to defend herself. It's been done before, it'll be done again by others. Big deal.
It then became dialogue for some and other became hateful even more because they could. Simple...
Yes 360, because people are assholes and it's all Banana's fault that they are. They just can't control themselves and it's all her fault that they can't.
She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts.
Control yourself.
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It's "affordable health care" NOT "affordable health insurance...
Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told?
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Because ONE time one of the "popular" peas did that so now every other pea who WANTS to be a top-tier pea has to do it.
Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra.
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Why do the peas feel the need to title their obvious fluff post, with "fluff post"? Don't we all know a fluff post when we see one, without having to be told?
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Because ONE time one of the "popular" peas did that so now every other pea who WANTS to be a top-tier pea has to do it.
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Geesh. Take a chill-pill.
I've done it and I'm an invisible pea. I wasn't even aware a "top-tier" pea did it first.
To answer the original question, I have done it a couple of times because it doesn't take much for a thread to go south over nothing.
I remember asking a simple, totally random question late one night (with NO "Fluff Post" disclaimer in the title). I think is was about food or pets or some other mundane thing.
Anyway, after a couple of peas answered, someone took the time to post that it was "a stupid question", " a waste of time", "just Google it", "you're stupid", "you're and uneducated idiot" blah, blah, blah, Then a slew of others started pouncing and saying the same thing. Over night It became a 2-3 page mudslinger about wasting peoples time. It was really weird.
From then on, IF I start a thread (which is really really rare), and I think it's a silly, "fluff" post, I'll put that in the title or the body of the post. It seems to help eliminate the snark and faux-hostility.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3238086
The paranoia on this thread is through the f'ing roof!
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http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3238086
The paranoia on this thread is through the f'ing roof!
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China has some lax safety rules and yes it does worry me.
Our dog became very sick and almost died, turned out to be due to chicken jerky treats made in China.
I guess I should qualify that statement and say that while I agree that China has some very lax food safety standards, and I would be and am worried about eating food produced there, the "oh the Chinese are trying to take over our country one pig farm at a time,whatever shall we do" bullshit on that thread is where my comment about paranoia came from.
"No 158 that not the reason.
There's other reasons why that claim is BS.
You keep spinning your stories and deluding yourself that people are buying your lies but they really aren't."
I agree with this statement. Everything she says sounds like bullshit.
162Anonymous said... 162 She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all.
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Actually, she does.
There was a thread on the overuse of the word "actually".
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Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra.
May 30, 2013 at 6:10 AM
"Not about you." LOL THIS made me laugh. Scroll or start a new bash but YOU brought her up.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3238053
I wonder why the photo of the boat is in black/white and not color. Usually, the image is converted to black/white to make it look cleaner.
It's pretty sad when you have to wish yourself a happy birthday on a message board.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3237949
I would have sent my husband to court with a doctor's note in hopes that the judge would give a new court date. I would do whatever it takes to avoid being arrested and having my mug shot on the internet.
It's pretty irresponsible that she didn't call or send anyone to court to represent her.
Now I understand why she has so many problems with CPS and her family and why she gets so hostile when others point out her mistakes.
so many problems with CPS? she had them called once on her. if you're going to worry about her so much maybe get the facts straight.
ahhh, her mistake of not having a banana in the house. that's downright shameful!
Ok, 376, I made a mistake. I did not handle the traffic violation in the most perfect way possible. As a matter of fact I should not have even had a traffic violation. That was my fault and I own that. When my appendix needed to come out, the perfect way to handle everything else in the world wasn't exactly first and foremost in my mind. I wish I were like you and had the ability to do the perfect thing in every circumstance all the time. Luckily, the judge that I dealt with was more understanding than people here, otherwise I guess I would still be in jail for running a stop sign and missing my court date. I was lucky that they allowed me to turn myself in, process me, and then immediately released me on my own recognizance.
I had ONE problem with CPS. ONE. That is not "so many".
I hope you keep bananas on hand now LOL :P
There's always an excuse with you, bananalady. It is always someone else's fault. How about you take a look in the mirror and take some personal responsibility for a change? And also, how about you stop defending yourself to a bunch of internet strangers and focus on the real issues in your life? Aka get off the internet.
Deflect. Deflect. Deflect.
Whose fault is it that my appendix had to come out? I guess mine. Whose fault is it that I yielded at a stop sign instead of coming to a complete stop? That was 100% my fault. I take responsibility for things that are under my control.
379, I do try to keep bananas on hand now but my kids eat the hell out of them. I just don't ever offer to do things for kids in the neighborhood anymore. That is the part I guess I have the most trouble with. When my mother claimed her husband was abusing her and she needed to get away from him ASAP, I tried to "rescue" her. He harassed the living shit out of me and my grandparents and then she went back to him and she shit all over those of us who helped her. I should have learned my lesson. But no, I fucked up again and tried to help my mil. And she turned around and shit on me too. Obviously my judgment on who I should help and who I should just let rot needs to be tweaked.
And 380, you think I'm not focused on the real issues in my life? What more do you think I should be doing? I tried to catch the neighbor last night, dh said she only comes outside to get her newspaper in the afternoon. So I waited on the front porch reading. And she got in her car and drove around to the front of her house and picked up her paper. I'll try again this afternoon. Otherwise, I can only let my attorney do his job and wait for my next court date. I spend time with my kids and my friends and I get on the internet (the horror!).
And again what am I attempting to deflect your attention to? Please look up the meaning of the word deflect before using it again. It hurts when people use words they don't know the meaning of.
Re: The Pope says everyone, even atheists, "redeemed." Thread.
Is DesertPea an alter for another or previous Pea? She certainly qualifies as "hostile" on that thread. She keeps talking in circles. I don't know how the atheists are keeping up with her loops.
Appendix out? Wow my spread sheet is way off I thought the first arrest had something to do with shoplifting. My bad. But seriously BL you need to take a long slow look at your life. You are a drama magnet whether you wish to admit it or not. I still don't believe you on the whole ID thief thing.
If you really wanted to talk to your neighbor you would go and knock on her door. You're making excuses again. "It's HER fault because she drove to get her paper."
You knew she was home, put your big girl pants on and knock on the door.
I don't want to knock on her door and disturb her. I'd rather just catch her outside. There is no law stating that I HAVE to explain my homeschooling to her so I 'm not making a special trip to do so. I want to catch her outside, exactly the way she has done both my husband and our friend.
And god no 383, I have never shoplifted. I haven't ever stolen anything. May I ask what evidence has convinced you of my guilt of ID theft? Or is evidence something you don't think is necessary to determine guilt or innocence?
The paranoia on this thread is through the f'ing roof!
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My favourite tinfoil-hatted line by dalayney "We'll be on our knees, speaking Chinese". LOL
Is DesertPea an alter for another or previous Pea? She certainly qualifies as "hostile" on that thread. She keeps talking in circles. I don't know how the atheists are keeping up with her loops.
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No, she's been posting her nonsense for years under that peaname. Remember this gem? She lives in a desert bunker, holed up with guns, gold, the Tanakh (not to be confused with the Torah or the OT), and apparently a laptop.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=2774128
I too thought she was arrested for shoplifting. What's her name again? I am sure a Google will tell us what happened.
Deflect is the proper word to use and yes, I do know its definition.
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I don't want to knock on her door and disturb her. I'd rather just catch her outside. There is no law stating that I HAVE to explain my homeschooling to her so I 'm not making a special trip to do so. I want to catch her outside, exactly the way she has done both my husband and our friend.
She obviously wants nothing to do with you. You need to let it go before she has you arrested for harassment/assault, because I am sure with your attitude, you would hit her.
Well, I am not sure if she would hit anyone, but I bet it would turn into a yelling match.
She needs to stay away from her neighbor.
Yeah, that is my MO. I go around hitting old ladies. Google away, you will NEVER find anything related to me and shoplifting. You people really like to make shit up as you go along.
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Oh, FFS, I'll check in in a few days and see if Banana has gone away. She ruins the blog for me. It's a peasmack blog and I actually like people to remain anonymous and not try to take over the whole deal. Not about you. Plus, Banana, you put way too much information out there. No one cares. Shit's older than Kendra.
May 30, 2013 at 6:10 AM
"Not about you." LOL THIS made me laugh. Scroll or start a new bash but YOU brought her up.
May 30, 2013 at 9:04 AM
Oh yeah. Too much protesting. You sure do love bitching about her.
omg hostile bananalady hater, just fucking quit already!!
Kendra does not appreciate being likened to Banana Lady.
She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts.
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Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
"Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies."
Probably the same dumbfucks who get off on doing the same to certain peas in the bucket.
Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
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This made me laugh!
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She doesn't come off as some sniveling whiny victim at all. If you don't like her answering other peoples questions it's really easy to just skip her posts.
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Some blog bitches can't stand the fact that Banana Lady answers questions with no apologies. Can't stand the fact they can't make her run off crying because of their mean behavior. No matter how much shit they throw at her she handles it with much more aplomb than they could if the situations were reversed. Keep trying bitches, you are no match for her, but it's amusing to watch your pathetic attempts to put her down. All you succeed in doing is making her look like the sane one, and she has a better vocabulary than 90% of you!
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Right because it is perfectly normal to have your mil accuse you of ID theft, have an appendix attack on the same day you should be in court, have a neighbor call CPS on you, have another neighbor - in a completely different city be all up in your business about home schooling and to spend all day refreshing some lame ass smack blog to see if 1) some anonymous person is talking about you and 2) take the time to actually respond back.
Right because it is perfectly normal to have your mil accuse you of ID theft, have an appendix attack on the same day you should be in court, have a neighbor call CPS on you, have another neighbor - in a completely different city be all up in your business about home schooling and to spend all day refreshing some lame ass smack blog to see if 1) some anonymous person is talking about you and 2) take the time to actually respond back.
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Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner!
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