I'm getting really tired of the Kristina bashing. ------------------- Just a random poll: How many cats in your household? Do you have a weakness for silly hats?
It's funny, I get annoyed with the Banana Lady bashing and the Lauren stuff gets old too. Bashing, Kristina? Never get tired of seeing that. LOL Bash away.
Could be because those that bash Kristina on being a clueless bitch, don't take up entire pages to do so. They don't interject it into everything. They say their piece and move on.
WTF??? Total bullshit that her 2 year old said that. Furthermore, Kelly was making fun of Miley. It was a joke about how trashy Miley is. I'm so damn sure her 2 year old old said it was yucky. WTH would a 2 year old know about it.
the bash Krustina posts are the only ones worth reading and she's earned all of them. Stupid ugly bitch should stop posting pictures of herself. Krusty makes Crapper Beth look like a fucking beauty queen.
"What are you, fucking stupid? The comment HERE was about SUNSHINE'S comment THERE.
NOT about the content of the OP - WTF people...learn to read.
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Hey, 193. Why don't you take a Xanax and go fuck yourself? My comment my meant to be pretty tongue-in-cheek after her bullshit on the "Let's fight..." thread. I'm sorry I made the assumption that you'd read through it. Either way, your weapons-grade meltdown is a bit over the top, dear. It's Halloween. Have some chocolate.
"OHMYFUGGING GAH LEARNTAREADBLAAAAAAARGH!!!!!111!!!" - That's what you sound like.
Sunshine is so numb. She's probably the one coming here and pointing out how HILARIOUS her hippy comment was. That thread she started about Halloween with the peas and all their rule.....there's going to be a run on eggs tonight at their local grocery stores.
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Haven't looked at your link yet, 25, but I'm guessing it's scrappower and her yule tree. She is second only to heartcat in negativity and fun-sucking status.
FMR, she comes off as such a miserable bitch. She had already posted on Peano's "too early" thread, but then she had to go a pull a Lauren and spread the misery further with a separate thread to bitch.
So keep your crazy parodied ass in your house --------------------------------------------------------------------- Classic Dorkangle stupidity on her Halloween vent thread.
Parodied ass--LMAO. Wonder if she was going for paranoid.
I still can't decide if she's truly that stupid or she is some strange, twisted troll
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague.
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague.
The whole kissing the bosses wife thread is weird. The OP has a weird dynamic with the other couple. Sharing hotel rooms and laying in bed with the other's spouse. I am no prude but the way she keeps defending how "close" they were is just bizarre. On one hand it's like she's mad her husband kissed her friend and on the other hand she's almost defending it. Odd.
38 I don't want to say how or why I know but the story she told is pretty accurate. Her DH and the friend made out on the camping trip. There has been lots of flirting between the two for a couple of years. Nothing has happened.....yet (other than the kissing). I would call it an emotional affair because she is in love with him and he eggs it on by flirting with her and telling her she is beautiful, etc. Shit like that. He has said no to her advances in the past (other than the kissing) but like I said he continues to speak to her and treat her like someone he cares about more than a friend. I think it's only a matter of time before they sleep together. I think they are all fucked up but she doesn't listen to me so whatever.
I know all 4 of them but know the "Boss's Wife" better so I'm getting her side of it.
Oh one more thing I want to add is I am not the only person who knows about this situation, hence the reason I posted here anonymously. I don't want to say anymore though or give more details though. The OP saying she doesn't want anyone to know is kind of funny because lots of people know about this.
What idiot shares a small hotel room (one room, two beds) with the boss and his wife? Or even just another married couple? That's just weird. If I go on a trip without my kids and am staying in a hotel with my husband, I am going to want a little "romance". I sure as hell am not going to do it in the same room with another couple a few feet away. Not to mention just basic everyday behaviors like getting ready for bed or showering or whatever. Who wants to do all of that in the same hotel room as your boss and his wife? Just weird all the way around.
It's wonderful to have "couple friends" to do things with. We have 2 couple we are pretty close to. However, the OP and her husband seem to have an overly close relationship that crossed a few basic boundaries. We go on trips together but don't share the same room. We would go camping together but not lay in the bed talking to the other's spouse alone. We would pop a squat on the floor if need be and talk. They sound odd.
The OP sounds like one of those peas who pride themselves on being able to be best friends with the opposite sex and "let" their husband do the same. Oh look how cool we are. Yeah lady, look what happened! You dumbass.
If the circumstances in the OP were different, although I guess the details could be made up, I'd think this was Luvnlifelady. She's about as stupid as the OP.
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague. November 1, 2013 at 10:44 AM
What the hell kind of job does the cheating husband have that he's the ONLY employee? Is his boss Walter White?
I would bet some big bucks that there are PLENTY of times that the husband and the boss's wife are alone together that the stupid, clueless pea doesn't even know about. And that there is some serious screwing going on.
This will probably be another one of those situations where the girlfriend has to 'accidentally' leave sex pics laying around so that the wife-in-willful-denial will have to face reality.
What the hell kind of job does the cheating husband have that he's the ONLY employee? Is his boss Walter White? ----------------------------------- LOL. This made me laugh.
It looks like Melanell gave herself away when she posted as herself by stating she would get "K" out of "our" lives right away. If she was a third party she would have written that she would get "K" out of YOUR lives right away.
Eh, I've had people answer WWYD questions where they verbally put themselves in my place. example: "if it were me, I'd go to movie A instead of movie B." or "if my husband were cheating on me with the bosses wife, I'd boot that bitch out of our lives, take my kids, and get a divorce."
That kind of "evidence" is beyond flimsy.
I was going to go see if I could look through Melanell's posts for the last few months, but she has FIFTY THREE pages of posts in the last 6 months. I'm not THAT interested. And if it really is melanell, maybe if she spent less time on 2peas and more time with (or at least keeping tabs on) her husband, he wouldn't have felt the need to diddle around with the bosses wife.
I fell abit sorry for the wife/mellenel. If the blog hitch who knows her is telling the truth, then melanells husband is a big ol dick for encouraging the boss wife, flirting with her, etc. Their marriage obviously isn't anywhere near as great as that OP tried to make it sound. If the guy was happy in his marriage, he'd shut that shit down quick.
It wouldn't be a political thread if krusty wasn't there reminding of ole GW. When your big argument is at least he's not as bad as him, you know you've got a pretty crappy presidency.
Regarding the pizza and kids with health problems, I'm betting the mother and father didn't do anything and those kids had to pick crap off the pizza. I have a feeling that a huge portion of the mom's anger is at herself for not doing the right thing. If she made those kids pick the crap off, then she needs to apologize to her kids because she is just as much at fault as whoever ordered the things in the first place. If she let them be pushed into eating it, that is on her. No way would anyone get away with that for my kids if they had a liver disease! I'd order them the right thing and give anyone that began to eat without them the stink eye! My dh and I would wait until the kids' food came before eating a bite. That is how you teach people to treat you. You don't let them get away with it. And how does that make the kids feel? Even mom won't get them the right thing to eat.
I think mom dropped the ball too and just won't admit it. Several people said they would have ordered a new pizza, a few people asked if they ate the bad one, and she's not answering anyone.
I didn't look at all of Melanell's posts but on the "How long have you been married thread" she did say she was married 13 years and together 17 just like the cheating husband OP so maybe it really is her.
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I call bullshit on the whole "liver disease" They can have pizza, just not ANY toppings? No meat, no veggies, but carbs and fat? She sounds like one of those loons who claim their kids have special dietary needs, but still feeds them tons of processed shit.
I just find it hard to believe a grandmother wouldn't order the right food for her sick grandkids. She even called ahead of time to ask the OP. I don't think this was done intentionally. Grandma may have told SIL what to order and then SIL didn't do it, but I don't think it was Grandma. She offered to make the kids a pancake but OP wouldn't hear of it. Methinks OP is probably a hard to get along with bitch who loves using her "sick kids" for reasons to get pissed off. Typical pea.
Melissa mom of two from north eastern PA is the woman whose husband is kissing bosses wife. ----------------------------- Who the hell is this? What's her pea name?
LMAO! This moron spent 60k to become a "chef" and yet is working at basically a concession stand inside a factory, comes to TP to whine about having to quit because the greasy grill cooks didn't appreciate all of her chef knowledge, and the peas tell her it's ok because she still has her integrity. Yeah, that'll pay the bills!
This chick is the poster child for getting an education in a field that actually pays well. She would have been better off not going to college at all.
Why doesn't she get divorced? She hates her husband. Hates him! She is constantly bitching about him. On the "How long have you been married" thread she said "TOO LONG".
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain?
What should I buy my niece, husband, daughter, daughter in law, blah, blah blah for Christmas? FFS if you have to ask a message board full of complete strangers what to buy for your family for Christmas MAYBE THEY DON'T NEED ANYTHING!! Use your time and money to buy something for someone with a real need.
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain? November 3, 2013 at 5:39 AM
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Some of the peas have more drama in their lives than a Danielle Steel novel.
Oh, as far as my dh being the only employee...we live in a smaller town, so most trades companies (plumber, electrician, builder, contractor, etc) have the owner and one or two employees. He does not work with the boss ever, he just texts the info dh needs, and he goes to the jobs. No office at all.
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain? -------------------------------------
She says, " I am going to get tested anyway even though it has been over 8 years since we had physical contact."
No and no. Well, I come here about once a week or so, I don't consider that often, but someone else might. Oh, wait, I mean a concerned "friend" told me to come here!!
"We do our charity giving at home. If asked to give at the regs I politely say, no thank you. If they are asking for donating to autism I have said a few times that we are walking our own autism journey."
Guess who said this? Not hard to guess right? 2peafaithful! The way she talks is so annoying. "walking our own autism journey"......"it hurts my heart"......and all the other bullshit flowery language she uses.
What happened to the post that was supporting the wife of the house wife kisser? It was there a bit ago. I can't back to post about it, and its gone. WTF?
I didn't see the supportive post...it would be great if you could post again!
681. Thank for the advice, but I'm willing to take the chance. I've never had to vent about him because our relationship is 95% awesome, so I'm going to work together with him to rebuild what he had, including the trust. If he does do that, I'll be sure to post it here so you can say I told you so.
84 Anonymous said... 84 http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259503 Is this thread for freaking real? November 3, 2013 at 10:19 AM
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OMG that thread is a hoot. Satan in the starter. Oh well at least he stayed out of her crock pot.
685, I'll post in support of your situation. If all the facts are correct and there was just the one incident of drunk kissing, I wouldn't leave at this point. The bosses wife was after him hot and heavy. It does sound as if he is really sorry and won't let it happen again. It would take me a long time to totally trust again, but I'd be willing to try, especially since you have kids together and your marriage was really good, outside of this one incident.
If you leave now, you will always regret not at least giving him the chance to prove himself committed to your marriage. I would absolutely stay, get into counseling, and really try to move past this. You could end up with an even stronger marriage.
If you stay and things don't work out as you need them to, you can always leave at that point, right? There is no rush here. You have nothing to lose by trying to work it out.
I'm divorced, . And even though I was the one that wanted it and filed, it is really hard to raise kids alone. Missing half the holidays sucks too. I would not recommend it unless you were positive you couldn't work things out.
Don't feel you need to leave to please others who say you're a fool to stay. You are the one living this, not them. People are human and mistakes can be made. This wasn't the worst thing I've ever heard about happening.
But I do think he should look for a new job before the wife decides to spill the story, twisting it to he kissed her first and she resisted. She might decide to get him fired out of spite. You need to be prepared by looking to relocate and get another job. She has already proven to be a shitty false friend to you and tried to take your husband. Why trust your income to be safe from her? She has shown no loyalty to you or her own husband. The closer you and your husband become, the more jealous and pissed she could be and decide to lash out by getting him fired.
Just my take on your circumstances for what it's worth to you.
686...you are confusing my story with the one melenell's "friend"told. My dh has not and does not flirt with her.
My dh has a very physical job, and comes home dirty and sweaty. Honestly if she wants him that bad to screw him when is like that, I'd tell him to go ahead with a pity fuck.
689...that is actually the plan. We have been saving for the down payment on what he will need to start. We should be there about February.
Ellapea must be such a joy to be around. *************************************************************************************** More drama in the crap storm she lives in. I had to laugh at the friend being too co-dependent on her....Ella wrote the book on co-dependent.
Do people really believe that Satan is trying to attack them through a car not working? When my car stops working I think I am going to wonder if it is because it is old and that's why it isn't working probably not Satan working against me.
Ella almost sounds drunk, the way she is lashing out at all the posters. Granted, they are being pretty mean, but usually she just ignores them. I am actually worried about her.
I seriously do not understand the trend of very dark haired women going blonde. Unless you are committed to touch ups every two weeks, it just looks trashy. I don't get it...
686...you are confusing my story with the one melenell's "friend"told. My dh has not and does not flirt with her. ----------------------------------------------------------------- I'd call laying in bed with her and making out flirting (or worse).
You sound really gross with your pity fuck statement, too.
LOL 109! Talking is not flirting. Yes, making out would be, but it truly was only once. He does not have an ongoing flirtatious relationship with her.
Um, yah, the pity fuck thing was supposed to be gross. My DH works mostly alone during the day. He could easily be sleeping with any number of women during the day...except for the fact that it is physical work, and he comes home dirty and greasy and sweaty.
Other than this issue, we have a great marriage. If you want to call it crappy, you go right on with your bad self!
Color me confused. If your marriage is so great, and him being in bed with someone else and making out is no big deal and you obviously knew you were going to accept everything he has told you as truth, why did you create that thread at the bukkit? And double why would you feel the need to come here (of all places) and further defend your rock-solid marriage?
If your relationship is as wonderful as you say it is, you don't need to try so hard to defend it on the NSBR and here at the smack blog. No matter what we--or the peas--think, you're the one that's got to live with Mr. Grabby-Hands.
For the exact reason I said, I wanted to be able to talk it out, but I didn't want to create drama by having IRL friends know about it. I never said it was no big deal, it is in fact a very big deal. Things are not just going right back to where they were, he is working to regain my trust. I only talked about it here first to defend a pea that was falsely accused of being me, and then because it is anonymous, I thought I would get some better feedback here. Stupid, I know. I should have known better. I don't have to live with mr grabby hands, as that is not what he is. One incident over 17 years does not make it that.
I thought I would get some better feedback here. Stupid, I know. I should have known better. ^^^ Eh. This place might be good for some truthful opinions. And if any trolls come along, you can just ignore them.
I hate to add to the negative chorus, but I really think you're being naive. I hope you can work it out, but I have seen too many cheaters that couldn't/wouldn't change their stripes to think that you're not going to be dealing with an even bigger issue down the line. It could be the whole truth about this one, or something else.
I can't even imagine how drunk I'd have to be to fuck around with my husband's boss. Some things you know are beyond wrong no matter how chemically fucked up you are.
Good luck with all this. I don't think I could live with all the lingering doubt, so you're a bigger person than I am. Once someone breaks my trust with something that big, I just can't believe in them the same way as before. BTDT. Got burned good trying to work it out. Hope your situation works out better than mine did.
I hate to add to the negative chorus, but I really think you're being naive. I hope you can work it out, but I have seen too many cheaters that couldn't/wouldn't change their stripes to think that you're not going to be dealing with an even bigger issue down the line. It could be the whole truth about this one, or something else. ********************************************** Being naive is a big fear of mine. We did set some specific rules, and I'm going into this with my eyes wide open. DH is also very open to changing things so I am comfortable (at least for now, I will be watching to make sure things don't slip back to old habits). Thank you.
In a recent thread, she mentioned they were having money problems...interesting since she started the bag wars with her quest for the 'perfect' designer bag...
^I'm betting no. She has said rude and weird things before, not returned to the thread, acted like nothing had happened, and she has gotten a pass. I don't remember her being quite so hateful before, but she definitely has a history of erratic and strange behavior.
It seems to be a pattern with the crazy peas. Lauren, benem, lynlam, LTO/beje, and others I can't think of right now. The bukkit is a strange place.
Mariah/benem is so full of shit on that stupid internet girl thread. She started that thread to bash the girl. When the wind didn't blow her way, she came back with, "you see my point-the internet is full of crazies."
Uh, no. That was not the point in your OP. All you did was bash the girl and call her stupid. Oh, and tell parents to raise their kids not to be that stupid. Because, you know, benem has so much parenting wisdom and experience.
The woman whose husband made out with the bosses wife is insane. I can't believe you are here defending your husband as being a perfect angel other than laying in bed and kissing his bosses wife, right? LOL
You see nothing wrong with the boundaries you are crossing by being so close to this couple (his boss) by sharing hotel rooms, calling each other at 2am to hang out, laying in camper beds together. You all sound very immature, like a bunch of white trash teenagers.
The fact that you will continue to hang out with this couple and your husband is not going to look for another job makes you stupid as hell and I have no sympathy for you. It must not bother you very much at all if you can still continue to be with them. Mark my words you will be coming to the bucket crying that your husband got fired once his boss finds out. Or your husband will end up in jail for something stupid like a physical fight with the boss or God forbid, a sexual harrassment suit or something. More is going to come from this kissing incident. It's only a matter of time.
144 Anonymous said... 144 I can't imagine knowing benem IRL. Everything is so over the top and drama, drama, drama with her. November 4, 2013 at 9:59 AM
Re: Dizzypea....really? What 13 year old boy would want to play with the Rainbow Loom? Have times changed that much? I have girls but I remember when I was 13 and none of the boys would play with something like that.
"Hopefully, she sleeps on it and looks at things in a better light, for her sake. And, perhaps, we can all cut her a little slack if/when she comes back. Cuz that's what friends do." purplepackrat
I want to do a poll and see how many of the peas running out to buy the mcmuffin maker also have an unused cake pop maker. I would also bet that 95% of the peas that buy them will no be using them a month from now...
Eh, I don't keep up as much anymore, but even I read that the bosses wife pea said they are structuring to start his own business next March or something.
Like I posted before, there is no rush to leave him. If it works out, then she adds a strong marriage and her kids are in an intact home. If he stays again, then she has her answers and leaves then. She said she was going to counseling and he'd have to earn her trust back. I would hope you simultaneously prep for leaving in case it comes to that. And I don't mean don't they, I mean get paperwork in order and some funds set aside.
Some of you are acting like he cheated on you. As women, we should have her back and encourage her. If the guy does it again, I'll be the first to say get out of the marriage. But the scales haven't tipped that far for me yet. And of course, this isn't my marriage either.
But let's at least be supportive while the guy tries to make it right. I'm hoping you've learned your lesson regarding boundaries with other couples too. It does sound awfully risky to be that close with your husband boss, but we didn't experience the relationship evolve either. I just hope you don't let it happen again with any other couple.
We are not all perfect our of the womb. Most learn some lessons along the way. Why not this pea?
My kindle does the same thing...drives me crazy! Need to figure out how to turn it off.
Thank you for the kind words. I already have an advantage, in that if I did decide to leave, I have enough savings I could support myself and my kids for 8 months or so before I would have to have a job. We definitely learned some hard lessons and we know better for next time.
Oh of course "starting a business in March" came way later. After all of the peas told her he should get a new job. Not mentioned in the OP. Typical pea bullshit.
She also says they have several previous engagements that they WILL be hanging with the couple but won't in the future. LOL Yeah ok.
"Hopefully, she sleeps on it and looks at things in a better light, for her sake. And, perhaps, we can all cut her a little slack if/when she comes back. Cuz that's what friends do." purplepackrat
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__________________ That shows how sweet purplepackrat is, and i would totally do that for a friend, but not for who Elannah has shown herself to be here. I have always seen the ultra needy in her, but this is my first encounter with her ultra bitch side. I doubt she keeps many friends for long, and that "bestie" is a hell of a lot better off without Elannah in her life. I doubt most peas will give a shit about her now.
The husband is obviously attracted to the other woman. He has feelings for her proven by the fact he was alone and kissing her and while he is doing the right thing by telling his wife he will stay away from her. It's obviously because he doesn't trust himself to be around her because he feels something for her. If you can live with that, then go for it.
Yeah, you screwed the pooch this time Ellapea. We all know you read here. No more woe is me, my fillintheblank is making me so sad today. Come lick my boots so i can feel loved and cared about. You could post a suicide post today and probably not get more than two "don't do it" responses. You've played the wrong hand this time, chickie.
You had best post an appologie post, and make it a good one. Maybe when you finish caring for your son, huh?
Ellapea, don't you apologize! You are in the right, and you don't anyone anything. If people can't accept you as you are, then screw them. There are places other than 2peas. I'm sure you can find a better site with much more understanding people anyway.
Ellapea, don't you apologize! You are in the right, and you don't anyone anything. If people can't accept you as you are, then screw them. There are places other than 2peas. I'm sure you can find a better site with much more understanding people anyway.
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Nice try Elannah. You fucked up and have no recourse but to disappear or apologize. What an dumbass you are posting here in support of yourself. I guess you really are that stupid.
leftturnonly is such a twat with her Elannah is hurting deeply bullshit. Dawn is a grief whore, an attention-seeker, and most of all she is a nasty bitch. She has shown her true colors more than once.
All you bitches can fuck off. You have no idea how hard Elannah's life has been. How dare you act ugly to her when she's hurting so deeply. If she needs to take her emotions out on the peas, what's it to you? Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are. Does Liz give you classes in being such assholes?
crazy, attention-whore benem is just DYING for someone to ask about her supposed stalker. It's too much to hope that the peas will just move right on past and not indulge her attention-whoring and drama-mongering.
Wow, Ella, please get some help immediately. Calling out Liz just like at the bukkit gives you away. I'm not surd what is going on with you, but it is not right and you need help.
All you bitches can fuck off. You have no idea how hard Elannah's life has been. How dare you act ugly to her when she's hurting so deeply. If she needs to take her emotions out on the peas, what's it to you? Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are. Does Liz give you classes in being such assholes?
Is it normal for a seven-year-old to still believe in Santa Clause? Seems weird to me--I was four when I started doubting and five when I knew for sure. My DH was about the same.
But really, why not just post as yourself at the nsbr? You do it here. Everyone knows you are maddiesmum. Yet you deny it-why? ---------------------- Because she's a dope. She posts the same familial, pet, hobby info under all her alters then is genuinely flabbergasted when she's outted within a couple of posts. I can only surmise that embarrasment at her incessant and conspicuous slip-ups is the driving force behind the denials.
Because she's a dope. She posts the same familial, pet, hobby info under all her alters then is genuinely flabbergasted when she's outted within a couple of posts. I can only surmise that embarrasment at her incessant and conspicuous slip-ups is the driving force behind the denials.
It's *embarrassment* Lauren. If you're going to attemopt to insult me at least use proper grammar and spelling. It's *outed* not *outted, you moron. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
I need to anonymously text my friend that her DH is cheating on her. Can I buy a Tracfone with cash and do that? Any way I could be traced? I'm in WA state if that matters.
I'm not 682, but I am in the same position. I know for sure a friends DH is cheating on her, but I don't have proof, so I'm too scared to tell her. I have thought about anonymous texts or sending a letter to her, but I don't want to take the chance to be found out. For now, I'm just waiting it out, hoping he gets caught.
OMFG...is it really that fucking hard to figure out the "quote thing?" She seriously said: ""Is it that "quote" thingy at the bottom of the page? Near where it says URL, List Start, Bold, etc. ? ""
UMmmmm, how about you use the one fucking brain cell you have and click the 'thingy' and see what the fuck happens. Pure stupidity bothers the fucking hell out of me. Click the 'thingy' and it's pretty self-explanatory. Not that fucking hard to figure out.
Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are.
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Is this for real? You are more delusional that I thought you were. It does not matter what kind of pain you are in, lashing out at innocent people is never ok. You have no clue what they are going through. What a self centered bitch.
I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse?
189 Anonymous said... 189 I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse? November 4, 2013 at 4:31 PM
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Right because everything posted on the pod is 100% completely true.
What exactly is so hard about Ella's life? I know he sister died, which is awful and I'm sure she is grieving for her as anyone would. But what else is going on in her life that makes it so much worse than anyone else's problems?
She's insane! I feel bad for her child. I really do. Is his father around? Does he spend time with his father or did he run off and leave them?
You should act as if what people tell you is true. If it isn't, that's on them. If you distrust them and treat them like shit, that's on you. Who's the idiot?
No, you're a fool. 98% of things that happen every day are based on trust. You trust cars will stay in the other lane when you drive, you trust stores will open on time, you trust your neighbor won't shoot you. Only a fool goes through life not trusting others. You only stop trusting when a person gives you a reason to. Making fun of a person's depression because you think it's a life makes you a piece of shit.
I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse?
=========================== No, because she is probably still lying. Just because she posts things over there doesn't mean they are true. Ever watch the show "catfish" people all over the world lie on the internet every single day. They make up entire lives and persona's and often it is just for the attention it gets them. You're an idiot if you believe all the shit that gets posted over there is always real.
Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Are you fucking serious? Your pain gives you the right to act like a bitch and everyone else is supposed to just get over it. You are delusional! You need to seek help. I'm serious. Go to therapy, please!
There is absolutely nothing that Ellapea could be going through that justified her being so hurtful to others. Nothing. Typically someone who has dealt with a lot of pain in life is kinder to others, not a raving bitch with permission to be mean. Who are you trying to kid?
199, no one thinks it's ok for Ella to act that way except Ella. That was her posting in defense of herself. It was totally her words. It's easy to spot her posts over here. Everyone else knows she's a piece of crap.
She's just a woe is me kind of person. Everything is so much worse for her than anyone else according to her. Boo Hoo Hoo.
While I think it's weird when a few peas say their kids believed in Santa until they were in jr high school, I do find it very weird when someone finds it strange for a 7 year old or even a 10 year old to believe in Santa. Why is that weird? I'm sure the 10 year old is teetering on the edge of it but if they do believe so what? I think it's fine to let kids believe as long as they want to. I wouldn't force it but let them be kids. Gee whiz.
I believed in Santa until 4th grade so I think I was about 10 and I have nothing but fond memories of my childhood and the Christmas/Santa season was a great time for me and my sister. I don't know why some peas are so against the Santa thing.
However, I will agree Elf on a Shelf is kinda creepy. LOL.
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«Oldest ‹Older 601 – 800 of 978 Newer› Newest»I'm getting really tired of the Kristina bashing.
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Just a random poll: How many cats in your household? Do you have a weakness for silly hats?
It's funny, I get annoyed with the Banana Lady bashing and the Lauren stuff gets old too. Bashing, Kristina? Never get tired of seeing that. LOL Bash away.
Could be because those that bash Kristina on being a clueless bitch, don't take up entire pages to do so. They don't interject it into everything. They say their piece and move on.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3259082&pg=2
Funny how so many peas were outraged about this, but now that it's a hoax, everyone is quiet!
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259208
WTF??? Total bullshit that her 2 year old said that. Furthermore, Kelly was making fun of Miley. It was a joke about how trashy Miley is. I'm so damn sure her 2 year old old said it was yucky. WTH would a 2 year old know about it.
the bash Krustina posts are the only ones worth reading and she's earned all of them. Stupid ugly bitch should stop posting pictures of herself. Krusty makes Crapper Beth look like a fucking beauty queen.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259249
lol...she deleted and changed her profile pic!
Just a random poll: How many cats in your household? Do you have a weakness for silly hats?
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Two and no.
"What are you, fucking stupid? The comment HERE was about SUNSHINE'S comment THERE.
NOT about the content of the OP - WTF people...learn to read.
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Hey, 193. Why don't you take a Xanax and go fuck yourself? My comment my meant to be pretty tongue-in-cheek after her bullshit on the "Let's fight..." thread. I'm sorry I made the assumption that you'd read through it. Either way, your weapons-grade meltdown is a bit over the top, dear. It's Halloween. Have some chocolate.
"OHMYFUGGING GAH LEARNTAREADBLAAAAAAARGH!!!!!111!!!" - That's what you sound like.
Speaking of meltdown, looks like 611 is having one.
Yes. My lack of exclamation marks and capitalized letters would certainly indicate that I am on the verge of needing an intervention, 612 (193).
11 You're showing your ass, or is that your costume? WTF...
Commenter did NOT even know about the other thread - talk about taking a chill pill. Agreeing with 12 here, total meltdown - how embarrassing.
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Sunshine said nothing other than "FUCK YOU HIPPIE" and something else..."
Sunshine is so numb. She's probably the one coming here and pointing out how HILARIOUS her hippy comment was. That thread she started about Halloween with the peas and all their rule.....there's going to be a run on eggs tonight at their local grocery stores.
Hasn't Jane earned her iPad yet?
Sunshine's to busy judging kids by their costumes and not giving them candy so I doubt she's posting here.
Two and no.
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Hang in there, Rookie! You have a have Wackadoo written all over you.
Poor 16 just wants to be bashed herself so badly.
WASHINGTON – Forty-eight million Americans will have their food stamps benefits slashed starting Friday, when a recession-era boost in the Supplemental Nutrition Assistant Program expires.
The move to cut back benefits will be the first wide-scale change to the program affecting nearly every single participant. The 13.6 percent cut comes out to about $36 a month less for a family of four getting government assistance or $420 a year, according to the Department of Agriculture.
Since 2000, the costs for the plan have increased more than 358 percent.
Michael Tanner, a senior fellow at the Cato Institute, cites lax eligibility requirements as one of the reasons behind the increase.
Enrollment in the food-stamp benefits also rose during the recession.
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GET A JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some real Halloween horror:
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259305
Biochem had her baby. I wonder what stupid two name combo this one will get?
Sharl is back to licking Lauren's twat again
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259346
What a fucking attention whore. She had to start a new thread just about this?
Haven't looked at your link yet, 25, but I'm guessing it's scrappower and her yule tree. She is second only to heartcat in negativity and fun-sucking status.
FMR, she comes off as such a miserable bitch. She had already posted on Peano's "too early" thread, but then she had to go a pull a Lauren and spread the misery further with a separate thread to bitch.
She mentions this on at least two other threads. Guess she wasn't getting enough attention.
oops, shouldn't have said heartcat-I meant that miserable bag of bitchiness, GRINNINGCAT
So keep your crazy parodied ass in your house
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Classic Dorkangle stupidity on her Halloween vent thread.
Parodied ass--LMAO. Wonder if she was going for paranoid.
I still can't decide if she's truly that stupid or she is some strange, twisted troll
that miserable bag of bitchiness, GRINNINGCAT
November 1, 2013 at 8:38 AM
LOL! So true
Isn't it odd that certain Obama supporters' insurance costs have all gone down and everything is perfect for them.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3259051&pg=2
Did JRenae/Jill not post a dozen or so pics of her kids dressed for Halloween? Or did she create her own thread to annoy the shit out of us?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259253
Any guesses who this dumbass is? Married 13 years, has kids, goes camping and to events with his boss. Those are the clues. LOL.
She's too busy competing with the middle school girls on art creation.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Circle-Motifs-by-Jill-Henrichsen/195632830511557
http://unseasonably.blogspot.com/
Just your average, typical pea, 33. The pod is full of desperate wives who will put up with a cheating husband.
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague.
Funny you should mention GC, a few people just called her out on always being a Debbie Downer on the Ellen thread
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague.
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So what is the real story?
The whole kissing the bosses wife thread is weird. The OP has a weird dynamic with the other couple. Sharing hotel rooms and laying in bed with the other's spouse. I am no prude but the way she keeps defending how "close" they were is just bizarre. On one hand it's like she's mad her husband kissed her friend and on the other hand she's almost defending it. Odd.
38 I don't want to say how or why I know but the story she told is pretty accurate. Her DH and the friend made out on the camping trip. There has been lots of flirting between the two for a couple of years. Nothing has happened.....yet (other than the kissing). I would call it an emotional affair because she is in love with him and he eggs it on by flirting with her and telling her she is beautiful, etc. Shit like that. He has said no to her advances in the past (other than the kissing) but like I said he continues to speak to her and treat her like someone he cares about more than a friend. I think it's only a matter of time before they sleep together. I think they are all fucked up but she doesn't listen to me so whatever.
I know all 4 of them but know the "Boss's Wife" better so I'm getting her side of it.
Oh one more thing I want to add is I am not the only person who knows about this situation, hence the reason I posted here anonymously. I don't want to say anymore though or give more details though. The OP saying she doesn't want anyone to know is kind of funny because lots of people know about this.
Damn. Way to be a trustworthy person, right there!
Who said I was trustworthy. LOL
What idiot shares a small hotel room (one room, two beds) with the boss and his wife? Or even just another married couple? That's just weird. If I go on a trip without my kids and am staying in a hotel with my husband, I am going to want a little "romance". I sure as hell am not going to do it in the same room with another couple a few feet away. Not to mention just basic everyday behaviors like getting ready for bed or showering or whatever. Who wants to do all of that in the same hotel room as your boss and his wife? Just weird all the way around.
It's wonderful to have "couple friends" to do things with. We have 2 couple we are pretty close to. However, the OP and her husband seem to have an overly close relationship that crossed a few basic boundaries. We go on trips together but don't share the same room. We would go camping together but not lay in the bed talking to the other's spouse alone. We would pop a squat on the floor if need be and talk. They sound odd.
The OP sounds like one of those peas who pride themselves on being able to be best friends with the opposite sex and "let" their husband do the same. Oh look how cool we are. Yeah lady, look what happened! You dumbass.
If the circumstances in the OP were different, although I guess the details could be made up, I'd think this was Luvnlifelady. She's about as stupid as the OP.
33, I know who it is. It's Melanell. She posted as herself on the thread to throw us off but it's her. I know the other party....the boss's wife. That's all I'm saying because I don't want to give away who I am in case either of them read here. Sorry to be vague.
November 1, 2013 at 10:44 AM
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I'm sitting on the bullshit bench.
What the hell kind of job does the cheating husband have that he's the ONLY employee? Is his boss Walter White?
I would bet some big bucks that there are PLENTY of times that the husband and the boss's wife are alone together that the stupid, clueless pea doesn't even know about. And that there is some serious screwing going on.
This will probably be another one of those situations where the girlfriend has to 'accidentally' leave sex pics laying around so that the wife-in-willful-denial will have to face reality.
SMH
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259241
So now kissing your baby on the lips is pervy and nasty. WTFFFFF??? Sometimes I really hate the Peas. There are some real psychos over there.
What the hell kind of job does the cheating husband have that he's the ONLY employee? Is his boss Walter White?
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LOL. This made me laugh.
What is it about 2PeaFaithful that drives me to drink?
It looks like Melanell gave herself away when she posted as herself by stating she would get "K" out of "our" lives right away. If she was a third party she would have written that she would get "K" out of YOUR lives right away.
Eh, I've had people answer WWYD questions where they verbally put themselves in my place. example: "if it were me, I'd go to movie A instead of movie B." or "if my husband were cheating on me with the bosses wife, I'd boot that bitch out of our lives, take my kids, and get a divorce."
That kind of "evidence" is beyond flimsy.
I was going to go see if I could look through Melanell's posts for the last few months, but she has FIFTY THREE pages of posts in the last 6 months. I'm not THAT interested. And if it really is melanell, maybe if she spent less time on 2peas and more time with (or at least keeping tabs on) her husband, he wouldn't have felt the need to diddle around with the bosses wife.
karma karma karma karma karma kameleon
I fell abit sorry for the wife/mellenel. If the blog hitch who knows her is telling the truth, then melanells husband is a big ol dick for encouraging the boss wife, flirting with her, etc.
Their marriage obviously isn't anywhere near as great as that OP tried to make it sound. If the guy was happy in his marriage, he'd shut that shit down quick.
It wouldn't be a political thread if krusty wasn't there reminding of ole GW. When your big argument is at least he's not as bad as him, you know you've got a pretty crappy presidency.
Melissa mom of two from north eastern PA is the woman whose husband is kissing bosses wife.
Regarding the pizza and kids with health problems, I'm betting the mother and father didn't do anything and those kids had to pick crap off the pizza. I have a feeling that a huge portion of the mom's anger is at herself for not doing the right thing. If she made those kids pick the crap off, then she needs to apologize to her kids because she is just as much at fault as whoever ordered the things in the first place. If she let them be pushed into eating it, that is on her. No way would anyone get away with that for my kids if they had a liver disease! I'd order them the right thing and give anyone that began to eat without them the stink eye! My dh and I would wait until the kids' food came before eating a bite. That is how you teach people to treat you. You don't let them get away with it. And how does that make the kids feel? Even mom won't get them the right thing to eat.
I think mom dropped the ball too and just won't admit it. Several people said they would have ordered a new pizza, a few people asked if they ate the bad one, and she's not answering anyone.
I didn't look at all of Melanell's posts but on the "How long have you been married thread" she did say she was married 13 years and together 17 just like the cheating husband OP so maybe it really is her.
Regarding the pizza and kids with health problems
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I call bullshit on the whole "liver disease" They can have pizza, just not ANY toppings? No meat, no veggies, but carbs and fat? She sounds like one of those loons who claim their kids have special dietary needs, but still feeds them tons of processed shit.
I just find it hard to believe a grandmother wouldn't order the right food for her sick grandkids. She even called ahead of time to ask the OP. I don't think this was done intentionally. Grandma may have told SIL what to order and then SIL didn't do it, but I don't think it was Grandma. She offered to make the kids a pancake but OP wouldn't hear of it. Methinks OP is probably a hard to get along with bitch who loves using her "sick kids" for reasons to get pissed off. Typical pea.
Melissa mom of two from north eastern PA is the woman whose husband is kissing bosses wife.
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Who the hell is this? What's her pea name?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259460
LMAO! This moron spent 60k to become a "chef" and yet is working at basically a concession stand inside a factory, comes to TP to whine about having to quit because the greasy grill cooks didn't appreciate all of her chef knowledge, and the peas tell her it's ok because she still has her integrity. Yeah, that'll pay the bills!
This chick is the poster child for getting an education in a field that actually pays well. She would have been better off not going to college at all.
Nope, she lost her integrity badge in the first sentence of the thread, when she admitted she doesn't pay taxes.
ITA, 64. She's another shady work for cash pea like BergdoofusBlonde
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259535
Why doesn't she get divorced? She hates her husband. Hates him! She is constantly bitching about him. On the "How long have you been married" thread she said "TOO LONG".
66, there are some real peaches on that thread.
"he can either fall in line or......" WOW.
I like how scrappower got bent out of shape when someone agreed with her about being rude.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259589
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain?
What should I buy my niece, husband, daughter, daughter in law, blah, blah blah for Christmas? FFS if you have to ask a message board full of complete strangers what to buy for your family for Christmas MAYBE THEY DON'T NEED ANYTHING!! Use your time and money to buy something for someone with a real need.
She is in tbeUK, so a villa in Spain is just a car trip over there...
69 Anonymous said... 69
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259589
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain?
November 3, 2013 at 5:39 AM
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Some of the peas have more drama in their lives than a Danielle Steel novel.
I know I'm late, but the forgiving dh thread was not by melanell. It is mine, and I am not melanell.
Oh, as far as my dh being the only employee...we live in a smaller town, so most trades companies (plumber, electrician, builder, contractor, etc) have the owner and one or two employees. He does not work with the boss ever, he just texts the info dh needs, and he goes to the jobs. No office at all.
69 Anonymous said... 69
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259589
ok is this made up? Daughter was kidnapped and raped by men from Africa. She had colon cancer. Her son is on the spectrum. Her husband does cocaine, visits prostitutes etc. Casually mentions visiting her villa is Spain?
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She says, " I am going to get tested anyway even though it has been over 8 years since we had physical contact."
She hasn't had sex in 8 years with him?
73Anonymous said... 73 I know I'm late, but the forgiving dh thread was not by melanell. It is mine, and I am not melanell.
November 3, 2013 at 7:17 AM
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So, you come here often? Or did someone tell you that you are being discussed over here?
675 here, ok it's her ex. Sorry, I misread that.
No and no. Well, I come here about once a week or so, I don't consider that often, but someone else might. Oh, wait, I mean a concerned "friend" told me to come here!!
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259559
What a bitch.
"We do our charity giving at home. If asked to give at the regs I politely say, no thank you. If they are asking for donating to autism I have said a few times that we are walking our own autism journey."
Guess who said this? Not hard to guess right? 2peafaithful! The way she talks is so annoying. "walking our own autism journey"......"it hurts my heart"......and all the other bullshit flowery language she uses.
I'd leave him. He couldn't control his own actions. At some point, he'll have sex with someone whether it's her or someone else.
What happened to the post that was supporting the wife of the house wife kisser? It was there a bit ago. I can't back to post about it, and its gone. WTF?
Bosses wife kisser and came back to post. I'm not illiterate, I'm posting with a Kindle and it keeps changing my words.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259503
Is this thread for freaking real?
I didn't see the supportive post...it would be great if you could post again!
681. Thank for the advice, but I'm willing to take the chance. I've never had to vent about him because our relationship is 95% awesome, so I'm going to work together with him to rebuild what he had, including the trust. If he does do that, I'll be sure to post it here so you can say I told you so.
Or 685, you'll be posting asking what you should do before going to see a divorce attorney.
He purposely flirted with her without any regard to you. He obviously is attracted to her.
84 Anonymous said... 84
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259503
Is this thread for freaking real?
November 3, 2013 at 10:19 AM
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OMG that thread is a hoot. Satan in the starter. Oh well at least he stayed out of her crock pot.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259572
Ellapea must be such a joy to be around.
#674 your husband should cut out the middleman (boss) and just do the work himself. Why let a man that does nothing profit from it.
And have you ever heard how many contractors get laid during installations.
They don't call it laying pipe for nothing.
@679 which one
685, I'll post in support of your situation. If all the facts are correct and there was just the one incident of drunk kissing, I wouldn't leave at this point. The bosses wife was after him hot and heavy. It does sound as if he is really sorry and won't let it happen again. It would take me a long time to totally trust again, but I'd be willing to try, especially since you have kids together and your marriage was really good, outside of this one incident.
If you leave now, you will always regret not at least giving him the chance to prove himself committed to your marriage. I would absolutely stay, get into counseling, and really try to move past this. You could end up with an even stronger marriage.
If you stay and things don't work out as you need them to, you can always leave at that point, right? There is no rush here. You have nothing to lose by trying to work it out.
I'm divorced, . And even though I was the one that wanted it and filed, it is really hard to raise kids alone. Missing half the holidays sucks too. I would not recommend it unless you were positive you couldn't work things out.
Don't feel you need to leave to please others who say you're a fool to stay. You are the one living this, not them. People are human and mistakes can be made. This wasn't the worst thing I've ever heard about happening.
But I do think he should look for a new job before the wife decides to spill the story, twisting it to he kissed her first and she resisted. She might decide to get him fired out of spite. You need to be prepared by looking to relocate and get another job. She has already proven to be a shitty false friend to you and tried to take your husband. Why trust your income to be safe from her? She has shown no loyalty to you or her own husband. The closer you and your husband become, the more jealous and pissed she could be and decide to lash out by getting him fired.
Just my take on your circumstances for what it's worth to you.
686...you are confusing my story with the one melenell's "friend"told. My dh has not and does not flirt with her.
My dh has a very physical job, and comes home dirty and sweaty. Honestly if she wants him that bad to screw him when is like that, I'd tell him to go ahead with a pity fuck.
689...that is actually the plan. We have been saving for the down payment on what he will need to start. We should be there about February.
Thank you 682! We feel the same...that our marriage is worth working for.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259572
Ellapea must be such a joy to be around.
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More drama in the crap storm she lives in. I had to laugh at the friend being too co-dependent on her....Ella wrote the book on co-dependent.
Ella is SNAFU. I loled at her comment about her codependent friend. That's like Chris Christie complaining about his friend being fat.
SNAFU???
Situation normal: All fucked up.
Wow, I feel really sorry for the pea who thinks Satan is attacking her through her car.
Do people really believe that Satan is trying to attack them through a car not working? When my car stops working I think I am going to wonder if it is because it is old and that's why it isn't working probably not Satan working against me.
Ellapea getting her ass handed to her. Bet she shows up here soon
I see putabuttononit is trying to make a come back.
what is putabuttononits story? Why all the pics and threads about people missing her? was she ever a big thing??
Yes, people absolutely believe Satan is working against them. Of course it's the same people who think God helped them find a good parking place.
Ella almost sounds drunk, the way she is lashing out at all the posters. Granted, they are being pretty mean, but usually she just ignores them. I am actually worried about her.
Fuckin' hilarious....
https://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259654
I seriously do not understand the trend of very dark haired women going blonde. Unless you are committed to touch ups every two weeks, it just looks trashy. I don't get it...
what is putabuttononits story? Why all the pics and threads about people missing her? was she ever a big thing??
November 3, 2013 at 2:53 PM
only in her own mind
686...you are confusing my story with the one melenell's "friend"told. My dh has not and does not flirt with her.
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I'd call laying in bed with her and making out flirting (or worse).
You sound really gross with your pity fuck statement, too.
Rock on with your crappy marriage
LOL 109! Talking is not flirting. Yes, making out would be, but it truly was only once. He does not have an ongoing flirtatious relationship with her.
Um, yah, the pity fuck thing was supposed to be gross. My DH works mostly alone during the day. He could easily be sleeping with any number of women during the day...except for the fact that it is physical work, and he comes home dirty and greasy and sweaty.
Other than this issue, we have a great marriage. If you want to call it crappy, you go right on with your bad self!
If you have to talk about your marriage on two peas it is a shitty marriage.
If you have to talk about your marriage on two peas it is a shitty marriage.
November 3, 2013 at 3:42 PM
LOL, so true!
Please 611, post the secrets to your perfect marriage.
113 Anonymous said... 113
Please 611, post the secrets to your perfect marriage.
November 3, 2013 at 3:51 PM
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Well for starters my dh doesn't lay down in a camper with another woman and make out with her.
Oh and when we travel with another couple we get our own room.
Congratulations!! Looks like a long lasting relationship! Good for you.
For the wife of Mr. Wandering Lips,
Color me confused. If your marriage is so great, and him being in bed with someone else and making out is no big deal and you obviously knew you were going to accept everything he has told you as truth, why did you create that thread at the bukkit? And double why would you feel the need to come here (of all places) and further defend your rock-solid marriage?
If your relationship is as wonderful as you say it is, you don't need to try so hard to defend it on the NSBR and here at the smack blog. No matter what we--or the peas--think, you're the one that's got to live with Mr. Grabby-Hands.
Good luck with that, btw.
116 Anonymous said... 116
Congratulations!! Looks like a long lasting relationship! Good for you.
November 3, 2013 at 3:54 PM
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It's worked for 25 years so yeah I think we're good for now anyways.
For the exact reason I said, I wanted to be able to talk it out, but I didn't want to create drama by having IRL friends know about it. I never said it was no big deal, it is in fact a very big deal. Things are not just going right back to where they were, he is working to regain my trust. I only talked about it here first to defend a pea that was falsely accused of being me, and then because it is anonymous, I thought I would get some better feedback here. Stupid, I know. I should have known better. I don't have to live with mr grabby hands, as that is not what he is. One incident over 17 years does not make it that.
It's worked for 25 years so yeah I think we're good for now anyways.
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Um, yeah, that's why I was asking you to share.
I thought I would get some better feedback here. Stupid, I know. I should have known better.
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Eh. This place might be good for some truthful opinions. And if any trolls come along, you can just ignore them.
I hate to add to the negative chorus, but I really think you're being naive. I hope you can work it out, but I have seen too many cheaters that couldn't/wouldn't change their stripes to think that you're not going to be dealing with an even bigger issue down the line. It could be the whole truth about this one, or something else.
I can't even imagine how drunk I'd have to be to fuck around with my husband's boss. Some things you know are beyond wrong no matter how chemically fucked up you are.
Good luck with all this. I don't think I could live with all the lingering doubt, so you're a bigger person than I am. Once someone breaks my trust with something that big, I just can't believe in them the same way as before. BTDT. Got burned good trying to work it out. Hope your situation works out better than mine did.
EllaPea/Elannah/Dawn is a fucking psycho.
She belongs in a straitjacket.
I hate to add to the negative chorus, but I really think you're being naive. I hope you can work it out, but I have seen too many cheaters that couldn't/wouldn't change their stripes to think that you're not going to be dealing with an even bigger issue down the line. It could be the whole truth about this one, or something else.
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Being naive is a big fear of mine. We did set some specific rules, and I'm going into this with my eyes wide open. DH is also very open to changing things so I am comfortable (at least for now, I will be watching to make sure things don't slip back to old habits). Thank you.
I hope it works out for you, 123. :)
Thank you 124!
https://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259556
m in carolina's "prank" made me throw up in my mouth...ewwww...
126-Could you please stop using phrases from the late 90's that only those under 14 ever used anyway?
No kidding, 626. No matter what phrase you use, that is disgusting.
126 Anonymous said... 126
https://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259556
m in carolina's "prank" made me throw up in my mouth...ewwww...
November 3, 2013 at 5:23 PM
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I'd call it more stupid than gross. Not my idea of funny. I'm just surprised she can cook what with all her ailments.
https://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259675
One whole day without a soda, wow that is post worthy.
https://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259512
Good for her...but I never pictured her that big to start with. wow.
M(iserable)InCarolina's turkey "prank" is really stupid. She is an odd bird (pun intended).
She and her husband are so sick all the time-except when tney're playing golf or traveling or shopping.
In a recent thread, she mentioned they were having money problems...interesting since she started the bag wars with her quest for the 'perfect' designer bag...
131-you didn't?! She's a 45+ y.o. Virgin who lives with her grandmother and sisters.
What is a bond officer? Is that like a parole officer that keeps tabs on you when you get out of jail?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259692
I'm not the jealous type at all, but if I caught my DH laying on a bed with another woman, there'd be hell to pay, instantly. Not cool.
EllaPea is nuttier than a squirrel turd.
Will M in Carolina EVER respond to a post without some mention of her illnesses???
138: no, no she won't.
I wonder if Elannah will come back to post on the shitstorm thread she started?
^I'm betting no. She has said rude and weird things before, not returned to the thread, acted like nothing had happened, and she has gotten a pass. I don't remember her being quite so hateful before, but she definitely has a history of erratic and strange behavior.
It seems to be a pattern with the crazy peas. Lauren, benem, lynlam, LTO/beje, and others I can't think of right now. The bukkit is a strange place.
Mariah/benem is so full of shit on that stupid internet girl thread. She started that thread to bash the girl. When the wind didn't blow her way, she came back with, "you see my point-the internet is full of crazies."
Uh, no. That was not the point in your OP. All you did was bash the girl and call her stupid. Oh, and tell parents to raise their kids not to be that stupid. Because, you know, benem has so much parenting wisdom and experience.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259740
Ella is crazy as hell and a huge bitch.
The woman whose husband made out with the bosses wife is insane. I can't believe you are here defending your husband as being a perfect angel other than laying in bed and kissing his bosses wife, right? LOL
You see nothing wrong with the boundaries you are crossing by being so close to this couple (his boss) by sharing hotel rooms, calling each other at 2am to hang out, laying in camper beds together. You all sound very immature, like a bunch of white trash teenagers.
The fact that you will continue to hang out with this couple and your husband is not going to look for another job makes you stupid as hell and I have no sympathy for you. It must not bother you very much at all if you can still continue to be with them. Mark my words you will be coming to the bucket crying that your husband got fired once his boss finds out. Or your husband will end up in jail for something stupid like a physical fight with the boss or God forbid, a sexual harrassment suit or something. More is going to come from this kissing incident. It's only a matter of time.
I can't imagine knowing benem IRL. Everything is so over the top and drama, drama, drama with her.
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I can't imagine knowing benem IRL. Everything is so over the top and drama, drama, drama with her.
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Same can be said for most of the peas.
643 I appreciate your concerns, but you might want to at least get the story correct before you bash me.
What's incorrect about what 643 said? Sounds pretty much like what you put out on NSBR.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259598
Re: Dizzypea....really? What 13 year old boy would want to play with the Rainbow Loom? Have times changed that much? I have girls but I remember when I was 13 and none of the boys would play with something like that.
We are not continuing to hang out with them, and within 4 months dh will no longer be working for him.
Here's a good chuckle:
"Hopefully, she sleeps on it and looks at things in a better light, for her sake. And, perhaps, we can all cut her a little slack if/when she comes back. Cuz that's what friends do." purplepackrat
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From ellapeas thread.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259633
LOL at most of the peas getting defensive over their fake ass McMuffin maker.
I want to do a poll and see how many of the peas running out to buy the mcmuffin maker also have an unused cake pop maker. I would also bet that 95% of the peas that buy them will no be using them a month from now...
Eh, I don't keep up as much anymore, but even I read that the bosses wife pea said they are structuring to start his own business next March or something.
Like I posted before, there is no rush to leave him. If it works out, then she adds a strong marriage and her kids are in an intact home. If he stays again, then she has her answers and leaves then. She said she was going to counseling and he'd have to earn her trust back. I would hope you simultaneously prep for leaving in case it comes to that. And I don't mean don't they, I mean get paperwork in order and some funds set aside.
Some of you are acting like he cheated on you. As women, we should have her back and encourage her. If the guy does it again, I'll be the first to say get out of the marriage. But the scales haven't tipped that far for me yet. And of course, this isn't my marriage either.
But let's at least be supportive while the guy tries to make it right. I'm hoping you've learned your lesson regarding boundaries with other couples too. It does sound awfully risky to be that close with your husband boss, but we didn't experience the relationship evolve either. I just hope you don't let it happen again with any other couple.
We are not all perfect our of the womb. Most learn some lessons along the way. Why not this pea?
God darned this freaking kindle! There are a bunch of mistakes in my post above, but I don't care enough to fix them. Just try to get the gist of it.
My kindle does the same thing...drives me crazy! Need to figure out how to turn it off.
Thank you for the kind words. I already have an advantage, in that if I did decide to leave, I have enough savings I could support myself and my kids for 8 months or so before I would have to have a job. We definitely learned some hard lessons and we know better for next time.
Oh of course "starting a business in March" came way later. After all of the peas told her he should get a new job. Not mentioned in the OP. Typical pea bullshit.
She also says they have several previous engagements that they WILL be hanging with the couple but won't in the future. LOL Yeah ok.
Here's a good chuckle:
"Hopefully, she sleeps on it and looks at things in a better light, for her sake. And, perhaps, we can all cut her a little slack if/when she comes back. Cuz that's what friends do." purplepackrat
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From ellapeas thread.
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That shows how sweet purplepackrat is, and i would totally do that for a friend, but not for who Elannah has shown herself to be here. I have always seen the ultra needy in her, but this is my first encounter with her ultra bitch side. I doubt she keeps many friends for long, and that "bestie" is a hell of a lot better off without Elannah in her life. I doubt most peas will give a shit about her now.
The husband is obviously attracted to the other woman. He has feelings for her proven by the fact he was alone and kissing her and while he is doing the right thing by telling his wife he will stay away from her. It's obviously because he doesn't trust himself to be around her because he feels something for her. If you can live with that, then go for it.
Yeah, you screwed the pooch this time Ellapea. We all know you read here. No more woe is me, my fillintheblank is making me so sad today. Come lick my boots so i can feel loved and cared about. You could post a suicide post today and probably not get more than two "don't do it" responses. You've played the wrong hand this time, chickie.
You had best post an appologie post, and make it a good one. Maybe when you finish caring for your son, huh?
Ellapea, don't you apologize! You are in the right, and you don't anyone anything. If people can't accept you as you are, then screw them. There are places other than 2peas. I'm sure you can find a better site with much more understanding people anyway.
In the right about what exactly?????
Ellapea, don't you apologize! You are in the right, and you don't anyone anything. If people can't accept you as you are, then screw them. There are places other than 2peas. I'm sure you can find a better site with much more understanding people anyway.
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Nice try Elannah. You fucked up and have no recourse but to disappear or apologize. What an dumbass you are posting here in support of yourself. I guess you really are that stupid.
leftturnonly is such a twat with her Elannah is hurting deeply bullshit.
Dawn is a grief whore, an attention-seeker, and most of all she is a nasty bitch. She has shown her true colors more than once.
Yes, Ellapea please do go find a different site where people understand you @@
It would be nice to have a little less pollution at the pod.
Lefturnonly is a fucking bitch too, and I love how she's trying to look like a good person by being kind to GriefWhore. Nobody buys your act LTO.
Yes, Ellapea please do go find a different site where people understand you
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Is their a Raging Cunt message board? Perhaps she can ask Lauren or Mrs T.
Lefturnonly is a fucking bitch too,
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Oh absolutely. She's as two-faced as they come.
All you bitches can fuck off. You have no idea how hard Elannah's life has been. How dare you act ugly to her when she's hurting so deeply. If she needs to take her emotions out on the peas, what's it to you? Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are. Does Liz give you classes in being such assholes?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259740
crazy, attention-whore benem is just DYING for someone to ask about her supposed stalker. It's too much to hope that the peas will just move right on past and not indulge her attention-whoring and drama-mongering.
Wow, Ella, please get some help immediately. Calling out Liz just like at the bukkit gives you away. I'm not surd what is going on with you, but it is not right and you need help.
My eyes! My EYES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://imageshack.us/a/img268/2792/3cq0.jpg
All you bitches can fuck off. You have no idea how hard Elannah's life has been. How dare you act ugly to her when she's hurting so deeply. If she needs to take her emotions out on the peas, what's it to you? Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are. Does Liz give you classes in being such assholes?
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What the hell did I do now? Go fuck yourself, Ellapea. With a tree trunk, psycho.
Liz, why the games with the multiple alters at the bukki
? Everyone knows its you, and you
Is English your second language 174 or are you an idiot?
Typing on my phone is not my first language.
But really, why not just post as yourself at the nsbr? You do it here. Everyone knows you are maddiesmum. Yet you deny it-why?
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259716
Is it normal for a seven-year-old to still believe in Santa Clause? Seems weird to me--I was four when I started doubting and five when I knew for sure. My DH was about the same.
We have three kids, they all believed up until 10 or so. Most of their friends seemed to also.
But really, why not just post as yourself at the nsbr? You do it here. Everyone knows you are maddiesmum. Yet you deny it-why?
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Because she's a dope. She posts the same familial, pet, hobby info under all her alters then is genuinely flabbergasted when she's outted within a couple of posts. I can only surmise that embarrasment at her incessant and conspicuous slip-ups is the driving force behind the denials.
Because she's a dope. She posts the same familial, pet, hobby info under all her alters then is genuinely flabbergasted when she's outted within a couple of posts. I can only surmise that embarrasment at her incessant and conspicuous slip-ups is the driving force behind the denials.
It's *embarrassment* Lauren. If you're going to attemopt to insult me at least use proper grammar and spelling. It's *outed* not *outted, you moron. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
*attempt*
I need to anonymously text my friend that her DH is cheating on her. Can I buy a Tracfone with cash and do that? Any way I could be traced? I'm in WA state if that matters.
Poor Liz........ or is that Lauren? Either way, you certainly do need to mature some.
So Liz, will you answer? I'm just curious about the honesty here and the denials at the pod
182, why all the cloak and dagger? Just tell her-or dont
I'm not 682, but I am in the same position. I know for sure a friends DH is cheating on her, but I don't have proof, so I'm too scared to tell her. I have thought about anonymous texts or sending a letter to her, but I don't want to take the chance to be found out. For now, I'm just waiting it out, hoping he gets caught.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259797
OMFG...is it really that fucking hard to figure out the "quote thing?" She seriously said: ""Is it that "quote" thingy at the bottom of the page? Near where it says URL, List Start, Bold, etc. ? ""
UMmmmm, how about you use the one fucking brain cell you have and click the 'thingy' and see what the fuck happens. Pure stupidity bothers the fucking hell out of me. Click the 'thingy' and it's pretty self-explanatory. Not that fucking hard to figure out.
Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are.
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Is this for real? You are more delusional that I thought you were. It does not matter what kind of pain you are in, lashing out at innocent people is never ok. You have no clue what they are going through. What a self centered bitch.
I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse?
Wonder what happened to melanell's "friend"...
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I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse?
November 4, 2013 at 4:31 PM
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Right because everything posted on the pod is 100% completely true.
What exactly is so hard about Ella's life? I know he sister died, which is awful and I'm sure she is grieving for her as anyone would. But what else is going on in her life that makes it so much worse than anyone else's problems?
She's insane! I feel bad for her child. I really do. Is his father around? Does he spend time with his father or did he run off and leave them?
You should act as if what people tell you is true. If it isn't, that's on them. If you distrust them and treat them like shit, that's on you. Who's the idiot?
Youre the idiot if you keep believing lie after lie
No, you're a fool. 98% of things that happen every day are based on trust. You trust cars will stay in the other lane when you drive, you trust stores will open on time, you trust your neighbor won't shoot you. Only a fool goes through life not trusting others. You only stop trusting when a person gives you a reason to. Making fun of a person's depression because you think it's a life makes you a piece of shit.
I see Pinecone is back after being hospitalized and getting ECT. Your depression has to be really bad to get ECT. I wonder how many of you nasty bitches that came on here and said she was just an attention seeker feel any remorse?
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No, because she is probably still lying.
Just because she posts things over there doesn't mean they are true.
Ever watch the show "catfish" people all over the world lie on the internet every single day. They make up entire lives and persona's and often it is just for the attention it gets them.
You're an idiot if you believe all the shit that gets posted over there is always real.
Her pain gives her the right to act any way that she wants and if you can't handle that and be understanding then it just shows what horrible people you really are.
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Are you fucking serious? Your pain gives you the right to act like a bitch and everyone else is supposed to just get over it. You are delusional! You need to seek help. I'm serious. Go to therapy, please!
hmmm, someone needs to say the same thing to LTO b/c she said the same thing (just worded differently) on elaapea's trainwrecks thread
There is absolutely nothing that Ellapea could be going through that justified her being so hurtful to others. Nothing. Typically someone who has dealt with a lot of pain in life is kinder to others, not a raving bitch with permission to be mean. Who are you trying to kid?
She gets no pardon for her behavior from me.
199, no one thinks it's ok for Ella to act that way except Ella. That was her posting in defense of herself. It was totally her words. It's easy to spot her posts over here. Everyone else knows she's a piece of crap.
She's just a woe is me kind of person. Everything is so much worse for her than anyone else according to her. Boo Hoo Hoo.
While I think it's weird when a few peas say their kids believed in Santa until they were in jr high school, I do find it very weird when someone finds it strange for a 7 year old or even a 10 year old to believe in Santa. Why is that weird? I'm sure the 10 year old is teetering on the edge of it but if they do believe so what? I think it's fine to let kids believe as long as they want to. I wouldn't force it but let them be kids. Gee whiz.
I believed in Santa until 4th grade so I think I was about 10 and I have nothing but fond memories of my childhood and the Christmas/Santa season was a great time for me and my sister. I don't know why some peas are so against the Santa thing.
However, I will agree Elf on a Shelf is kinda creepy. LOL.
"I didn't realize there were so many peas with Type 1 kids. '
That's a quote from this thread: http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259751
I thought it was pretty standard knowledge that the peas' kids have every disease out there?
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