I think you need to be kicked in the head with a steel toed boot. Then after you've passed out from the pain and finally when you wake up with a concussion and start crying and talking about what happened we can all demand you let it go and not let it consume your day that way.
I think you need to be kicked in the head with a steel toed boot. Then after you've passed out from the pain and finally when you wake up with a concussion and start crying and talking about what happened we can all demand you let it go and not let it consume your day that way. ==================================================
If it's consuming my life 10 years later, and I'm still whining about it constantly and bringing it into every situation and conversation, feel free to not only demand that I let it go, but bitch slap me and then walk away for good.
If it's consuming my life 10 years later, and I'm still whining about it constantly and bringing it into every situation and conversation, feel free to not only demand that I let it go, but bitch slap me and then walk away for good.
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I can only imagine 10 minutes after getting kicked in the head with a steel toed boot feels much like 10 years after your child dies. And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child.
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child. ===================================== Totally disagree. I would not invite someone to a celebration that's just gonna be a drama whore around everyone.
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child. ------------------- No one has said that she shouldn't be feeling pain every day or even still grieving, you total dumbass.
But if it's consuming her life and she can't fucking function after TEN YEARS, then she needs some serious help. And it's no wonder that no one can stand to be around her. If she can't make it through a few hours without attention whoring and playing the victim and trying to suck all the attention in the room onto her, then it's no surprise that she wasn't invited.
Enabling a mentally ill psycho is not good for anyone. But hey, since you are ok with it, by all means, knock yourself out and go be her BFF. Let's see how long you last.
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child. ===================================== Totally disagree. I would not invite someone to a celebration that's just gonna be a drama whore around everyone.
Ten years. Time to let go and move on. March 23, 2013 at 1:52 PM
Maybe they could have a party FOR her. Not this one. I don't think it would be horrible to have one and announce it as her day to celebrate what the time she did have with her daughter.
Shit, here come the unicorns and butterflies. Sorry, I know this isn't the place for trying to do what's right (or at least thinking it).
lostinspace aka momof1child could take a few lessons from other peas who have lost children but managed not to turn into drunken/drugged, attention-whoring divas. Like CheriValli or careyann. There are others whose names escape me at the moment.
I wonder if he's married to a 15 y.o chippie. Because that's what she sounds like based on her posting style. YYYYYYIIIPPPPPEEEEEEEEEE and all . . .
I am still laughing that Doug Flutie's wife thinks he's famous and worthy of fawning all over. And she wants to be fawned over by-proxy?? Shaking my damn head
I don't know for sure if that OP is Wifeofdoug, 19. Her pea name and her details about his job made me think so, but I may be wrong. #################
I don't think it's Doug Flutie's wife. The OP on that thread sounds really young and immature. Doug and Laurie Flutie have been married for almost 30 years, and both of them work full time at the Flutie Foundation for Autism.
Although, now that I think about it, it wouldn't be surprising at all. I think just about every sports "star" cheats, and it's usually just cheap, tawdry pickups on the road . . .
The OP on that thread sounds really young and immature. Doug and Laurie Flutie have been married for almost 30 years, and both of them work full time at the Flutie Foundation for Autism. March 23, 2013 at 2:48 PM
Well, the OP in that thread does sound like a whiny brat of a kid, but says she's been married for 27 years! that fits the Doug Flutie theory
Flutie is from Mass. Went to high school there adn so did his wife.
Marino is from Pittsburgh. He grew up there, so I doubt his wife is a midwestern farm girl. Couldn't find any info on where she's from in the few minutes I searched, but if they've been married 30 years, she's probably not from the midwest. I did see lots of hits about him having an illegitimate daughter. Shocker.
I doubt that Diva wife from the NSBR is even married to anyone as minor in the famous ranks as Doug Flutie or Dan Marino. She's probably the wife of some HS football coach in a podunk town that got a minor position with a college team. YAWN
"have been by his side for 27 years. " They've been together 27 years. Not necessarily married 27 years. Is Arkansas considered midwest? http://www.eastalabamaliving.com/features/buckle-up/
you bitches are as bad as the peas who rooted out Barb. Get a fucking grip already. Who gives a shit to that fucked up woman is - apparently not her ex-friend.
I don't dare post at the bukkit, what with all the pea detectives. I'm watching my DH unravel. He's suffering from severe PTSD and depression. He's had two panic attacks in the last week. He got out of the service last year, and we were starting to put all that behind us. His best friend was killed in Afghanistan, and he's come unglued. He blames himself for not being there to keep his friend alive. He checked himself into the hospital yesterday and I'm climbing the walls. His therapist says this is a good thing that he's recognizing he needs help. I saw him this morning, but it's eating me alive that I can't help him anymore than I already am. I know this is tl;dr, but I needed to vent. Thanks.
#50 best of luck to you and your DH. I hope he can stabilize and get better. It's a great thing that he is willing to see a therapist and that he saw the need to check himself into the hospital. Some people would not be self-aware enough to do either of those things. Hopefully they can give him the help he needs. Hang in there.
I'm sorry, 50. I can't imagine how hard this is. Thank goodness that your husband had enough clarity to seek help and check himself into the hospital before anything escalated. I know you feel helpless, but I would imagine that your love and support are helping buoy your husband's fragile spirit. You sound like a supportive and loving partner.
This place is worse than the bukkit. Just a bunch of usless fat housewives with nothing better to do than bitch at each other. B-O-R-I-N-G! March 23, 2013 at 8:29 PM
Laurie Flutie made it very obvious to find who she really was on her old screen name. Here's the link where it was talked about here, but looks like she might have deleted all her posted under that name http://twopeassmack.blogspot.com/2012/04/space_17.html See posts 63 176 177 178 180-192+
Posted: 3/23/2013 3:11:00 PM WOW did I get blasted!! My husband has a high profile job in athletics. He was on TV, newspapers, etc., etc., about his new job. Her husband sent my husband the nicest email, and then visited my husband at his office and shook his hand. So she knows -- Hell the whole city knows. Anyway, if the tables were turned, I would be so happy for her!!! All this happened 2 weeks ago, and still no word from her. Oh well. " http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3228378#30917887
Wow so she doesn't wear nail polish but because the peas collect it she decides to also, talk about a follower. Does she think it will move her up the pea tier system?
Sorry banana lady but I just don't believe anyone can go into a police station and say "Banana lady stole my identity." and the cops will run right out and arrest you on that persons word.
I asked and mentioned it almost being the end of March because YOU told us things would be continuing in March. I don't know your schedule or the judges so I asked lol. You didn't answer and figured you were in the pokey. LMAO
So I didn't answer in 4 hours and that means I'm in jail? Shit, do you people have any life outside of this blog? That is a rhetorical question, btw, I already know the answer. And sorry to disappoint, but I do not have a court date at the end of March.
50, I am very sorry about your husband and the PTSD. Is the VA any help? I bet they have counselors or groups designed just for spouses... If I were you, I really think it would help me to talk to somebody else who had gone through a similar situation. Good luck!
I was also a bit puzzled as to why someone who doesn't use nail polish would go out and buy it because of the pea nail polish threads.
Some people are just bleating sheep.
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She doesn't wear nail polish. She went over to look at the display to see what the fuss was about. It was awesome enough to make her want to wear nail polish.
Q: Why is that so hard to understand?
A: Because it's much more fun for you to pretend to be too stupid to understand, just so you can smack her down for being a sheep.
Conclusion: When there's really nothing to smack anybody for at the bucket, throw yourself under the bus just to make it happen.
SMH and thinking yeah, and you claim SHE'S the one that's odd.
50, I'm so sorry. My dh is also a vet of Afghanistan, and he was injured. One of the hardest things is the randomness of it all, some come home physically fine and fall apart to PTSD (we know several suicides), some like dh are inured but relatively unscathed. Some have catastrophic injuries and their lives change forever. The worst is that you just never know when aa person will unravel, or what it will take.
In our experience, the VA help is spotty, sometimes great, sometimes a frustrating run around and no real help.
I'm glad your dh is in a hospital, getting the care he needs. That's the first step on a long journey. I don't pray, but I am hoping with all my heart he can heal from this and you guys can get your lives back.
To answer other Arkansas related questions that have been bandied about here -
No, Arkansas is not in the mid-west, it is in the south.
Gus Malzahn coached at Arkansas State University in Jonesboro for I think one season. I believe they are the Wolverines, don't really keep up with sports around here because everything here sucks and isn't worth keeping up with. Anyway, he got a better job and isn't here anymore.
Cecilia lives in my county, but in a different, shittier town. Which, since my town is pretty shitty, is a real accomplishment. Her job opportunities are next to none without making at least a 30 mile commute. Being obese isn't going to be a deterrent to her finding employment at any law enforcement agency in this county. You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a fat person working at the county jail. I don't know where she was trying to get a job, maybe the Arkansas DOC?
I'm sure someone will come along and say they don't believe me about any of it though. How could I possibly know anything about what it is like when I have lived here my whole life minus 4 years?
Sorry 76- I don't remember mentioning March, don't know why I would since nothing is happening this month. I'll take your word for it though and say I made a mistake then.
When there is something to tell, I'll let you know. Or some bitch here can use their mad internet detective skills and find all the articles about an identity theft case. There would be something if there were charges filed in the case, right?
I am with the other one that said that you don't get arrested unless there is proof you committed a crime. No court or police station is going to arrest you for no reason. You did something that gave enough evidence to have you arrested. You were charged with identity theft. They gave you a court date sometime toward the end of April.
We are not stupid. Some of us do know how the law works because we work in the field.
Sorry 85- you just proved how stupid you are. I have NOT been charged with ANYTHING. But hey, you work in the field, so you should be able to pull up those court records. Criminal records are public information so it should be a breeze for someone with your vast legal expertise.
And I don't have a court date for the end of April either. Get out your magic 8 ball though and try again, lol.
You were arrested and charged with identity theft. Someone provided enough proof to convince the court to have you arrested and charged with it. As everyone else here has stated, they don't just go arresting people unless there's enough evidence to charge you.
You told us here on this blog that you went to court and they gave you another court date. When? We don't care. YOU told us you have to go back.
I'd take the word of someone who works in the field over your word any day. You are no expert in court proceedings or law, obviously. Your story kept changing like the wind, lol!
Great, just pull the court records, 87. I do have another court date. Still haven't been charged.
And yes, they do arrest people without charging them. Jesus, you all must have had Civics from Ms. T. The police can make an arrest. They present the case to the prosecutor. The prosecutor decides if he or she is willing to put their publically elected neck on the line to press charges in the case. They won't go forward unless they think they can win because they won't get re-elected if their win-loss record is shit. Arrest does not = charges filed. You can be arrested on probable cause. Probable cause can be established by a member of the community making an affidavit. That member of the community does not have to prove anything, they can make any claim on a police report they want to. If they lie on the police report they run the risk of being charged with lying to the police or filing a false report. They will only be charged though if the police give a flying fuck about it. They can risk being sued in civil court. It sucks to lie on a police report but that doesn't mean that nobody would EVER do that. Cindy Anthony perjured herself on the stand in front of a national audience in a high profile murder case and nothing happened to her. See how that works?
A man in this town was arrested a few years ago on probable cause that he murdered his wife. He was arrested the day before Thanksgiving. They can hold you for 3 days without charging you with a crime. Because of the holiday, he got to stay in jail until the Monday after Thanksgiving because he couldn't afford to bond out. On that Monday, the prosecutor's office declined to press charges in the case because of lack of evidence. He got to spend 5 days in jail and was never charged with a crime. Guess what he gets for that? Nothing. The state is immune, he is out any lost wages and he got to miss spending the holiday with his family. Was he guilty? Who knows? Nobody has ever been charged with her murder but the prosecutor has one shot at you. They aren't going to blow their wad without the evidence to back it up. The police, however, have NOTHING to do with whether charges are filed though. Well, outside of doing good police work and building a solid case. But even then, if the prosecutor chooses not to file charges, nothing happens.
So, pillar of the legal community, you still want to bet your ass that this is all bullshit?
While all the evidence might not be gathered, there DOES in fact have to be some probable cause to make an arrest.
Can A Police Officer Arrest Me Without Evidence 4/19/2012 Can A Police Officer Arrest Me Without Evidence? A determination needs to be made by a police officer that there is probable cause in order to make an arrest. Probable (or reasonable) cause for an arrest exists when the facts are sufficient to cause a fair minded person of average intelligence to believe that the Defendant committed the alleged crime.
from this legal site: http://www.hilfandhilf.com/blog/Can-A-Police-Officer-Arrest-Me-Without-Evidence_AE157.html
"Probable cause" requires more than a mere suspicion that a suspect committed a crime, but not as much information as would be required to prove a suspect guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
I don't really give a shit whether you're convicted or not, bananabitch. You're shady enough to be mixed up with identity theft charges and there was enough probable cause to arrest you.
"Probable cause" requires more than a mere suspicion that a suspect committed a crime, but not as much information as would be required to prove a suspect guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
I don't really give a shit whether you're convicted or not, bananabitch. You're shady enough to be mixed up with identity theft charges and there was enough probable cause to arrest you.
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So I'm guilty if I defend myself but I'm also guilty if I don't. Got it. And please, I haven't posted any of the details of the case here so GTFO yourself.
Shady to get wrapped up in something? LOL, you people are so incredibly stupid. I really hope your little naive world always remains such.
Here is a link to the definition of probable cause but most of you don't have the reading comprehension to understand it: http://dictionary.law.com/Default.aspx?selected=1618
Did the BiscuitScraps really leave the pod, or was she just trying to get people to beg her to stay? March 24, 2013 at 3:04 PM
I think she thought she had a following and people would go with her. Others "went" but they'll be back, even if she isn't. She is already making requests to change the forums LOL(they ask for feedback).
I so love that perceived status goods are now available to the masses on Amazon. That way everyone can play pretend rocknrolla and impress the more poors.
Why is it that we as a society are expected paste a smile on and say all the right things when it's all you can do not to break down and cry and all you really need is the people you love to say how much they care.
I took that as a retort to idiot ChildofGrace, 101. I'm sure everybody other than CoG herself and KristinL16 has noticed all her moronic question threads.
Not sure about teh gay, but he looks like a total doofus, and I am not buying for a minute that the photos were a surprise. Who in the fuck walks around outside with snow on the ground in a sleeveless dress? The both seem like a couple of posers . . . princesslasertron types, if you will. Huh. And her DH seems very gay-or metrosexual at the very least.
I bought my Fiestaware from Kohls. It chipped and scratched something awful. I talked to customer service and they told me Kohls exclusively purchases factory seconds and that's why they can deeply discount it.
I pitched mine and am still looking for every day dishes. You couldn't pay me to ever buy Fiestaware again, if only for the fact so freaking many lemming Peas own it.
You couldn't pay me to ever buy Fiestaware again, if only for the fact so freaking many lemming Peas own it. ****************
That's me, except I've never bought any. I didn't buy any coconut oil, either, and I don't play Candy Crush. I stayed off Pinterest and Draw Something, and I hated the Majikal Boeuf!
I do like coconut oil, but I've been using it since I was a child in Hawaii in the early 1960s. Not quite trendy iykwim. Never bought fiestaware. But I do like a good biweekly pedicure.
50: If you have to camp out at the VA in order to get your husband seen- so it. Do not let them tell you what they want you to do for them timewise, be vigilent and demanding and tell them what you need NOW!!
and thank you to you and your husband for serving, he doesn't deserve to have that hell hanging over his life any longer than necessary.
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I was at the Suzy Shier outlet and picked up some black platform wedge sandals on for $7.50. Super comfy!
At the thrift store I found some Nine West white platform wedge sandals for $7, and a pair of Stuart Weitzman high-heeled sandals with leather straps and studs, also for $7.
I also bought a cute short-sleeved above the knee dress with a large retro floral pattern, white background with red, black and grey. Will look great with either pair of wedge sandals. That was only $6.50, because it was half price day!
Oh, I also got a long, sleeveless animal print dress from the Sally Ann for $4. I can wear it with a light sweater til summer rolls around. I love wearing dresses.
You must have some words, 128. Otherwise I don't know what your issue is. The clothes? The shoes? The fact that she got them at a thrift store? The brands? WTH?
I came to post about that thread, but my commentary was: Damn, there are some judgmental bitches on that thread. "You're not wearing what I think is appropriate" and "I need to get my sister into church but she isn't interested." It makes me remember how relieved I felt when I admitted I was an atheist. Christians are the nastiest, most judgmental people I've ever met.
Now I need to take dorkangle off ignore to read her posts.
Stay off Two Peas and avoid pea trends. Don't watch every frigging TV show like some peas do. Don't ask dumb questions or start "cleaning challenges." You get lots more done.
As federal agencies scramble to avert or delay sequester-tied furloughs, the Obama administration continues to spend millions of dollars on foreign aid to the Palestinians – and seek millions more, despite past efforts by Congress to freeze the money.
The State Department confirmed this month the administration has moved forward with $500 million in aid, and is trying to secure another $200 million from Congress.
You must be one of those peas who can't buy the simplest thing without pea advice and assistance.
Step 1: Go to Target/Walmart/Meijers/store of choice. Step 2: Locate laundry basket aisle and select size and shape of one's choosing. Step 3: Take basket(s) to checkout and pay. Step 4: At home, place dirty clothes in basket.
It isn't about not being able to do something. It's about hearing other people's thoughts on a subject. No matter how mundane you think a subject is, chances are there are many people that have thoughts on it or have come up with a solution to the OP's particular issue.
Really? The things people will put on the internet! With her photo too. And she's not a frequent poster so why would she want/need to "run it by the Peas"? Oh my god.
Wench has a point about the manmeat pea. That's some serious oversharing.
I'm cutting the cheated-on wife some slack. She's in shock, and she's not the one giving out the intimate details of their marriage and sex-life. That's the cheating husband's doing.
She's a sahm with three kids, she isn't going anywhere. She'll somehow manage to justify it like that wife of a pilot who was learning how to speak Polish from a flight attendant.
Notice how Stacy is the ONLY person who looks happy in that photo? Her hubby is the one taking care of the kids while she is off in her own little world. More to that story.
142... I am sometimes shocked at the number of times it comes up on the board that if you just dislike what your spouse is doing you are perfectly within your rights to demand that your spouse cut ties with friends and if they even express a desire to keep a friendship it means they aren't dedicated to their marriage. That is some isolating, abusive bullshit that I think more people would acknowledge as such if the genders were reversed in these scenarios.
I'm not really talking about that lady and her titty bar husband, but the reactions from the peas to her question. They are really quick on the 'test him by making him give up his friends FOR YOU to prove his love' trigger. Blergh. So many unhealthy f'd up marriages in pea-ville.
you really think he has a "friendship" with the girls at the breasturant? I wouldn't make my dh give up a true friendship to prove anything to me, but I am not like the other peas. And I sure as hell am not cuntyupnorth who will put up with anything from her dh just so she has a man. My self worth isn't tied up in having a man and I can support myself TYVM.
He is lying and hiding things and CRIED when she said she didn't want him going to the titty bar. That is not ok. It isn't ok to make your partner cut off from their friends but she didn't ask him to do that.
He's confiding in a stripper who is probably soaking him for all kinds of money. He needs a new hobby,
The bukkit is full of controlling, unhappy, whiny cunts.
I couldn't believe the number of bitches on the seafood drama queen thread that said that they don't "allow" their husbands to eat or cook seafood in the house because it bothers their delicate sensibilities.
Here we go with her amazing, "profoundly gifted," oh-so-special children again.
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And I am "profoundly" shocked that this mom has yet to figure out that this child is "profoundly" an Aspie!
Children with Asperger's Syndrome do not understand idioms or metaphors. They are very literal thinkers. They have a very difficult time understanding when it's polite to say something and when NOT to say something.
I feel very sorry for the OP. She has a very tough time a head for her and this child. Best of luck to her.
God, I am so tired of hearing "Aspies" and "on the spectrum."
Either you're profoundly gifted - which means you are uber smart AND you can function and handle shit that normal people can handle - or you're really smart in some ways and utterly useless in others.
"Profoundly gifted" or not, ReallyRed's kid sounds like a rude little asshole, and so does she because she can't talk about the kid without referring to him as "profoundly gifted."
Does anyone on that thread talking about how their kid is "just like Sheldon Cooper" actually notice that Sheldon really does not have close friends? His roommate and coworkers put up with him, but they are often frustrated by him, and are very understanding on the show. I don't think people in real life would be so forgiving...
142... I am sometimes shocked at the number of times it comes up on the board that if you just dislike what your spouse is doing you are perfectly within your rights to demand that your spouse cut ties with friends and if they even express a desire to keep a friendship it means they aren't dedicated to their marriage. That is some isolating, abusive bullshit that I think more people would acknowledge as such if the genders were reversed in these scenarios.
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Oh please. This guy is an ass. He's CRYING at the thought of her being upset over him going to this place. He is erasing his internet/cell history. He's still going even after he said he wouldn't. He's a fucking ass, and obviously is doing things bad enough to hide from her.
My brother (single) has "friends" at the local strip club too. They use him for helping them move, money, rides to work, etc. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was spending $$$ not only while AT the bar, but also on things outside of the bar for these girls, or at least one of them.
I'm no man basher, and of COURSE it sucks when wives insist guys cut off their friends or hobbies and give ultimatums over things they "dislike". But this is an entirely different story. She doesn't just "dislike" this situation - she's hurt, being lied to, and probably in danger of STDs. He's doing some messed up shit including clearing out history on the cell/pc. PUH-LEASE. She DESERVES to demand he knock it the fuck off.
Here we go with her amazing, "profoundly gifted," oh-so-special children again. --------------------------------------------- Really Red/Andrea is a real piece of work. She has such a sense of superiority and the entitlement that goes along with it. Of course her children are *brilliant* and there could not be a single thing wrong with them. It is no wonder she is a single mom. Who could stand to be around her and her offspring for more than a few minutes?
The kid sounds like a complete brat. Someone should have checked his obnoxious behavior many moons ago and it's too late now. Just what the world needs...another "brilliant" kid with no social skills (or aspie. wtf ever).
She already has a daughter 136. You make it sound like she's new at this. ----------------------------
IIRC, that daughter isn't normal either. PLUS Dorkangle is on welfare/foodstamps. I'm sorry but shooting out crotch nuggets is not a right guaranteed in the Constitution and if you can't feed them, you sure as hell shouldn't be breeding them!!
It's not MY job as a taxpaying citizen with a JOB to fund your little ankle biters!!
I wanted to run this by the Peas to make sure that I'm not being unreasonable. Last week I found out that my husband has been going to a "bikini"Â bar near our house for the last year, behind my back. He would tell me that he was going to a different local sports bar or he would just go when I thought he was at work. He told me that he didn't tell me where he was really going because I'd get upset and not want him to go there anymore. Well duh. If you knew it would upset me why would you even start going there?
I told him that I didn't want him going there anymore out of respect to me and our marriage, especially because he felt the need to sneak behind my back to go there. To make it worse I guess he has formed friendships with some of these girls and other male regulars that go there. We have been having some marital problems over the last year and he has been talking to one girl in particular about the problems we've been having. He has told this woman and other bar patrons intimate details of our marriage and sex life. He even admitted to showing her some dirty text messages that I had written to him. He said he was just bragging to show her how much better our relationship has been. That all her advice had helped our marriage improve, he's so grateful to her and so should I blah blah blah. I flipped out. How dare he talk with another woman about the intimate details of our marriage and especially how dare he show her text messages that I assumed were private between the two of us.
He swears that he's just friends with this girl that nothing has or will ever happen between them. That she's married, too young, would never be interested in him sexually, it would never happen in a million years. That I'm just being jealous and other men have wives that have no problem with them going to the bar. I'm being a bitch, I'm being unreasonable. He said that he has also formed friendships with the other men that frequent this bar. That he didn't want to stop going there. When I gave him an ultimatum that he either stopped going or I would leave he got very emotional and acted like I had just asked him to get rid of his dog (I honestly think he'd be less upset about getting rid of his dog). He said that these are his friends and he couldn't imagine not being able to see them and talk to them. He actually cried over it, acted like his life was over, begged me to not take it away from him. He said that he should've never told me about the bar and just kept going behind my back. That was a huge red flag to me that he is way too attached to this bar and I'm right to not want him going back.
After many tears and melt downs between the two of us he agreed to no longer go there but I could tell he was very upset about it. Now he hasn't brought it up again, has been acting like nothing happened. I honestly don't believe for one minute that he will stop, that he has decided to continue going there irregardless of how I feel or how it will affect our marriage. I honestly think he may have went there last night on his way home from work. I don't know maybe I'm being paranoid. He has a job with weird hours so it would be so easy to tell me he's on a job and go to the bar. He also refuses to tell me where the bar is because he says that he doesn't want me to show up and make a scene. Hello, why would I show up and make a scene unless I find him hanging out there.
Now I'm in investigator mode looking up all the local bikini bars in our area. I'm pretty sure I know where it is. I think I may keep that secret to myself so I can drive by one night when he's gone to see if he's there.
Another thing that really bothers me is after I found out about this I started checking the history on his cell phone to see what he's been up to online. It's completely blank. He has been erasing his internet history on his phone each night! I told him that is a huge red flag to me that he is hiding something. That if he's not doing anything wrong he shouldn't have to erase his history. He says that it's a matter of principle and wants privacy and almost acted like he'd rather divorce than hand over that information.
I'm afraid if things don't change I will joining the ranks of other divorced peas. I'm so sad. I don't want a divorce. I love him very much but I can't let him disrespect me this way. I have to take a stand. I'd rather have respect for myself and be alone.
So before I start calling lawyers what do the Peas think? Am I overreacting?
"God, I am so tired of hearing "Aspies" and "on the spectrum."
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ITA. And *I'm* so tired of hearing about all of these kids that are: "Gifted and Talented" or "brilliant" or "profoundly gifted" or "extremely intelligent" or have "extremely high IQ's" (and of course - mom and dad were too!)
The reality is: It doesn't matter one bit just how "smart" someone is if they lack the needed social skills to use all of the knowledge. Being "smart" does NOT trump all else in life.
These parents that pander to their anti-social little special snow-flakes are not doing them or society any favors.
Some the nicest, kindest, most hard-working people I know are far from being geniuses. And the vast majority of so-called "brilliant" people I know are genuine ass-holes. They wear their intelligence as a badge of honor, lord it over people that they deem less smart them and act like jerks 99% of the time.
I think the OP on that thread LOVES how smart her kid is. And I truly had to snicker when she slipped in that "Honestly, much of this I do think is because of his dad." Yep - that's it. Not HER fault, not the kid being an ass - it's DAD's fault! Yep. That's the ticket!
The "gifted" asses I work with can't seem to hold a productive meeting or type a decent paragraph in email. They create drama and the projects are usually delayed.
The ones with good common sense and tact are usually the ones that can complete a project on time without all the drama.
I'll take someone with good common sense over any of those "gifted" or "brillant" ones.
She already has a daughter 136. You make it sound like she's new at this. ----------------------------
IIRC, that daughter isn't normal either.
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Only responding to your first sentence. The rest is your opinions and they are what they are..(Really not sure why you copied what you copied even and responded with something else? oh well)
Did she say her daughter wasn't normal? Not sure where you're recalling that from, correctly or incorrectly.
SEOUL, South Korea – North Korea's military warned Tuesday that its artillery and rocket forces are at their highest-level combat posture in the latest in a string of bellicose threats aimed at South Korea and the United States.
Every time someone asks about shoe recommendations, I just want to pull my hair out. "Please recommend the ugliest pair of shoes to go with this dress. And absolutely NO HEELS!" Seriously, if you can only wear flats, then there is not much to say here.
Even a low heel would look a million times better than flats with that dress. Then leave those puppies on when you wrap your legs around his head later at home. LOL
Scrappower started this thread just so she could bring up an old post that she disagreed with and the poster wouldn't engage her back then. She's trying to get her to engage again.
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Where is bananaberry? Jail? Are you out there? Almost the end of March..
Please don't make bananaASS think that anyone gives a shit where she is!
I think you need to be kicked in the head with a steel toed boot. Then after you've passed out from the pain and finally when you wake up with a concussion and start crying and talking about what happened we can all demand you let it go and not let it consume your day that way.
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This made me laugh! What a cunt!
I think you need to be kicked in the head with a steel toed boot. Then after you've passed out from the pain and finally when you wake up with a concussion and start crying and talking about what happened we can all demand you let it go and not let it consume your day that way.
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If it's consuming my life 10 years later, and I'm still whining about it constantly and bringing it into every situation and conversation, feel free to not only demand that I let it go, but bitch slap me and then walk away for good.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228378
Is this the football wife who posted before? Either way, she's a whiny bitch and her friend is better off without her.
This made me laugh! What a cunt!
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If it's consuming my life 10 years later, and I'm still whining about it constantly and bringing it into every situation and conversation, feel free to not only demand that I let it go, but bitch slap me and then walk away for good.
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I can only imagine 10 minutes after getting kicked in the head with a steel toed boot feels much like 10 years after your child dies.
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child.
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child.
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Totally disagree. I would not invite someone to a celebration that's just gonna be a drama whore around everyone.
Ten years. Time to let go and move on.
Is this the football wife who posted before? Either way, she's a whiny bitch and her friend is better off without her.
March 23, 2013 at 1:40 PM
??What did the football wife post before?
And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child.
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No one has said that she shouldn't be feeling pain every day or even still grieving, you total dumbass.
But if it's consuming her life and she can't fucking function after TEN YEARS, then she needs some serious help. And it's no wonder that no one can stand to be around her. If she can't make it through a few hours without attention whoring and playing the victim and trying to suck all the attention in the room onto her, then it's no surprise that she wasn't invited.
Enabling a mentally ill psycho is not good for anyone. But hey, since you are ok with it, by all means, knock yourself out and go be her BFF. Let's see how long you last.
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And to tell someone they should not talk about it and stop feeling the pain after any prescribed amount of time makes you sound like a cunt more than anybody feeling pain and speaking of the loss of their child.
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Totally disagree. I would not invite someone to a celebration that's just gonna be a drama whore around everyone.
Ten years. Time to let go and move on.
March 23, 2013 at 1:52 PM
Maybe they could have a party FOR her. Not this one. I don't think it would be horrible to have one and announce it as her day to celebrate what the time she did have with her daughter.
Shit, here come the unicorns and butterflies. Sorry, I know this isn't the place for trying to do what's right (or at least thinking it).
what time, not what the time lol
lostinspace aka momof1child could take a few lessons from other peas who have lost children but managed not to turn into drunken/drugged, attention-whoring divas. Like CheriValli or careyann. There are others whose names escape me at the moment.
??What did the football wife post before?
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I don't remember exactly what she posted, but I think she got pea-piled for it. She's Doug Flutie's wife.
Doug Flutie's wife?
Who the fuck is Doug Flutie? That one-hit wonder from the 80s????? LMAO
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That's the one! I only knew who he was because I like trivia.
I wonder if he's married to a 15 y.o chippie. Because that's what she sounds like based on her posting style. YYYYYYIIIPPPPPEEEEEEEEEE and all . . .
I am still laughing that Doug Flutie's wife thinks he's famous and worthy of fawning all over. And she wants to be fawned over by-proxy?? Shaking my damn head
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228397
Really makes you wonder how they manage to breathe and walk at the same time.
I don't know for sure if that OP is Wifeofdoug, 19. Her pea name and her details about his job made me think so, but I may be wrong.
Is Doug Flutie a coach now?
I don't know for sure if that OP is Wifeofdoug, 19. Her pea name and her details about his job made me think so, but I may be wrong.
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I don't think it's Doug Flutie's wife. The OP on that thread sounds really young and immature. Doug and Laurie Flutie have been married for almost 30 years, and both of them work full time at the Flutie Foundation for Autism.
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Doug Flutie's wife?
Who the fuck is Doug Flutie? That one-hit wonder from the 80s????? LMAO
March 23, 2013 at 2:23 PM
50 y.o. washed up football player.
Doug Flutie is an asshole...cheating on his wife for years. Watched him in action once....
Do tell, 25!
Although, now that I think about it, it wouldn't be surprising at all. I think just about every sports "star" cheats, and it's usually just cheap, tawdry pickups on the road . . .
You watched him cheat on his wife, 25?
The OP on that thread sounds really young and immature. Doug and Laurie Flutie have been married for almost 30 years, and both of them work full time at the Flutie Foundation for Autism.
March 23, 2013 at 2:48 PM
Well, the OP in that thread does sound like a whiny brat of a kid, but says she's been married for 27 years! that fits the Doug Flutie theory
yeah, 28, but the growing up on a farm in the midwest doesn't seem to. wasn't flutie from the east coast?
Flutie is an East Coaster, and Dan Marino has been married for 27 years too. He also cheated on his wife.
"Flutie is an East Coaster, and Dan Marino has been married for 27 years too. He also cheated on his wife."
So which one of them has been announced to have had a new job recently?
dan marino-another name I haven't heard in over 20 years.
I'm bored, so I guess I could go google
Flutie is from Mass. Went to high school there adn so did his wife.
Marino is from Pittsburgh. He grew up there, so I doubt his wife is a midwestern farm girl. Couldn't find any info on where she's from in the few minutes I searched, but if they've been married 30 years, she's probably not from the midwest. I did see lots of hits about him having an illegitimate daughter. Shocker.
I doubt that Diva wife from the NSBR is even married to anyone as minor in the famous ranks as Doug Flutie or Dan Marino. She's probably the wife of some HS football coach in a podunk town that got a minor position with a college team. YAWN
Oh, forgot to add that I couldn't find anything about Marino or Flutie landing some new job in my quick google searches.
Could be Auburn's new coach Gus Malzahn. His wife's crazy is all over the internet.
"have been by his side for 27 years. "
They've been together 27 years. Not necessarily married 27 years. Is Arkansas considered midwest?
http://www.eastalabamaliving.com/features/buckle-up/
. Is Arkansas considered midwest?
I don't think so.
you bitches are as bad as the peas who rooted out Barb. Get a fucking grip already. Who gives a shit to that fucked up woman is - apparently not her ex-friend.
^^^ +1000
They quickly forgot about cecilia, sex wedges and lostinspace.
Change the page and their attention goes to shit.
So, no bananaanswer. Guess she's in jail.
no one cares about bananawhatever.
jailedbanana cares
who are you to decide what everyone cares about 41?
suesume is a fucking weirdo
dorkangle is breeding. Lovely.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228337
She's probably the wife of some HS football coach in a podunk town that got a minor position with a college team. YAWN
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I think it's probably something like that.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228455
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Could you imagine living with her?
This place is worse than the bukkit. Just a bunch of usless fat housewives with nothing better to do than bitch at each other. B-O-R-I-N-G!
Nah, the Pea suspected of being Flutie's wife had a username with Laurie in it. I don't remember a pile on. Did I miss something?
Flutie was a Jeopardy answer last week.
I don't dare post at the bukkit, what with all the pea detectives. I'm watching my DH unravel. He's suffering from severe PTSD and depression. He's had two panic attacks in the last week. He got out of the service last year, and we were starting to put all that behind us. His best friend was killed in Afghanistan, and he's come unglued. He blames himself for not being there to keep his friend alive. He checked himself into the hospital yesterday and I'm climbing the walls. His therapist says this is a good thing that he's recognizing he needs help. I saw him this morning, but it's eating me alive that I can't help him anymore than I already am. I know this is tl;dr, but I needed to vent. Thanks.
I'm so sorry, 50. [[[[[hugs]]]]]
#50 best of luck to you and your DH. I hope he can stabilize and get better. It's a great thing that he is willing to see a therapist and that he saw the need to check himself into the hospital. Some people would not be self-aware enough to do either of those things. Hopefully they can give him the help he needs. Hang in there.
I'm sorry, 50. I can't imagine how hard this is. Thank goodness that your husband had enough clarity to seek help and check himself into the hospital before anything escalated. I know you feel helpless, but I would imagine that your love and support are helping buoy your husband's fragile spirit. You sound like a supportive and loving partner.
Oh, and 50: I found your husband's Caring Bridge page and linked it at the bukkit. ;)
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This place is worse than the bukkit. Just a bunch of usless fat housewives with nothing better to do than bitch at each other. B-O-R-I-N-G!
March 23, 2013 at 8:29 PM
Hi Fatty!
Sending good thoughts, 50.
Laurie Flutie made it very obvious to find who she really was on her old screen name. Here's the link where it was talked about here, but looks like she might have deleted all her posted under that name
http://twopeassmack.blogspot.com/2012/04/space_17.html
See posts 63
176
177
178
180-192+
re 57 above she posted a lot about how she's a "celebrity" and everyone is so jealous
re 57/58:
footballchick1
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WOW did I get blasted!! My husband has a high profile job in athletics. He was on TV, newspapers, etc., etc., about his new job. Her husband sent my husband the nicest email, and then visited my husband at his office and shook his hand. So she knows -- Hell the whole city knows. Anyway, if the tables were turned, I would be so happy for her!!! All this happened 2 weeks ago, and still no word from her. Oh well. "
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3228378#30917887
#50 I'm sorry you're going through this. It's good that your DH is getting the help he needs and I hope it helps.
#54 so not funny.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228478
Wow so she doesn't wear nail polish but because the peas collect it she decides to also, talk about a follower. Does she think it will move her up the pea tier system?
54 made me laugh. Unclench, 60.
I was also a bit puzzled as to why someone who doesn't use nail polish would go out and buy it because of the pea nail polish threads.
Some people are just bleating sheep.
54 made me laugh. Unclench, 60.
March 24, 2013 at 8:50 AM
+1
My former friend used to "hang out" with Doug Flutie back in 2002 or 2003 when he played for the Chargers.
Where is bananaberry? Jail? Are you out there? Almost the end of March..
WTF does the end of March have to do with anything? Please, enlighten me ...
She's suppose to go back to court to see if she'll be convicted of identity theft.
Not at the end of March, I'm not. And you can't have a conviction when NO CHARGES have yet been filed.
Sorry banana lady but I just don't believe anyone can go into a police station and say "Banana lady stole my identity." and the cops will run right out and arrest you on that persons word.
There would have to be some type of proof.
69 - Don't quit your day job. You won't make it in the field of law.
I am so out of the loop on this bananaberry thing...details or links on the identity theft thing?
I asked and mentioned it almost being the end of March because YOU told us things would be continuing in March. I don't know your schedule or the judges so I asked lol. You didn't answer and figured you were in the pokey. LMAO
So I didn't answer in 4 hours and that means I'm in jail? Shit, do you people have any life outside of this blog? That is a rhetorical question, btw, I already know the answer. And sorry to disappoint, but I do not have a court date at the end of March.
This is the profile for the gal we think is Mrs. Flutie: http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/user_profile/537864/
You have to change the time parameters to see her older posts.
footballchick1 is someone different. In an earlier post, she talked about having 2 girls. The Fluties have a girl and a boy.
50, I am very sorry about your husband and the PTSD. Is the VA any help? I bet they have counselors or groups designed just for spouses... If I were you, I really think it would help me to talk to somebody else who had gone through a similar situation.
Good luck!
Relax bananachild. So I asked, and in true form made a joke about it. Relax.
YOU mentioned March, as said before, I don't know your schedule LOL.
Relax. All fun here. At least I asked. People were like "we don't care" lol, I just wanted to know what happened if anything yet. Just relax..
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3172385
LOL Real life gypsy bumpin' a thread to defending the lifestyle now LOL
I was also a bit puzzled as to why someone who doesn't use nail polish would go out and buy it because of the pea nail polish threads.
Some people are just bleating sheep.
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She doesn't wear nail polish. She went over to look at the display to see what the fuss was about. It was awesome enough to make her want to wear nail polish.
Q: Why is that so hard to understand?
A: Because it's much more fun for you to pretend to be too stupid to understand, just so you can smack her down for being a sheep.
Conclusion:
When there's really nothing to smack anybody for at the bucket, throw yourself under the bus just to make it happen.
SMH and thinking yeah, and you claim SHE'S the one that's odd.
50, I'm so sorry. My dh is also a vet of Afghanistan, and he was injured. One of the hardest things is the randomness of it all, some come home physically fine and fall apart to PTSD (we know several suicides), some like dh are inured but relatively unscathed. Some have catastrophic injuries and their lives change forever. The worst is that you just never know when aa person will unravel, or what it will take.
In our experience, the VA help is spotty, sometimes great, sometimes a frustrating run around and no real help.
I'm glad your dh is in a hospital, getting the care he needs. That's the first step on a long journey. I don't pray, but I am hoping with all my heart he can heal from this and you guys can get your lives back.
Hugs to you 50.
#74 ahh! YES that definitely is her! She's really not making it difficult this time either
To answer other Arkansas related questions that have been bandied about here -
No, Arkansas is not in the mid-west, it is in the south.
Gus Malzahn coached at Arkansas State University in Jonesboro for I think one season. I believe they are the Wolverines, don't really keep up with sports around here because everything here sucks and isn't worth keeping up with. Anyway, he got a better job and isn't here anymore.
Cecilia lives in my county, but in a different, shittier town. Which, since my town is pretty shitty, is a real accomplishment. Her job opportunities are next to none without making at least a 30 mile commute. Being obese isn't going to be a deterrent to her finding employment at any law enforcement agency in this county. You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a fat person working at the county jail. I don't know where she was trying to get a job, maybe the Arkansas DOC?
I'm sure someone will come along and say they don't believe me about any of it though. How could I possibly know anything about what it is like when I have lived here my whole life minus 4 years?
Sorry 76- I don't remember mentioning March, don't know why I would since nothing is happening this month. I'll take your word for it though and say I made a mistake then.
When there is something to tell, I'll let you know. Or some bitch here can use their mad internet detective skills and find all the articles about an identity theft case. There would be something if there were charges filed in the case, right?
50, I'm coming out of lurkdom to say I'm sorry about your husband's troubles. I appreciate his service and wish him well.
I am with the other one that said that you don't get arrested unless there is proof you committed a crime. No court or police station is going to arrest you for no reason. You did something that gave enough evidence to have you arrested. You were charged with identity theft. They gave you a court date sometime toward the end of April.
We are not stupid. Some of us do know how the law works because we work in the field.
Sorry 85- you just proved how stupid you are. I have NOT been charged with ANYTHING. But hey, you work in the field, so you should be able to pull up those court records. Criminal records are public information so it should be a breeze for someone with your vast legal expertise.
And I don't have a court date for the end of April either. Get out your magic 8 ball though and try again, lol.
You were arrested and charged with identity theft. Someone provided enough proof to convince the court to have you arrested and charged with it. As everyone else here has stated, they don't just go arresting people unless there's enough evidence to charge you.
You told us here on this blog that you went to court and they gave you another court date. When? We don't care. YOU told us you have to go back.
I'd take the word of someone who works in the field over your word any day. You are no expert in court proceedings or law, obviously. Your story kept changing like the wind, lol!
^^This^^
Great, just pull the court records, 87. I do have another court date. Still haven't been charged.
And yes, they do arrest people without charging them. Jesus, you all must have had Civics from Ms. T. The police can make an arrest. They present the case to the prosecutor. The prosecutor decides if he or she is willing to put their publically elected neck on the line to press charges in the case. They won't go forward unless they think they can win because they won't get re-elected if their win-loss record is shit. Arrest does not = charges filed. You can be arrested on probable cause. Probable cause can be established by a member of the community making an affidavit. That member of the community does not have to prove anything, they can make any claim on a police report they want to. If they lie on the police report they run the risk of being charged with lying to the police or filing a false report. They will only be charged though if the police give a flying fuck about it. They can risk being sued in civil court. It sucks to lie on a police report but that doesn't mean that nobody would EVER do that. Cindy Anthony perjured herself on the stand in front of a national audience in a high profile murder case and nothing happened to her. See how that works?
A man in this town was arrested a few years ago on probable cause that he murdered his wife. He was arrested the day before Thanksgiving. They can hold you for 3 days without charging you with a crime. Because of the holiday, he got to stay in jail until the Monday after Thanksgiving because he couldn't afford to bond out. On that Monday, the prosecutor's office declined to press charges in the case because of lack of evidence. He got to spend 5 days in jail and was never charged with a crime. Guess what he gets for that? Nothing. The state is immune, he is out any lost wages and he got to miss spending the holiday with his family. Was he guilty? Who knows? Nobody has ever been charged with her murder but the prosecutor has one shot at you. They aren't going to blow their wad without the evidence to back it up. The police, however, have NOTHING to do with whether charges are filed though. Well, outside of doing good police work and building a solid case. But even then, if the prosecutor chooses not to file charges, nothing happens.
So, pillar of the legal community, you still want to bet your ass that this is all bullshit?
YAWN
While all the evidence might not be gathered, there DOES in fact have to be some probable cause to make an arrest.
Can A Police Officer Arrest Me Without Evidence
4/19/2012
Can A Police Officer Arrest Me Without Evidence?
A determination needs to be made by a police officer that there is probable cause in order to make an arrest. Probable (or reasonable) cause for an arrest exists when the facts are sufficient to cause a fair minded person of average intelligence to believe that the Defendant committed the alleged crime.
from this legal site:
http://www.hilfandhilf.com/blog/Can-A-Police-Officer-Arrest-Me-Without-Evidence_AE157.html
"Probable cause" requires more than a mere suspicion that a suspect committed a crime, but not as much information as would be required to prove a suspect guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
I don't really give a shit whether you're convicted or not, bananabitch. You're shady enough to be mixed up with identity theft charges and there was enough probable cause to arrest you.
You and your family are trash.
She must be guilty of something or she wouldn't be here defending herself so fiercely.
Guilty OR innocent, I wouldn't be posting about it on a place like this, that woman is an idiot.
Guilty OR innocent, I wouldn't be posting about it on a place like this, that woman is an idiot.
March 24, 2013 at 1:24 PM
Sing it, Sistah!!
Attention whore doesn't even come close to covering it . . .
"Probable cause" requires more than a mere suspicion that a suspect committed a crime, but not as much information as would be required to prove a suspect guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
I don't really give a shit whether you're convicted or not, bananabitch. You're shady enough to be mixed up with identity theft charges and there was enough probable cause to arrest you.
You and your family are trash.
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Worth repeating
So I'm guilty if I defend myself but I'm also guilty if I don't. Got it. And please, I haven't posted any of the details of the case here so GTFO yourself.
Shady to get wrapped up in something? LOL, you people are so incredibly stupid. I really hope your little naive world always remains such.
Here is a link to the definition of probable cause but most of you don't have the reading comprehension to understand it: http://dictionary.law.com/Default.aspx?selected=1618
Did the BiscuitScraps really leave the pod, or was she just trying to get people to beg her to stay?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228467
Barftastic!
Corelle? Oh No! Only Villeroy and Boch for my table
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228533
OH FUCK YOU
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Did the BiscuitScraps really leave the pod, or was she just trying to get people to beg her to stay?
March 24, 2013 at 3:04 PM
I think she thought she had a following and people would go with her. Others "went" but they'll be back, even if she isn't. She is already making requests to change the forums LOL(they ask for feedback).
She is already making requests to change the forums LOL(they ask for feedback).
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heh! I would totally expect this from her :)
Poor banana lady. I see she's still here trying to defend herself.
"Corelle? Oh No! Only Villeroy and Boch for my table
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228533
OH FUCK YOU "
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I so love that perceived status goods are now available to the masses on Amazon. That way everyone can play pretend rocknrolla and impress the more poors.
Why is it that we as a society are expected paste a smile on and say all the right things when it's all you can do not to break down and cry and all you really need is the people you love to say how much they care.
I took that as a retort to idiot ChildofGrace, 101. I'm sure everybody other than CoG herself and KristinL16 has noticed all her moronic question threads.
I care 106 :::::hug:::: ;)
took that as a retort to idiot ChildofGrace, 101.
Same here.
thanks 108
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3226235
My gaydar is totally pinging on this dude. Just sayin'.
Not sure about teh gay, but he looks like a total doofus, and I am not buying for a minute that the photos were a surprise.
Who in the fuck walks around outside with snow on the ground in a sleeveless dress?
The both seem like a couple of posers . . . princesslasertron types, if you will. Huh. And her DH seems very gay-or metrosexual at the very least.
Those photos were not a surprise. As you said, snow on the ground and no jacket...???
Not that there's anything wrong with that!
Not at all, 114! :)
I bought my Fiestaware from Kohls. It chipped and scratched something awful. I talked to customer service and they told me Kohls exclusively purchases factory seconds and that's why they can deeply discount it.
I pitched mine and am still looking for every day dishes. You couldn't pay me to ever buy Fiestaware again, if only for the fact so freaking many lemming Peas own it.
You couldn't pay me to ever buy Fiestaware again, if only for the fact so freaking many lemming Peas own it.
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That's me, except I've never bought any. I didn't buy any coconut oil, either, and I don't play Candy Crush. I stayed off Pinterest and Draw Something, and I hated the Majikal Boeuf!
I guess I'll never be a real pea. **sniffsniff**
I've never had the BFFFFFFFFFFFYBEEEEEEEEEEEEEF
I have my own recipes for stuff, don't need their can o' crap recipes.
I do like coconut oil, but I've been using it since I was a child in Hawaii in the early 1960s. Not quite trendy iykwim. Never bought fiestaware. But I do like a good biweekly pedicure.
KAPOOYA!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLX2tAPy0jU
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228562
I'm tempted to tell the fucktard to open the bottle and start guzzling. She'd probably do it, too.
God, I wish she would 121!
At this point, she's got cog beat handily in teh stoopid department.
Is she related to childofgrace? The stupid is high with her.
"the stupid is high"
"the stupid is strong"
.wow.just.wow.
Hmm, a spam deletion. Hi Jane.
50: If you have to camp out at the VA in order to get your husband seen- so it. Do not let them tell you what they want you to do for them timewise, be vigilent and demanding and tell them what you need NOW!!
and thank you to you and your husband for serving, he doesn't deserve to have that hell hanging over his life any longer than necessary.
Just read the football wife thread. What a bitch.
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I was at the Suzy Shier outlet and picked up some black platform wedge sandals on for $7.50. Super comfy!
At the thrift store I found some Nine West white platform wedge sandals for $7, and a pair of Stuart Weitzman high-heeled sandals with leather straps and studs, also for $7.
I also bought a cute short-sleeved above the knee dress with a large retro floral pattern, white background with red, black and grey. Will look great with either pair of wedge sandals. That was only $6.50, because it was half price day!
Oh, I also got a long, sleeveless animal print dress from the Sally Ann for $4. I can wear it with a light sweater til summer rolls around. I love wearing dresses.
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You must have some words, 128. Otherwise I don't know what your issue is. The clothes? The shoes? The fact that she got them at a thrift store? The brands? WTH?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228663
How has an adult never been to a laundromat? Ever? Seems odd to me.
I went when I was a kid to do laundry, and I used one when I was a young adult living in apartments. Now I use one to wash comforters. No big deal.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3228587&pg=1&sigtoggle=true
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Church Dress Code thread.
Um - Am I the only one who noticed that 'learning disabled' DarkAngel's posts on this thread are remarkable grammatically correct and lucid?
I have long believed that she was was not what she claimed she.
I came to post about that thread, but my commentary was: Damn, there are some judgmental bitches on that thread. "You're not wearing what I think is appropriate" and "I need to get my sister into church but she isn't interested."
It makes me remember how relieved I felt when I admitted I was an atheist. Christians are the nastiest, most judgmental people I've ever met.
Now I need to take dorkangle off ignore to read her posts.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228675
Stay off Two Peas and avoid pea trends. Don't watch every frigging TV show like some peas do. Don't ask dumb questions or start "cleaning challenges." You get lots more done.
a pair of Stuart Weitzman high-heeled sandals with leather straps and studs, also for $7.
Oh, I also got a long, sleeveless animal print dress
LOL
As federal agencies scramble to avert or delay sequester-tied furloughs, the Obama administration continues to spend millions of dollars on foreign aid to the Palestinians – and seek millions more, despite past efforts by Congress to freeze the money.
The State Department confirmed this month the administration has moved forward with $500 million in aid, and is trying to secure another $200 million from Congress.
I didn't even finish reading dorkangel's first post in the church thread because it's riddled with errors!
Um - Am I the only one who noticed that 'learning disabled' DarkAngel's posts on this thread are remarkable grammatically correct and lucid?
I have long believed that she was was not what she claimed she.
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And now, she's breeding!! The 'learning disability' continues. Her gene pool needs some chlorine!
She already has a daughter 136. You make it sound like she's new at this.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228720
Only a pea would need to ask about laundry baskets.
Everybody has a favorite and a why of any product you can mention, 138. Not too hard to realize that's the feedback she's looking for.
You must be one of those peas who can't buy the simplest thing without pea advice and assistance.
Step 1: Go to Target/Walmart/Meijers/store of choice.
Step 2: Locate laundry basket aisle and select size and shape of one's choosing.
Step 3: Take basket(s) to checkout and pay.
Step 4: At home, place dirty clothes in basket.
I've had mine for 13 years.
It isn't about not being able to do something. It's about hearing other people's thoughts on a subject. No matter how mundane you think a subject is, chances are there are many people that have thoughts on it or have come up with a solution to the OP's particular issue.
But you know that.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228723
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Really? The things people will put on the internet! With her photo too. And she's not a frequent poster so why would she want/need to "run it by the Peas"? Oh my god.
139 Anonymous said... 139
Everybody has a favorite and a why of any product you can mention, 138. Not too hard to realize that's the feedback she's looking for.
March 25, 2013 at 2:04 PM
OP doesn't have a favorite, yet. Not until she gets an answer from a pea she likes. :P
"OP doesn't have a favorite, yet. Not until she gets an answer from a pea she likes. :P"
No shit! She's looking to hear from people who do.
Not too hard to realize that's the feedback she's looking for.
Apparently 143 is having a very hard time with that concept.
I know 142! No wonder her marriage is failing. I would divorce her if I were her husband.
WHAT SAY THE PEAS? WHAT SAY THE PEAS?
Anyone asking that should be bitch-slapped severely!
Wench has a point about the manmeat pea. That's some serious oversharing.
I'm cutting the cheated-on wife some slack. She's in shock, and she's not the one giving out the intimate details of their marriage and sex-life. That's the cheating husband's doing.
That pea needs to divorce that binkini guy stat.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228733
Here come the xenophobic peas. I like some of them, but Dynalady especially turns into a frother about immigration.
She's a sahm with three kids, she isn't going anywhere. She'll somehow manage to justify it like that wife of a pilot who was learning how to speak Polish from a flight attendant.
144 Anonymous said... 144
"OP doesn't have a favorite, yet. Not until she gets an answer from a pea she likes. :P"
No shit! She's looking to hear from people who do.
March 25, 2013 at 2:54 PM
145 Anonymous said... 145
Not too hard to realize that's the feedback she's looking for.
Apparently 143 is having a very hard time with that concept.
March 25, 2013 at 2:55 PM
144 You missed a post somewhere.
145 No shit..
Sometimes people here don't realize they're NOT talking to the same person but that people are actually agreeing with them.
SMH
Yep. You're right, 151.
Oops.
(embarrassed smiley)
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I bought some "toys" for the bedroom I'm also having my MIL take the kids for the night so we'll have some alone time to use them
Stacy
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Can't say she wasn't giving the dick attention. What a bastard.
The bastard..
http://www.flickr.com/photos/27171315@N03/2660285336/in/photostream
Notice how Stacy is the ONLY person who looks happy in that photo? Her hubby is the one taking care of the kids while she is off in her own little world. More to that story.
Another reminder never to post much of anything online. Some crazy pea bitch will go looking for anything and everything you've ever put out there.
I think he is a good looking guy *shrug* but he is an asshole to be a sneaky, lying cheating cheater. Good luck to her:(
How many of you women here would have a problem with your husband going to a bikini bar?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228739
Here's another stupid thread.
142... I am sometimes shocked at the number of times it comes up on the board that if you just dislike what your spouse is doing you are perfectly within your rights to demand that your spouse cut ties with friends and if they even express a desire to keep a friendship it means they aren't dedicated to their marriage. That is some isolating, abusive bullshit that I think more people would acknowledge as such if the genders were reversed in these scenarios.
I'm not really talking about that lady and her titty bar husband, but the reactions from the peas to her question. They are really quick on the 'test him by making him give up his friends FOR YOU to prove his love' trigger. Blergh. So many unhealthy f'd up marriages in pea-ville.
you really think he has a "friendship" with the girls at the breasturant? I wouldn't make my dh give up a true friendship to prove anything to me, but I am not like the other peas. And I sure as hell am not cuntyupnorth who will put up with anything from her dh just so she has a man. My self worth isn't tied up in having a man and I can support myself TYVM.
He is lying and hiding things and CRIED when she said she didn't want him going to the titty bar. That is not ok. It isn't ok to make your partner cut off from their friends but she didn't ask him to do that.
He's confiding in a stripper who is probably soaking him for all kinds of money. He needs a new hobby,
The bukkit is full of controlling, unhappy, whiny cunts.
I couldn't believe the number of bitches on the seafood drama queen thread that said that they don't "allow" their husbands to eat or cook seafood in the house because it bothers their delicate sensibilities.
Insane.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228766
Here we go with her amazing, "profoundly gifted," oh-so-special children again.
164 Anonymous said... 164
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228766
Here we go with her amazing, "profoundly gifted," oh-so-special children again.
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And I am "profoundly" shocked that this mom has yet to figure out that this child is "profoundly" an Aspie!
Children with Asperger's Syndrome do not understand idioms or metaphors. They are very literal thinkers. They have a very difficult time understanding when it's polite to say something and when NOT to say something.
I feel very sorry for the OP. She has a very tough time a head for her and this child. Best of luck to her.
God, I am so tired of hearing "Aspies" and "on the spectrum."
Either you're profoundly gifted - which means you are uber smart AND you can function and handle shit that normal people can handle - or you're really smart in some ways and utterly useless in others.
"Profoundly gifted" or not, ReallyRed's kid sounds like a rude little asshole, and so does she because she can't talk about the kid without referring to him as "profoundly gifted."
Does anyone on that thread talking about how their kid is "just like Sheldon Cooper" actually notice that Sheldon really does not have close friends? His roommate and coworkers put up with him, but they are often frustrated by him, and are very understanding on the show. I don't think people in real life would be so forgiving...
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228771
This poster must be bored tonight...bragging about a fight and stirring the pot...
God, I am so tired of hearing "Aspies" and "on the spectrum."
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+1. Somebody here posted once that ADD/ADHD and Asperger's are over-diagnosed. The more time goes on, the more I agree.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228786
Cut.the.strings.
Jesus Christ.
And do people really believe in a "power of the peas" WTFever.
142... I am sometimes shocked at the number of times it comes up on the board that if you just dislike what your spouse is doing you are perfectly within your rights to demand that your spouse cut ties with friends and if they even express a desire to keep a friendship it means they aren't dedicated to their marriage. That is some isolating, abusive bullshit that I think more people would acknowledge as such if the genders were reversed in these scenarios.
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Oh please. This guy is an ass. He's CRYING at the thought of her being upset over him going to this place. He is erasing his internet/cell history. He's still going even after he said he wouldn't. He's a fucking ass, and obviously is doing things bad enough to hide from her.
My brother (single) has "friends" at the local strip club too. They use him for helping them move, money, rides to work, etc. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was spending $$$ not only while AT the bar, but also on things outside of the bar for these girls, or at least one of them.
I'm no man basher, and of COURSE it sucks when wives insist guys cut off their friends or hobbies and give ultimatums over things they "dislike". But this is an entirely different story. She doesn't just "dislike" this situation - she's hurt, being lied to, and probably in danger of STDs. He's doing some messed up shit including clearing out history on the cell/pc. PUH-LEASE. She DESERVES to demand he knock it the fuck off.
Here we go with her amazing, "profoundly gifted," oh-so-special children again.
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Really Red/Andrea is a real piece of work. She has such a sense of superiority and the entitlement that goes along with it. Of course her children are *brilliant* and there could not be a single thing wrong with them. It is no wonder she is a single mom. Who could stand to be around her and her offspring for more than a few minutes?
172-her kid has way serious issues and she refuses to see them. she is an idiot.
Bill Ayers and Hillary Clinton murdered Skybar in order to silence her. She knew too much.
I can't believe no one copied the OP in the bar thread.
"you have my permission to turn around and ask them if they're a Pea"*
Ilenescraps, has given you permission, so now you are ALLOWED to.
BTW Wasn't she IleneTell before?
*That's from the newest reclining thread.
The kid sounds like a complete brat. Someone should have checked his obnoxious behavior many moons ago and it's too late now.
Just what the world needs...another "brilliant" kid with no social skills (or aspie. wtf ever).
She already has a daughter 136. You make it sound like she's new at this.
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IIRC, that daughter isn't normal either. PLUS Dorkangle is on welfare/foodstamps. I'm sorry but shooting out crotch nuggets is not a right guaranteed in the Constitution and if you can't feed them, you sure as hell shouldn't be breeding them!!
It's not MY job as a taxpaying citizen with a JOB to fund your little ankle biters!!
I wanted to run this by the Peas to make sure that I'm not being unreasonable. Last week I found out that my husband has been going to a "bikini"Â bar near our house for the last year, behind my back. He would tell me that he was going to a different local sports bar or he would just go when I thought he was at work. He told me that he didn't tell me where he was really going because I'd get upset and not want him to go there anymore. Well duh. If you knew it would upset me why would you even start going there?
I told him that I didn't want him going there anymore out of respect to me and our marriage, especially because he felt the need to sneak behind my back to go there. To make it worse I guess he has formed friendships with some of these girls and other male regulars that go there. We have been having some marital problems over the last year and he has been talking to one girl in particular about the problems we've been having. He has told this woman and other bar patrons intimate details of our marriage and sex life. He even admitted to showing her some dirty text messages that I had written to him. He said he was just bragging to show her how much better our relationship has been. That all her advice had helped our marriage improve, he's so grateful to her and so should I blah blah blah. I flipped out. How dare he talk with another woman about the intimate details of our marriage and especially how dare he show her text messages that I assumed were private between the two of us.
He swears that he's just friends with this girl that nothing has or will ever happen between them. That she's married, too young, would never be interested in him sexually, it would never happen in a million years. That I'm just being jealous and other men have wives that have no problem with them going to the bar. I'm being a bitch, I'm being unreasonable. He said that he has also formed friendships with the other men that frequent this bar. That he didn't want to stop going there. When I gave him an ultimatum that he either stopped going or I would leave he got very emotional and acted like I had just asked him to get rid of his dog (I honestly think he'd be less upset about getting rid of his dog). He said that these are his friends and he couldn't imagine not being able to see them and talk to them. He actually cried over it, acted like his life was over, begged me to not take it away from him. He said that he should've never told me about the bar and just kept going behind my back. That was a huge red flag to me that he is way too attached to this bar and I'm right to not want him going back.
After many tears and melt downs between the two of us he agreed to no longer go there but I could tell he was very upset about it. Now he hasn't brought it up again, has been acting like nothing happened. I honestly don't believe for one minute that he will stop, that he has decided to continue going there irregardless of how I feel or how it will affect our marriage. I honestly think he may have went there last night on his way home from work. I don't know maybe I'm being paranoid. He has a job with weird hours so it would be so easy to tell me he's on a job and go to the bar. He also refuses to tell me where the bar is because he says that he doesn't want me to show up and make a scene. Hello, why would I show up and make a scene unless I find him hanging out there.
Now I'm in investigator mode looking up all the local bikini bars in our area. I'm pretty sure I know where it is. I think I may keep that secret to myself so I can drive by one night when he's gone to see if he's there.
Another thing that really bothers me is after I found out about this I started checking the history on his cell phone to see what he's been up to online. It's completely blank. He has been erasing his internet history on his phone each night! I told him that is a huge red flag to me that he is hiding something. That if he's not doing anything wrong he shouldn't have to erase his history. He says that it's a matter of principle and wants privacy and almost acted like he'd rather divorce than hand over that information.
I'm afraid if things don't change I will joining the ranks of other divorced peas. I'm so sad. I don't want a divorce. I love him very much but I can't let him disrespect me this way. I have to take a stand. I'd rather have respect for myself and be alone.
So before I start calling lawyers what do the Peas think? Am I overreacting?
What was the point of C/P the Bikini Bar wife's post here?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228786
Wasn't it only four months ago when they rescued their daughter from her abusive relationship? And now she wants to get married?
Here's link:
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3205226#30544531
Am I the only Blog Bitch who hates the term "crotch nugget"? blech
crotch nugget, kidlet, what say the peas, and many others make me want to punch puppies.
"God, I am so tired of hearing "Aspies" and "on the spectrum."
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ITA. And *I'm* so tired of hearing about all of these kids that are: "Gifted and Talented" or "brilliant" or "profoundly gifted" or "extremely intelligent" or have "extremely high IQ's" (and of course - mom and dad were too!)
The reality is: It doesn't matter one bit just how "smart" someone is if they lack the needed social skills to use all of the knowledge. Being "smart" does NOT trump all else in life.
These parents that pander to their anti-social little special snow-flakes are not doing them or society any favors.
Some the nicest, kindest, most hard-working people I know are far from being geniuses. And the vast majority of so-called "brilliant" people I know are genuine ass-holes. They wear their intelligence as a badge of honor, lord it over people that they deem less smart them and act like jerks 99% of the time.
I think the OP on that thread LOVES how smart her kid is. And I truly had to snicker when she slipped in that "Honestly, much of this I do think is because of his dad." Yep - that's it. Not HER fault, not the kid being an ass - it's DAD's fault! Yep. That's the ticket!
It was a blog bitch that coined the term crotch nugget ;)
#184 - lmfao
The "gifted" asses I work with can't seem to hold a productive meeting or type a decent paragraph in email. They create drama and the projects are usually delayed.
The ones with good common sense and tact are usually the ones that can complete a project on time without all the drama.
I'll take someone with good common sense over any of those "gifted" or "brillant" ones.
"What say the peas?" makes my idiot-radar go off.
178 Anonymous said... 178
She already has a daughter 136. You make it sound like she's new at this.
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IIRC, that daughter isn't normal either.
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Only responding to your first sentence. The rest is your opinions and they are what they are..(Really not sure why you copied what you copied even and responded with something else? oh well)
Did she say her daughter wasn't normal? Not sure where you're recalling that from, correctly or incorrectly.
SEOUL, South Korea – North Korea's military warned Tuesday that its artillery and rocket forces are at their highest-level combat posture in the latest in a string of bellicose threats aimed at South Korea and the United States.
Every time someone asks about shoe recommendations, I just want to pull my hair out. "Please recommend the ugliest pair of shoes to go with this dress. And absolutely NO HEELS!" Seriously, if you can only wear flats, then there is not much to say here.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228858
Even a low heel would look a million times better than flats with that dress. Then leave those puppies on when you wrap your legs around his head later at home. LOL
Yeah, 193 - you seen her avatar? I don't need to think about those two going at it with or without her shoes on.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228880
Am I the only one that doesn't know what she's talking about with the phrase "facetime with a boy"? Are they going to jail? WTH?
195, yes, you are the only one. Facetime is like Skype but only if you are cool enough to have an iPhone.
Guess I'm not cool. :(
What was the point of C/P the Bikini Bar wife's post here?
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because someone asked for it and said they couldn't believe no one had copied it.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3228824
Scrappower started this thread just so she could bring up an old post that she disagreed with and the poster wouldn't engage her back then. She's trying to get her to engage again.
175 - I can't believe no one copied the OP in the bar thread.
198 - because someone asked for it and said they couldn't believe no one had copied it.
FUCKING PARALLEL WORLDS.
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