to the poster of that gem. I hope that your spouse or SO cheats on you, gives you a disease, and a painful one at that, and that your children hate you and that you live a fucking miserable life.
YOu are a POS for even posting such a statement. FUCKER.
As for the imbecile who thinks being a SAHM trying to enter the workforce is cake, well you are an idiot. I have a college degree. I have applied for 30 jobs in 30 days. My 18 year old son did the same. He got a job, I didn't.
I keep being told I am over qualified for menial jobs but the jobs I am qualified for want the work experience in that field, which I do not have. I have volunteer experience, I have been president of my home owner's association, I have been in many leadership positions in various areas all my life. I can't find a job. Possibly, there may be opportunities in another state. I don't know, I've got to get divorced and have my asshole husband not fight me on taking the kids out of state. I have no idea what he is going to do. I feel like I do not even know this person who currently inhabits his body.
Is BL talking to herself again? It's odd how the posts are so close together in time. ****************** And it's very obvious that it's her defending herself.
5 theoriginalbananalady said... 5 As for the imbecile who thinks being a SAHM trying to enter the workforce is cake, well you are an idiot. I have a college degree. I have applied for 30 jobs in 30 days. My 18 year old son did the same. He got a job, I didn't
I keep being told I am over qualified for menial jobs but the jobs I am qualified for want the work experience in that field, which I do not have. I have volunteer experience, I have been president of my home owner's association, I have been in many leadership positions in various areas all my life. I can't find a job. Possibly, there may be opportunities in another state. I don't know, I've got to get divorced and have my asshole husband not fight me on taking the kids out of state. I have no idea what he is going to do. I feel like I do not even know this person who currently inhabits his body. January 30, 2014 at 4:01 PM
Oh fuck off. You know so little about me. I'm sick today and I am done with the peanut gallery. Enjoy your fun. Maybe I will feel better tomorrow and feel like dealing with you. For now, enjoy your fun.
"Oh fuck off. You know so little about me. I'm sick today and I am done with the peanut gallery. Enjoy your fun. Maybe I will feel better tomorrow and feel like dealing with you. For now, enjoy your fun."
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I don't use coconut oil, but a lot of people do and have great success with it. I use a mix - my base oil is jojoba oil, a tiny bit of castor oil (I can only use a tiny bit or it will really dry my skin out, but many people use a lot more), and then small amounts of tamanu oil, sea buckthorn oil, rosehip oil and a few others. I mix up an ounce or so at a time and that last for quite a while (you really don't need much at all to wash). +++++++++++++++++++++
Well, bananas are pretty awesome. “I’m Chiquita Banana and I’ve come to say – I offer good nutrition in a simple way – When you eat a Chiquita you’ve done your part – To give every single day a healthy start – Underneath the crescent yellow – You’ll find vitamins and great taste – With no fat, you just can’t beat ‘em – You’ll feel better when you eat ‘em – They’re a gift from Mother Nature and a natural additional to your table – For wholesome, healthy, pure bananas – look for Chiquita’s label!”
222, you realize that anybody with an active brain stem can tell that you aren't really me posting right? I'll give you a hint, look to the left of your number.
I've known a hundred people like Banana Lady - they're nothing but drama and it's never their fault. I think you're delusional and I'm tired of hearing your shit. Don't you have friends to talk to?
I've known a hundred people like Banana Lady - they're nothing but drama and it's never their fault. I think you're delusional and I'm tired of hearing your shit. Don't you have friends to talk to?
~~~~~ I bet that's her problem. She has no friends that want to hear her drama. Maybe they are sick of her like we are.
Either way, it's not healthy or safe to feed information to the world wide web. She doesn't understand that.
Your problem, 32, is that "we" mentality. Not everyone agrees with you. Not everyone agrees with 28 or any other number. Stop trying to pull the "I belong"/"We" bullshit. Don't get butthurt and whine about having that pointed out to you.
I think I've made it clear that my ability to trust anyone has been shaken to its core. So while I do have friends to talk to, I am wary now where I wasn't before. I have no expectations here, my guard is up, I know that some people will be outright bitchy just because they can and some people will be compassionate. However, nobody is FORCED to read my posts. It is called scroll. Learn to use it some time.
I dare that bitch to make any move concerning me again. She has more skeletons in that closet of hers and I feel no need to keep her secrets any more.
You should never give someone ammo against you and then provide a reason for them to use it. I have 26 years of shit on her. The funny thing is, she doesn't have shit on me. I wish she would bring it but she won't. She tried to use her mom to talk to me so that I wouldn't spill the beans to her husband. Too late bitch, he knows a LOT now.
BL you could totally make shit up as you go on her now too. Yes, it's not a good idea and I have a feeling you won't but you can think shit up for fun and a way to release tension. If nothing else it will make you smile LOL
I haven't put ammunition on the internet. I have expressed my feelings. I haven't revealed my deepest, darkest secrets, any information that will ruin my life as I know it. I have real ammo on her, shit that NOBODY knows and she really doesn't want out there.
Some strangers know that I am pissed off at that cunt and my POS husband? Nothing earth shattering there.
250, that would be fun but I stay within the law. She can't touch me on libel or slander because truth is an affirmative defense. However, I DO have grounds to sue her civilly. I have 3 years to make a decision on that.
Besides, I don't have to make shit up on her. She provides plenty of truthful material.
Bananalady I can understand that you are hurt and angry after what your husband did but your really aren't doing yourself any favours here, you're just coming across as bat crap crazy. Take a step back and think how you'd look at someone with your posting style, it's really not pretty. My Mom once said to me that people who constantly have drama and problems in their lives should look at the common denominator in that drama and that honey would be you. For what ever reason (and no I don't think it's jealousy) you attract drama and seem to feed off it. I wish you luck in life and hope you can turn a corner to somewhere that's a lot less drama free.
The pool drama was the crazy bitch who called CPS on us. No, my husband had nothing to do with that. But he has had plenty to do with other instances in my life, I just didn't see his role before. Not that I am perfect, I am not. But I do not deserve what has been dished out. Nobody deserves that, not even the bitches here.
And I am NOT a child abuser so you can just shut the fuck up about that. That CPS call was unfounded and I have the paperwork to prove it.
And my husband doesn't want out, he is begging me not to kick him out. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do yet. I am definitely leaning towards divorce though.
Hey, aggressive little piece of shit 70 - what can't I read????? Where does 260 say she KNOWS theoriginalwhinybitch in real life? You are dumber than dumb, you stupid shit-eating pike of crap.
Hey, aggressive little piece of shit 70 - what can't I read????? Where does 260 say she KNOWS theoriginalwhinybitch in real life? You are dumber than dumb, you stupid shit-eating pike of crap. February 2, 2014 at 1:53 PM
Flip out much? Look like an idiot much? Hi Hostile! (Calling someone aggressive is quite hilarious!)
76 Anonymous said... 76 272, you need to back away from the internet. You need a break before it breaks you. Your posts show a person on the edge of a major melt down.
Thanks a lot for answering for me, but I am just fine. Despite what you may believe I am not having a breakdown (I do have a headache though).
Yes, I am fine. Please move on. Does the person who is fixated with me, have a crush on me or something? I hate to break this to you but I am straight and only do men. It's been that way since um birth maybe? Please get laid or something.
I am going to go do something I enjoy doing like exercising. Please get a life! I am ok.
Thanks a lot for answering for me, but I am just fine. Despite what you may believe I am not having a breakdown (I do have a headache though).
Yes, I am fine. Please move on. Does the person who is fixated with me, have a crush on me or something? I hate to break this to you but I am straight and only do men. It's been that way since um birth maybe? Please get laid or something.
I am going to go do something I enjoy doing like exercising. Please get a life! I am ok.
Elannah/EllaPea. February 2, 2014 at 3:17 PM
She didn't answer for you. No one asked about you. Just go.
I don't think angievp is brave at all. She's a 40something y.o. who cowtows to her grandma and a bunch of whacked out Latin Catholic women. She has wasted 3/4 of her life afraid to live and hiding behind a little old lady and using her as an excuse. It's kind of tragic. If that old woman really loved her, she would have gotten her some intensive therapy and let her live a life.
You're looking over-invested there 93. No one cares about how much you must get in YOUR last word. You are what's wrong with the blog. Everyone that responds MUST be the one you were arguing with? Really?
Never seen a pea as delusional about a divorce as BS. She's in for an assload of hurt when things don't work out the way she's planning financially. If she wasn't such an insufferable twat, I'd feel bad for her.
Yes I live in Arkansas. I know things are going to be rough financially for a while. But as my therapist says, I am a survivor. I am sick and fucking tired of having to survive shit but so be it.
And my father left a sizable inheritance to my children. They have all offered to help me if needed. I think it is bullshit to have my kids help me, but if my husband is a douche, I know I won't starve. And I do have extensive family help in another state. So I am not without resources.
I'm not dragging them into shit. You think you can keep adult kids from knowing that their dad is having an affair with their mom's best friend? Especially when the mother of the best friend sends them facebook messages letting them know? I am not the one that did this.
And I have no intention of sponging off of my kids. I will do everything in my power to protect their inheritance. Hell, I'm having to protect their inheritance from their father because he thinks he is entitled to half.
Don't have a chance? Well how do you measure success? My oldest is in her junior year of college, which is paid for in academic scholarships she earned. I homeschooled her so somehow she learned enough to score well on the ACT. She has a 3.9 GPA. She is presenting 2 papers at an academic summit next month at different university. She earned a scholarship to study abroad in France this summer. And she just landed a paid internship which she starts tomorrow. SO exactly what chance does she not have?
She has a great group of friends, she has had good boyfriends and bad ones, she is single by choice currently. She is beautiful, smart, and preparing to take the GRE to go to grad school. If the rest of my kids turn out half as well as she has I will have won the parenting lottery.
I find it interesting that BS has gone to the pod, started a thread asking for help and.or advice, and then has turned around and pooh poohed every piece of advice given to her. And, then she turned around and insulted all the peas who have experience with deadbeat exes, and claimed that even she knows how to make the deadbeats pay, and she hasn't even had to deal with that yet.
@@ of gargantuan proportions. What a smug, self-satisfied idiot she is.
I haven't pooh poohed the advice. It is food for thought, I admitted that I was trying to depend on someone who has proven to be undependable. Who knows how all of this will work out? But I am not going to let fear of the unknown keep me in a marriage that is bad for me. I may not be able to get out tomorrow but I will get out as soon as I can.
104Anonymous said... 104 You are so fucking delusional and such a liar. But it's ok--you're just going to continue reaping what you've sown.
February 4, 2014 at 5:55 PM 105Anonymous said... 105 BS is the poster child of everything one should NEVER, ever do as a parent.
Those poor kids don't have a chance with a psycho like that polluting their lives with all her drama, bullshit, and lies. ******************************************
ITA.
I'm thinking somebody needs to find Bullshitter's real name. I'd like to Google and see what other shit she's done to people.
Yes, BS, you will be able to live on your spousal support and child support. You are an amazing mother and an amazing teacher to your children. Your DH was just blinded by your awesomeness, that is why he strayed. Kick him to the curb, and let him support you. You are doing a great job. I'm sure the judge will find his *almost* affair absolutely appalling, and will award you more support than normal. I'm sure the e-mails will cement that fact that he will not get any custody and you will get extra child support. Forget all the child abuse cases, and fathers that actually abandon their children, I'm sure your *almost* affair and e-mails will get you right to top of the court docket. Your pride and arrogance will never get in your way, you will win. Good luck.
Hey dipshit, that would be you 315. I have said again and again that my husband does NOT WANT custody. So I don't need a judge to decide custodial issues. The kids are one of the areas we easily agree on. And I won't get EXTRA child support, I will get what the state chart says I will get. I don't expect extra.
And this was not an "almost" affair. What, you think penetration has to occur before it is an affair?
I will get alimony, I can't say for sure how much or for how long but I have a general idea. I also don't expect to be at the top of the court docket. The longer we stay married, the longer I get to keep my health insurance. I just don't want to have to keep dreading the weekends and when it is time for him to come home every day.
As for why my husband strayed, he did so for the same reason everyone has affairs. He did it because he wanted to. He could have made different choices but he didn't. He did what he wanted to do.
Yes, BL, we know. You were no part of the problems in your marriage. You have done everything right and nothing wrong, and you are totally the wronged party in every single thing that has happened in your life and marriage.
You were, and are, the perfect wife, mother friend, and person. Totally.
You are the first woman who has ever been done wrong, and your pain, suffering, and angst are SO MUCH more authentic and valid than anyone else's.
And because you are entitled to CS and alimony, you will totally receive it and be able to live off it. Well, that and the money from your family (that abandoned you when you were 15), and the sizeable inheritance that your kids have that you're protecting for them.
It's all going to work out exactly the way you think and say it is. Absolutely.
I am responsible for 50% of the problems in my marriage, my husband is 100% responsible for the affair. I am not perfect, never have been, never will be.
I did not deserve this. Nobody does and those of you who think anybody deserves to be treated that way have a lot more to worry about from the Karma bus than I ever will.
319, if you want my poor victimized husband, he is all yours. He will come with a dramatic decrease in disposable funds though.
. . . and, here's your sign, Bananabitch: Berrysmoothie can bankrupt him. He'd rather stay in a marriage in name only than go to court, knowing he's going to lose.
Berrysmooothie, I would take the $2K, go to your hotshot lawyer, and destroy this guy. Bleed. Him. Dry. -------------------------------------------------------------- When this idiot is backing you up and parroting your delusions, you are at rock fucking bottom.
I already know you're going to come back with more of your bullshit bravado. Let's see how that works out for you
BS, you really need to step back and look at your posting style. If this is how you are in real life, you need to decide if this is the person you want to be. First, you come on all strong and arrogant. If you are challenged, you lash out. You are condescending and rude to people trying to help you. Then you pull the victim card. It is a very predictable pattern every time you post.
No, no one deserves to be cheated on. No one deserves to have their dreams shattered. No one deserves what you are going through. But, by the same token, no one deserves your contempt when they are trying to help you. You were very rude to some of the BTDT peas on your thread.
Lastly, your DH might change his tune very fast on custody when he finds out his CS will be reduced if he has 50% custody. Since the kids are old enough to take care of themselves, it won't be too hard for him.
I apologized to those people on my thread. I did not intend to offend and I did not mean for it to come off as callous as it did. I don't watch my tone here. I figure everybody here has thick skin. And if they don't, they do not belong here.
I'm not talking about just here BS. I'm serious, take a step back and really look at your actions. It's not easy to do, but it will be worth it if you can make some real progress.
322, what do you want from me. You want me to fall apart and decide to stay with this man that has shown he lacks ethics? So I won't be alone? My self-worth is not defined by being in a relationship with someone. I deserve to be respected as a human and treated like one as well. I have thick skin but I have feelings too.
If you have thick skin, then buck the fuck up and stay with him until you can get the money together to survive on your own. Don't rely on him for any support. If you get some, great, it's a bonus. If you want a divorce now, then take the 2K and get the ball rolling. Don't just puff up your chest with all the money you will be getting, then moan about how he won't leave. Either do it or don't, but live with the decision you make.
Noted 327. I have always subscribed to the idea that when you know better you do better. I know I am not perfect and there are always to do better. I am a work in progress.
This is hands down the hardest decision I have ever made. Fear of the unknown can keep you stuck in limbo. I know what I have to do, now I just have to do it. All I can do is study for my test and hope for the best.
322, what do you want from me. You want me to fall apart and decide to stay with this man that has shown he lacks ethics? So I won't be alone? My self-worth is not defined by being in a relationship with someone. I deserve to be respected as a human and treated like one as well. I have thick skin but I have feelings too.
February 4, 2014 at 8:00 PM
OMG, how fucking stupid are you? If anything, I think you're acting like a typical, whiny sniveling SAHM who can't be bothered to support herself and would rather whore herself out in a loveless marriage than do the tough thing and move the fuck on INDEPENDENTLY.
:You want out? Walk the fuck out and support YOURSELF. Quit whining about how wronged you are, along with how perfect and smart and savvy you are, and how much he owes you. It's complete bullshit-because if it wasn't, you wouldn't be in this enormous mess of YOUR OWN MAKING. He may have (almost) fucked around but you are so fucking idiotic if you think that's even the biggest issue. Your marriage sucked-and the whole time it did, you were spouting off about how wonderful it was. Kind of like you're doing now with your finances-people who have actually BTDT and gone through the divorce wringers tried to give you good advice, and you showed your ass (YET AGAIN) and essentially told them they were stupid and you've got it covered. The days of a woman being able to stick it to a cheater are long, long gone---unless you're a millionaire or a celebrity. Jesus, you are so arrogant and stupid.
Your DH might owe those kids some support, but he essentially owes you NOTHING. Yeah, yeah, come back and spout off about how much alimony you're entitled to. Like plenty of peas tried to tell you, it's very damned easy for someone who wants to be a snake to slither his way through the family court system. One minute, your husband is such a slimy reptile, and then the next you're spouting off again about how you're going to ruin him. You've watched way too much Lifetime TV or something. You have no clue.
PeaNut 43,843 July 2002 Posts: 43,459 Layouts: 46 Loc: East Coast Posted: 2/4/2014 12:35:36 PM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- It depends where you live, I don't and I think that's the norm here and for my age bracket. However in NC where my father lives everyone says hello. When I go hiking everyone says hello as they pass. Maybe us young people lost those manners. lol +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
337 - Gosh, hi! But I didn't write that. Why do you silly kids insist on trying to guess who anonymous posters are? I can't tell you how many times I've written things that you clever detectives thought was someone else, and how many times someone else has written things (like the above) where you said it was me. What's the point? Unless you just wanted to say hi, in which case, golly, I'm thrilled.
I'm 336 but I am not Lima. I have been called just about everyone though because some idiot or idiots with absolutely no critical thinking skills believe that no one but the person being talked about could possibly disagree with the flawed logic displayed here.
You only look like stupid when you claim someone must be that person if they don't agree with your broken logic. But that's okay because you don't have to worry about sullying your "good pea name" with ignorance. You can just be an anonymous ignorant dumbass here with absolutely no consequences.
The same ignorant logic that tells you that you're so much better than someone because you can slam them for being "old". You're too stupid to figure out that we're all older than someone. It's all relative. You're the same kind of person that goes around flaunting your "wealth". You're too stupid too figure out that your way of boosting yourself up in others' eyes, only makes you look less than, from where you actually started out.
Aw, geez, here we go again. Even the boring BL topic was more interesting this tiresome split personality nonsense - "it wasn't me posting", "it was me posting", "you're all so stupid". GO THE FUCK AWAY PLEASE!
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to the poster of that gem. I hope that your spouse or SO cheats on you, gives you a disease, and a painful one at that, and that your children hate you and that you live a fucking miserable life.
YOu are a POS for even posting such a statement. FUCKER.
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Typical BL response.
What the fuck? I just got home from the grocery store. Not every other post is me, dipshit.
As for the imbecile who thinks being a SAHM trying to enter the workforce is cake, well you are an idiot. I have a college degree. I have applied for 30 jobs in 30 days. My 18 year old son did the same. He got a job, I didn't.
I keep being told I am over qualified for menial jobs but the jobs I am qualified for want the work experience in that field, which I do not have. I have volunteer experience, I have been president of my home owner's association, I have been in many leadership positions in various areas all my life. I can't find a job. Possibly, there may be opportunities in another state. I don't know, I've got to get divorced and have my asshole husband not fight me on taking the kids out of state. I have no idea what he is going to do. I feel like I do not even know this person who currently inhabits his body.
Is BL talking to herself again? It's odd how the posts are so close together in time.
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And it's very obvious that it's her defending herself.
Bingo 202!
5 theoriginalbananalady said... 5
As for the imbecile who thinks being a SAHM trying to enter the workforce is cake, well you are an idiot. I have a college degree. I have applied for 30 jobs in 30 days. My 18 year old son did the same. He got a job, I didn't
I keep being told I am over qualified for menial jobs but the jobs I am qualified for want the work experience in that field, which I do not have. I have volunteer experience, I have been president of my home owner's association, I have been in many leadership positions in various areas all my life. I can't find a job. Possibly, there may be opportunities in another state. I don't know, I've got to get divorced and have my asshole husband not fight me on taking the kids out of state. I have no idea what he is going to do. I feel like I do not even know this person who currently inhabits his body.
January 30, 2014 at 4:01 PM
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Or maybe it's because you have a criminal record.
Lol, 8 nailed it
Oh fuck off. You know so little about me. I'm sick today and I am done with the peanut gallery. Enjoy your fun. Maybe I will feel better tomorrow and feel like dealing with you. For now, enjoy your fun.
10-why don't you just go away and stop posting
11-THen who would you pick at?
There's plenty of snarkees on NSBR. We don't need the nut jobs to snark on.
theoriginalbananalady said... 10
"Oh fuck off. You know so little about me. I'm sick today and I am done with the peanut gallery. Enjoy your fun. Maybe I will feel better
tomorrow and feel like dealing with you. For now, enjoy your fun."
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We know only what you tell us dear......
BS - not Berrysmoothie, more like Bullshitter.
215 got it just right! That can be her new blog name.
busypea
boring + nerdy
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What do you use? Coconut oil? I need to try this.
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I don't use coconut oil, but a lot of people do and have great success with it. I use a mix - my base oil is jojoba oil, a tiny bit of castor oil (I can only use a tiny bit or it will really dry my skin out, but many people use a lot more), and then small amounts of tamanu oil, sea buckthorn oil, rosehip oil and a few others. I mix up an ounce or so at a time and that last for quite a while (you really don't need much at all to wash).
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All bought from the organic trunk.
I am getting the ellapea vibe from Bootspalmer. Anyone else???
18, I suspect Bootspalmer just makes stuff up for a bit of attention. Her 'stories' just never add up somehow.
I was thinking boots is limapea
20 - No doubt poor Boots wishes she could be me. But alas, many are called but few are chosen.
I'm pretty impressed with myself.
Well, bananas are pretty awesome.
“I’m Chiquita Banana and I’ve come to say – I offer good nutrition in a simple way – When you eat a Chiquita you’ve done your part – To give every single day a healthy start – Underneath the crescent yellow – You’ll find vitamins and great taste – With no fat, you just can’t beat ‘em – You’ll feel better when you eat ‘em – They’re a gift from Mother Nature and a natural additional to your table – For wholesome, healthy, pure bananas – look for Chiquita’s label!”
Kendra loves bananas.
The peas are always whoring for attention over giving up soda/pop/cola/whatever. Rolls eyes.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3259675
Well, damn, that is an old thread, but still they are always whoring for attention over that shit.
222, you realize that anybody with an active brain stem can tell that you aren't really me posting right? I'll give you a hint, look to the left of your number.
I've known a hundred people like Banana Lady - they're nothing but drama and it's never their fault. I think you're delusional and I'm tired of hearing your shit. Don't you have friends to talk to?
#28 I couldn't agree more!!
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271380
Gotta love ilovecookies's sly smackdown of that irritating Birukitty. I give her diet thirty days, anyway.
I'd hardly call that a smackdown. Yawn..
I've known a hundred people like Banana Lady - they're nothing but drama and it's never their fault. I think you're delusional and I'm tired of hearing your shit. Don't you have friends to talk to?
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I bet that's her problem. She has no friends that want to hear her drama. Maybe they are sick of her like we are.
Either way, it's not healthy or safe to feed information to the world wide web. She doesn't understand that.
Your problem, 32, is that "we" mentality. Not everyone agrees with you. Not everyone agrees with 28 or any other number. Stop trying to pull the "I belong"/"We" bullshit. Don't get butthurt and whine about having that pointed out to you.
Hi BL, hope it's going well today.
Well, I agree with 32........ and 28, so keep using "we" since it is the correct word to use.
Are you butt-hurt over that, 33? Are you going to keep whining?
I think I've made it clear that my ability to trust anyone has been shaken to its core. So while I do have friends to talk to, I am wary now where I wasn't before. I have no expectations here, my guard is up, I know that some people will be outright bitchy just because they can and some people will be compassionate. However, nobody is FORCED to read my posts. It is called scroll. Learn to use it some time.
You are a bitch, BS. Your attitude here on this smack blog proves it.
As are you 236. So what?
I'm beginning to get a very clear picture as to why your husband cheated on you.
Someone else said that too, 238.
28, no she doesn't. They're all screwing her husband or falsely accusing her of felonies.
BL....this isn't the place to get support. I wish you peace and hope you don't kill either one of them anytime soon. Take care of you.
Poor widdle bananabwains
Smoothie itch should totally get revenge on the BFF
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271728
WHY does Voltagain have such a stick up her ass about pretty much everything? She's so pissy and bitter. Bitch.
Smoothie itch should totally get revenge on the BFF
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She'll be arrested soon, I bet. BFF will probably file charges against her.
I fear for rainbow-crapper's kids.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271716
34 Anonymous said... 34
Well, I agree with 32........ and 28, so keep using "we" since it is the correct word to use.
Are you butt-hurt over that, 33? Are you going to keep whining?
February 1, 2014 at 1:27 PM
I feel sorry for you.
I dare that bitch to make any move concerning me again. She has more skeletons in that closet of hers and I feel no need to keep her secrets any more.
You should never give someone ammo against you and then provide a reason for them to use it. I have 26 years of shit on her. The funny thing is, she doesn't have shit on me. I wish she would bring it but she won't. She tried to use her mom to talk to me so that I wouldn't spill the beans to her husband. Too late bitch, he knows a LOT now.
Wow, really BL? Because you put a lot of ammunition on the internet...
BL you could totally make shit up as you go on her now too. Yes, it's not a good idea and I have a feeling you won't but you can think shit up for fun and a way to release tension. If nothing else it will make you smile LOL
47 Anonymous said... 47
34 Anonymous said... 34
Well, I agree with 32........ and 28, so keep using "we" since it is the correct word to use.
Are you butt-hurt over that, 33? Are you going to keep whining?
February 1, 2014 at 1:27 PM
I feel sorry for you.
February 1, 2014 at 5:53 PM
Please feel sorry for me for having to read your reply, it was pretty lame and pathetic.
Now to get those .04 seconds of my life back.
I haven't put ammunition on the internet. I have expressed my feelings. I haven't revealed my deepest, darkest secrets, any information that will ruin my life as I know it. I have real ammo on her, shit that NOBODY knows and she really doesn't want out there.
Some strangers know that I am pissed off at that cunt and my POS husband? Nothing earth shattering there.
250, that would be fun but I stay within the law. She can't touch me on libel or slander because truth is an affirmative defense. However, I DO have grounds to sue her civilly. I have 3 years to make a decision on that.
Besides, I don't have to make shit up on her. She provides plenty of truthful material.
51 Anonymous said... 51
47 Anonymous said... 47
34 Anonymous said... 34
Well, I agree with 32........ and 28, so keep using "we" since it is the correct word to use.
Are you butt-hurt over that, 33? Are you going to keep whining?
February 1, 2014 at 1:27 PM
I feel sorry for you.
February 1, 2014 at 5:53 PM
Please feel sorry for me for having to read your reply, it was pretty lame and pathetic.
Now to get those .04 seconds of my life back.
February 1, 2014 at 7:32 PM
The life you think you have...
The life you need to go get...
Give it up Elladawn
Bananalady I can understand that you are hurt and angry after what your husband did but your really aren't doing yourself any favours here, you're just coming across as bat crap crazy. Take a step back and think how you'd look at someone with your posting style, it's really not pretty.
My Mom once said to me that people who constantly have drama and problems in their lives should look at the common denominator in that drama and that honey would be you. For what ever reason (and no I don't think it's jealousy) you attract drama and seem to feed off it.
I wish you luck in life and hope you can turn a corner to somewhere that's a lot less drama free.
The life you think you have...
The life you need to go get...
Give it up Elladawn
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Let.......... it............... go.
Who at the bukket always has to have the last word?
The common denominator for the drama in my life? That would be my husband. That detail will be taken care of.
56 Anonymous said... 56
The life you think you have...
The life you need to go get...
Give it up Elladawn
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Let.......... it............... go.
February 2, 2014 at 5:57 AM
57 Anonymous said... 57
Who at the bukket always has to have the last word?
February 2, 2014 at 6:44 AM
That would be Ella, it's painfully obvious.
I can totally see why smoothies DH would cheat on her. The big mystery is why he ever hooked up with her in the first place.
After years with a know it all, drama whore, criminal, child abusing bitch, you'd want out, too.
The common denominator in your CPS/DFC dramas was your DH??
DH was the common denominator in your neighborhood pool drama?
You are full of shit, psycho lady. But please, keep posting your trashy dramas-they just keep validating what the real problem is
Who here hates Ella with a passion?
BS can't be the source of her own drama.... never. She has to find someone to blame.
Ella brings herself up 62
she had pool drama 61? do tell
The pool drama was the crazy bitch who called CPS on us. No, my husband had nothing to do with that. But he has had plenty to do with other instances in my life, I just didn't see his role before. Not that I am perfect, I am not. But I do not deserve what has been dished out. Nobody deserves that, not even the bitches here.
And I am NOT a child abuser so you can just shut the fuck up about that. That CPS call was unfounded and I have the paperwork to prove it.
And my husband doesn't want out, he is begging me not to kick him out. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do yet. I am definitely leaning towards divorce though.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271820
I knew the peas would be falling all over themselves to be the first to post.
260, you say you know me in real life? You are full of shit.
I don't see where #260 said that, dumbass.
69 can't fucking read apparently. SMH
IknowbananabitchinRL said...
FFS, please get off of the internet if literacy isn't your thing.
Hey, aggressive little piece of shit 70 - what can't I read????? Where does 260 say she KNOWS theoriginalwhinybitch in real life? You are dumber than dumb, you stupid shit-eating pike of crap.
Uh 72, 260 posted her name as, "IknowbananabitchinRL"....
272 must ride the short bus.
72 Anonymous said... 72
Hey, aggressive little piece of shit 70 - what can't I read????? Where does 260 say she KNOWS theoriginalwhinybitch in real life? You are dumber than dumb, you stupid shit-eating pike of crap.
February 2, 2014 at 1:53 PM
Flip out much?
Look like an idiot much?
Hi Hostile! (Calling someone aggressive is quite hilarious!)
Please walk away and don't come back.
272, you need to back away from the internet. You need a break before it breaks you. Your posts show a person on the edge of a major melt down.
76 Anonymous said... 76
272, you need to back away from the internet. You need a break before it breaks you. Your posts show a person on the edge of a major melt down.
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Same thing applies to banana lady and ellapea.
I feel fine today, thank you very much. Can't speak for Ella pea but I at least know how to read and write.
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won't stop
79 was referring to 77
Thanks a lot for answering for me, but I am just fine. Despite what you may believe I am not having a breakdown (I do have a headache though).
Yes, I am fine. Please move on. Does the person who is fixated with me, have a crush on me or something? I hate to break this to you but I am straight and only do men. It's been that way since um birth maybe? Please get laid or something.
I am going to go do something I enjoy doing like exercising. Please get a life! I am ok.
Elannah/EllaPea.
So there are two here that must have the last word... Ellah and the vile woman who hates her with a passion.
and ^^
81 Anonymous said... 81
Thanks a lot for answering for me, but I am just fine. Despite what you may believe I am not having a breakdown (I do have a headache though).
Yes, I am fine. Please move on. Does the person who is fixated with me, have a crush on me or something? I hate to break this to you but I am straight and only do men. It's been that way since um birth maybe? Please get laid or something.
I am going to go do something I enjoy doing like exercising. Please get a life! I am ok.
Elannah/EllaPea.
February 2, 2014 at 3:17 PM
She didn't answer for you. No one asked about you. Just go.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271849
Good for her for finally admitting who she is.
"Same thing applies to banana lady and ellapea."
I'm neither. If you can't get away from the internet on your own, seek help. You have major anger issues, 272.
So Ella pea is back at the pod?? Good god.
I don't think angievp is brave at all. She's a 40something y.o. who cowtows to her grandma and a bunch of whacked out Latin Catholic women. She has wasted 3/4 of her life afraid to live and hiding behind a little old lady and using her as an excuse. It's kind of tragic. If that old woman really loved her, she would have gotten her some intensive therapy and let her live a life.
Add 283 to the list that has to have the last word.
Holy shit the majority of the peas are so fucking stupid. And the majority rule the bucket. Stupid fucking dipshits.
Not sure what you are referring to specifically, 2:34, but yes, I often wonder how some of them function on an everyday basis.
89 Anonymous said... 89
Add 283 to the list that has to have the last word.
February 3, 2014 at 11:36 AM
QQ
Add 92 also, LOL!
what is with batya's strange asskissing on the angievp thread? it just seems weird
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3271983
Hm. She'd divorcing him because he's a grown man who can't cut the cord. WTF.
You're looking over-invested there 93. No one cares about how much you must get in YOUR last word. You are what's wrong with the blog. Everyone that responds MUST be the one you were arguing with? Really?
tsk tsk pennyjane
Add 96 to the list!
Never seen a pea as delusional about a divorce as BS. She's in for an assload of hurt when things don't work out the way she's planning financially. If she wasn't such an insufferable twat, I'd feel bad for her.
What state does BS live in? Arkansas?
Yes I live in Arkansas. I know things are going to be rough financially for a while. But as my therapist says, I am a survivor. I am sick and fucking tired of having to survive shit but so be it.
And my father left a sizable inheritance to my children. They have all offered to help me if needed. I think it is bullshit to have my kids help me, but if my husband is a douche, I know I won't starve. And I do have extensive family help in another state. So I am not without resources.
The fact that you're dragging your kids into the middle of your marriage problems is just more proof of what an abusive "mother" you really are.
And not surprised at all that you would sponge off your kids. You're pathetic.
I'm not dragging them into shit. You think you can keep adult kids from knowing that their dad is having an affair with their mom's best friend? Especially when the mother of the best friend sends them facebook messages letting them know? I am not the one that did this.
And I have no intention of sponging off of my kids. I will do everything in my power to protect their inheritance. Hell, I'm having to protect their inheritance from their father because he thinks he is entitled to half.
You are so fucking delusional and such a liar. But it's ok--you're just going to continue reaping what you've sown.
BS is the poster child of everything one should NEVER, ever do as a parent.
Those poor kids don't have a chance with a psycho like that polluting their lives with all her drama, bullshit, and lies.
304, I think you need to lose your hard on for me. You seem unhinged and that is putting it mildly.
So much hubris swirling around you, bananalady.
Looks like you'll never learn. SMH.
Don't have a chance? Well how do you measure success? My oldest is in her junior year of college, which is paid for in academic scholarships she earned. I homeschooled her so somehow she learned enough to score well on the ACT. She has a 3.9 GPA. She is presenting 2 papers at an academic summit next month at different university. She earned a scholarship to study abroad in France this summer. And she just landed a paid internship which she starts tomorrow. SO exactly what chance does she not have?
She has a great group of friends, she has had good boyfriends and bad ones, she is single by choice currently. She is beautiful, smart, and preparing to take the GRE to go to grad school. If the rest of my kids turn out half as well as she has I will have won the parenting lottery.
So much hubris swirling around you, bananalady.
Looks like you'll never learn. SMH.
February 4, 2014 at 6:04 PM
I find it interesting that BS has gone to the pod, started a thread asking for help and.or advice, and then has turned around and pooh poohed every piece of advice given to her. And, then she turned around and insulted all the peas who have experience with deadbeat exes, and claimed that even she knows how to make the deadbeats pay, and she hasn't even had to deal with that yet.
@@ of gargantuan proportions. What a smug, self-satisfied idiot she is.
I haven't pooh poohed the advice. It is food for thought, I admitted that I was trying to depend on someone who has proven to be undependable. Who knows how all of this will work out? But I am not going to let fear of the unknown keep me in a marriage that is bad for me. I may not be able to get out tomorrow but I will get out as soon as I can.
So much hubris swirling around you, bananalady.
Looks like you'll never learn. SMH.
104Anonymous said... 104 You are so fucking delusional and such a liar. But it's ok--you're just going to continue reaping what you've sown.
February 4, 2014 at 5:55 PM
105Anonymous said... 105 BS is the poster child of everything one should NEVER, ever do as a parent.
Those poor kids don't have a chance with a psycho like that polluting their lives with all her drama, bullshit, and lies.
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ITA.
I'm thinking somebody needs to find Bullshitter's real name. I'd like to Google and see what other shit she's done to people.
What shit I have done to people? I have never left children in a broken home, never carried on with a married man.
Now, because my husband cheated you want to see if you can dig up shit on me? I guess you can go for it but you are going to be disappointed.
Yes, BS, you will be able to live on your spousal support and child support. You are an amazing mother and an amazing teacher to your children. Your DH was just blinded by your awesomeness, that is why he strayed. Kick him to the curb, and let him support you. You are doing a great job. I'm sure the judge will find his *almost* affair absolutely appalling, and will award you more support than normal. I'm sure the e-mails will cement that fact that he will not get any custody and you will get extra child support. Forget all the child abuse cases, and fathers that actually abandon their children, I'm sure your *almost* affair and e-mails will get you right to top of the court docket. Your pride and arrogance will never get in your way, you will win. Good luck.
Hey dipshit, that would be you 315. I have said again and again that my husband does NOT WANT custody. So I don't need a judge to decide custodial issues. The kids are one of the areas we easily agree on. And I won't get EXTRA child support, I will get what the state chart says I will get. I don't expect extra.
And this was not an "almost" affair. What, you think penetration has to occur before it is an affair?
I will get alimony, I can't say for sure how much or for how long but I have a general idea. I also don't expect to be at the top of the court docket. The longer we stay married, the longer I get to keep my health insurance. I just don't want to have to keep dreading the weekends and when it is time for him to come home every day.
As for why my husband strayed, he did so for the same reason everyone has affairs. He did it because he wanted to. He could have made different choices but he didn't. He did what he wanted to do.
Ahh, yes, bs. Of course you are completely oblivious to the real point of 315. You just keep on with your arrogant self.
Yes, BL, we know. You were no part of the problems in your marriage. You have done everything right and nothing wrong, and you are totally the wronged party in every single thing that has happened in your life and marriage.
You were, and are, the perfect wife, mother friend, and person. Totally.
You are the first woman who has ever been done wrong, and your pain, suffering, and angst are SO MUCH more authentic and valid than anyone else's.
And because you are entitled to CS and alimony, you will totally receive it and be able to live off it. Well, that and the money from your family (that abandoned you when you were 15), and the sizeable inheritance that your kids have that you're protecting for them.
It's all going to work out exactly the way you think and say it is. Absolutely.
You know, the more BS posts, the more sorry I feel for her DH. It's amazing the guy didn't hook up with someone else years and years ago.
I am responsible for 50% of the problems in my marriage, my husband is 100% responsible for the affair. I am not perfect, never have been, never will be.
I did not deserve this. Nobody does and those of you who think anybody deserves to be treated that way have a lot more to worry about from the Karma bus than I ever will.
319, if you want my poor victimized husband, he is all yours. He will come with a dramatic decrease in disposable funds though.
So much hubris swirling around you, bananalady.
Looks like you'll never learn.
. . . and, here's your sign, Bananabitch:
Berrysmoothie can bankrupt him. He'd rather stay in a marriage in name only than go to court, knowing he's going to lose.
Berrysmooothie, I would take the $2K, go to your hotshot lawyer, and destroy this guy. Bleed. Him. Dry.
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When this idiot is backing you up and parroting your delusions, you are at rock fucking bottom.
I already know you're going to come back with more of your bullshit bravado.
Let's see how that works out for you
BS, you really need to step back and look at your posting style. If this is how you are in real life, you need to decide if this is the person you want to be. First, you come on all strong and arrogant. If you are challenged, you lash out. You are condescending and rude to people trying to help you. Then you pull the victim card. It is a very predictable pattern every time you post.
No, no one deserves to be cheated on. No one deserves to have their dreams shattered. No one deserves what you are going through. But, by the same token, no one deserves your contempt when they are trying to help you. You were very rude to some of the BTDT peas on your thread.
Lastly, your DH might change his tune very fast on custody when he finds out his CS will be reduced if he has 50% custody. Since the kids are old enough to take care of themselves, it won't be too hard for him.
Good luck to you.
It's good advice 123, but she won't take it. She has the self awareness of a clump of dirt
I apologized to those people on my thread. I did not intend to offend and I did not mean for it to come off as callous as it did. I don't watch my tone here. I figure everybody here has thick skin. And if they don't, they do not belong here.
Oh and to those who have wished me luck, thank you. I DO appreciate it.
I'm not talking about just here BS. I'm serious, take a step back and really look at your actions. It's not easy to do, but it will be worth it if you can make some real progress.
322, what do you want from me. You want me to fall apart and decide to stay with this man that has shown he lacks ethics? So I won't be alone? My self-worth is not defined by being in a relationship with someone. I deserve to be respected as a human and treated like one as well. I have thick skin but I have feelings too.
If you have thick skin, then buck the fuck up and stay with him until you can get the money together to survive on your own. Don't rely on him for any support. If you get some, great, it's a bonus. If you want a divorce now, then take the 2K and get the ball rolling. Don't just puff up your chest with all the money you will be getting, then moan about how he won't leave. Either do it or don't, but live with the decision you make.
Noted 327. I have always subscribed to the idea that when you know better you do better. I know I am not perfect and there are always to do better. I am a work in progress.
This is hands down the hardest decision I have ever made. Fear of the unknown can keep you stuck in limbo. I know what I have to do, now I just have to do it. All I can do is study for my test and hope for the best.
So much hubris swirling around you, bananalady.
Looks like you'll never learn.
322, what do you want from me. You want me to fall apart and decide to stay with this man that has shown he lacks ethics? So I won't be alone? My self-worth is not defined by being in a relationship with someone. I deserve to be respected as a human and treated like one as well. I have thick skin but I have feelings too.
February 4, 2014 at 8:00 PM
OMG, how fucking stupid are you? If anything, I think you're acting like a typical, whiny sniveling SAHM who can't be bothered to support herself and would rather whore herself out in a loveless marriage than do the tough thing and move the fuck on INDEPENDENTLY.
:You want out? Walk the fuck out and support YOURSELF. Quit whining about how wronged you are, along with how perfect and smart and savvy you are, and how much he owes you. It's complete bullshit-because if it wasn't, you wouldn't be in this enormous mess of YOUR OWN MAKING. He may have (almost) fucked around but you are so fucking idiotic if you think that's even the biggest issue. Your marriage sucked-and the whole time it did, you were spouting off about how wonderful it was. Kind of like you're doing now with your finances-people who have actually BTDT and gone through the divorce wringers tried to give you good advice, and you showed your ass (YET AGAIN) and essentially told them they were stupid and you've got it covered. The days of a woman being able to stick it to a cheater are long, long gone---unless you're a millionaire or a celebrity. Jesus, you are so arrogant and stupid.
Your DH might owe those kids some support, but he essentially owes you NOTHING. Yeah, yeah, come back and spout off about how much alimony you're entitled to. Like plenty of peas tried to tell you, it's very damned easy for someone who wants to be a snake to slither his way through the family court system. One minute, your husband is such a slimy reptile, and then the next you're spouting off again about how you're going to ruin him. You've watched way too much Lifetime TV or something. You have no clue.
^^ over invested
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It depends where you live, I don't and I think that's the norm here and for my age bracket. However in NC where my father lives everyone says hello. When I go hiking everyone says hello as they pass. Maybe us young people lost those manners. lol
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LOL You're no longer young...
I guess that's what it takes for you to feel good about yourself, 335. Sad.
Hi Lima
337 - Gosh, hi! But I didn't write that. Why do you silly kids insist on trying to guess who anonymous posters are? I can't tell you how many times I've written things that you clever detectives thought was someone else, and how many times someone else has written things (like the above) where you said it was me. What's the point? Unless you just wanted to say hi, in which case, golly, I'm thrilled.
I'm 336 but I am not Lima. I have been called just about everyone though because some idiot or idiots with absolutely no critical thinking skills believe that no one but the person being talked about could possibly disagree with the flawed logic displayed here.
You only look like stupid when you claim someone must be that person if they don't agree with your broken logic. But that's okay because you don't have to worry about sullying your "good pea name" with ignorance. You can just be an anonymous ignorant dumbass here with absolutely no consequences.
The same ignorant logic that tells you that you're so much better than someone because you can slam them for being "old". You're too stupid to figure out that we're all older than someone. It's all relative. You're the same kind of person that goes around flaunting your "wealth". You're too stupid too figure out that your way of boosting yourself up in others' eyes, only makes you look less than, from where you actually started out.
Aw, geez, here we go again. Even the boring BL topic was more interesting this tiresome split personality nonsense - "it wasn't me posting", "it was me posting", "you're all so stupid". GO THE FUCK AWAY PLEASE!
Or you could go the fuck away, 340. Just a thought. Maybe you are the tiresome one. Another thought.
I agree with 341. We must be the same person. Sigh.
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