Sorry but I feel bad for any husband whose wife refuses to have sex with him. I was married to a man like that. He had a low sex drive and while I didn't cheat (I divorced him & am happily remarried) I admit that I wanted to. I wanted to feel desired and loved and heck I wanted to have sex. A coworker hit on me constantly and he made me feel what I wanted to feel from my husband so it couldve happened but I didn't do it. While I hate cheating and will never condone it, I do have a tiny bit more sympathy for a man who may end up seeing another woman when his wife constantly turns him down. It's like saying no I don't love you. I'm sure someone will bash me for that opinion but oh well that's how I feel because I was on that side of it.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
We have sex. I just don't like it. I don't typically deny him.
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Must be awesome for him.
You choose not to get help and you choose to continue to be victimized. No sympathy from me.
I won't have sympathy when you're at the bukkit crying about how your husband is fucking someone who doesn't treat sex like a disgusting chore, either.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
Do you only hate actual sexual intercourse? Do you enjoy doing other intimate things with your husband like kissing, touching, oral sex, etc? Is it just the act of intercourse that you hate?
I don't know why you say I continue to be victimized. I take meds, I go to a psych, I talk openly about it... Not sure what else I am supposed to do.
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Your husband obviously isn't as happy as you think he is if he is complaining to friends and saying you use your past as an excuse to turn sex into a chore.
And it's great you haven't asked for my sympathy, because you won't get it. Being raped is a horrible experience, and I wish it on no one. I am sorry you went through that.
But it's sad that you allow that to hurt your marriage and seem just fine with ignoring your husband's needs. It would suck to be constantly rejected and to know that my partner was closing her eyes and thinking of England instead of enjoying sex with the man she married. In essence, you are giving your rapist more power over your sex life than you give yourself and your husband.
Don't be crying when he meets a woman who makes him feel desirable and NOT like a sexual predator. Sounds like he's closer to the end of you his rope than you think.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
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I think you made the right choice (not telling her), given the circumstances you laid out.
I was in a similar circumstance years ago. I found out the truth pretty quickly (within a month or so) and ended all contact immediately. I did some digging and found out he had been fucking anything with a vagina all throughout his 20+ year marriage. Small town too. It was apparent that there was no point cluing wifey in on his shenannigans - she was aware that he was a man-slut, but was making the choice to look the other way. Their problem, not mine.
It would suck to be constantly rejected and to know that my partner was closing her eyes and thinking of England instead of enjoying sex with the man she married.
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WTH are you trying to do? Humiliate her into being all better? Humiliate her into enjoying sex to YOUR satisfaction? WTH is wrong with you?
this is justa-my sympathy comment was addressing 7
no one says he was talking to anyone about our sex life except the coward poster who "says" they know me
Anyone saying my husband would even talk to you about that obviously doesn't know my husband. He just doesn't speak about those type of things. He finds them overly personal and gets mad at me for even discussing openly about my rape.
I constantly work on my rape situation. It is not something you just turn off. I pray every day I just "get over it". I want that for me and desperately want that for him.
I know you bitches have a hard on for homeschoolers, but that is your problem. I am sure none of you are qualified to teach your own children and I'd also bet you love the public schools because you hate spending time with your own kids so much you can't wait to get them out the door every day. I ACTUALLY LIKE MY KIDS, AND I AM SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO EDUCATE THEM AS WELL AS OUR EXCELLENT SCHOOL DISTRICT DESPITE MY ADVANCED SCIENCE DEGREE. You don't care if they get bullied, you don't care if they are actually learning anything, all you care about is that you don't have to deal with them during the day. WOMEN WHO SAY THIS TRY TO BOLSTER THEIR OWN SUCKTASTIC SELF-ESTEEM. And if they act anything like the way you people act here, hell I wouldn't want them home all day with me either. THIS IS ACTUALLY THE FIRST TIME I HAVE POSTED HERE, I JUST COULDN'T LET YOUR STUPIDITY RUN UNCHECKED. YOU SOUND LIKE AN IDIOT, AND I WOULDN'T TRUST YOU TO EDUCATE MY KIDS. I DON'T PERSONALLY KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN ARRESTED BY THE COPS FOR IDENTITY FRAUD NOR ANYONE WHO HAS HAD CPS REPEATEDLY INVESTIGATE THEM.
YOU ARE DOING YOURSELF NO FAVORS HERE, IN FACT, YOU LOOK LIKE THE REDNECK LOWLIFE THAT YOU PROBABLY ARE IN REAL LIFE. I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR POOR CHILDREN.
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Do you only hate actual sexual intercourse? Do you enjoy doing other intimate things with your husband like kissing, touching, oral sex, etc? Is it just the act of intercourse that you hate?
--------------------------------------- sex/oral sex. I try very hard to be loving in other ways.
I talk very openly about it. I was 13 and forced to have oral sex and sex. I had lots of vaginal tearing that was fixed thank you OB at my first birth.
NOW you fuckers if that isn't enough info for you, get over it. I don't use it as an excuse. My husand is more than nice about it and if he chooses to leave me over that than I guess I will let him go. I highly doubt any of you have perfect sex lives.
What's a perfect sex life? If you mean we both enjoy having sex with each other then yeah thats perfect. I can't imagine not enjoying sex with my husband or him just pretending to enjoy having sex with me or just doing it with me because it was his obligation. How sad.
Dare I say it? I actually don't mind scrappower, she is one of the few that will stand up to and call out the RWNJs on their frequent crazy rantings. I never understood the hate for her.
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ITA. She may be harsh at times, but she has more sense than the rest of 'em put together.
Traumitized by vaginal tearing and rape so much that you don't/can't/won't have enjoyable sex but no problem blowing some kids through your V hole, right? Because we all know, to some women having children is the end all be all no matter what.
You say you try very hard to be loving in other ways. Try very hard? You have to try? Why do you have to even try? You have to force yourself to do things that should come naturally in your marriage and to the person who supposedly love? You really need help if you are still this fucked up from 13.
Meh, either her husband is bitching about her constantly or he's not bitching and getting it on the side all along. That guy isn't happy with their sex life. No way no how. LOL.
I know it may sound harsh that a few people here are saying get over the rape that happened when you were 13 but lady, if you can't enjoy sex with your own husband then you need major help. Or maybe your husband needs a lesson on how to please a woman or make her feel desired, needed, wanted and loved. Something major is amiss here.
Sounds like someone I know who was raped at 13. She was modeling a bikini to a man in his early 30's... WTF? Where were her parents? But she has no problem whoring around town.
She's full of it. She is using it as a crutch. She has to TRY to show love (in other ways, not sexual) to her husband because she was raped 20 years ago? Like the other poster said, she'll be boo hooing in a year or two when he leaves her ass and all of the other "I don't sleep with my husband because I'm too tired or he snores" peas will kiss her ass and tell her what an jerk he is. :eyeroll:
I was suffered through long term sexual abuse as a child (thanks, uncle asshole) and was also violently assaulted as an adult (beaten and raped at 21).
I say this as kindly and respectfully as possible: please seek different help and do your damnedest to move through this. It isn't healthy to be so obsessively focused on an incident from your past. You hurt yourself and your family. You make your husband a victim of your rape, too.
You deserve to be healthy, happy and you deserve to enjoy a mutually satisfactory sex life. Please find a therapist who will help you stop defining your life by this assault. You are stronger than you think. You deserve to be happy.
I'm sorry for the fact that you were violstill and hurt. No one deserves that. It's sad that you're still trapped by the grief, anger and confusion this assault created in your life.
Yes I am not over it. I doubt you would be completely over it. I still have sex on a regular basis.I'm still happily married. I think if you say otherwise you are a lying sack of shit. I lost my virginity tied to bed kicking and screaming against my will by someone I know who repeated shoved their dick down my throat and then jizzed on me. Ya good times. Know go jack off you dirty fuck.
I'm not saying anything else. My parents we home and I was at a friend house who lied and I got left alone with a school mate much older. I am a very tiny person and weighed about 60 pounds. I hadn't even kissed a boy at the time or held hands.
I didn't say I am over being raped for years as a child (orally, anally and vaginally) or over being beaten and raped as an adult. We are not playing a game of whose sexual abuse was worse, btw. One never really gets over such things.
But I am emotionally healthy in spite of my past. I have learned not to define myself by the acts of others. I have learned that I and my own happiness are much greater than the cowardice of two sexual predators.
It wasn't easy, and I was fucked up for a long while in my teens and early 20's because of it. At the end of the day, though, I had to choose to grow and move away from my past.
I was blessed with a phenomenally patient and loving boyfriend who helped me begin to truly heal, and with him I began to associate sec with pleasure and my own power. I am married now to a different man, and our sex life is wonderful.
I healed not because I was less hurt than you, but because I chose to heal and move forward.
If you are so traumitized by this event that took place when you were 13 why did you scrap about that time in your life? Here you are saying it fucked you up so bad you can't enjoy sex with your husband and you have to even try to show him love in other ways because you are so fucked up over the rape (sounds pretty major to me) but yet you scrapbooked yourself cheerleading when I'm assuming you were around that age, probably even a little older.
I also looked at her gallery. All pages with her and her "best friend". Maybe something else is going on here. LOL. When you are married with children, why would you only post your scrapbook pages of you and your friend and not your family/husband. This chick is all kinds of weird.
I don't think anyone thinks it's not a horrible thing to go through especially at age 13 when I'm assuming you were a virgin and a very innocent girl. However, that was 20 years ago and not being able to enjoy the act of sex in any way, shape, or form, is a huge problem and not normal even under the circumstances. You really seem like you DONT want to get over it because you want to continue using it as an excuse not to have sex with your husband. You really seem to enjoy having this story to tell. I'm willing to bet a million dollars that your marriage will not last, but then again, you don't seem to care if it does or not.
Sex IS an act of love. That's where you are wrong. Rape isn't an act of love and you are combining the two. Have you EVER been to counseling? Because if you have, you need to go again....somewhere else.
You obviously don't care if you enjoy sex or not. Not even for your husband. What a bitchy attitude you have. You are really coming across as standing on a soapbox screaming "I was raped at 13 and I hate sex and I hate men and nothing you say will change my mind and screw everyone one including the man I'm married to". You're a cunty little thing aren't you?
Look ladies, nothing we keep saying is going to change her. She hates sex. She doesn't care about her husbands needs or feelings. She doesn't care about getting past it and enjoying life as a normal woman. She was assaulted at 13 and that's all that matters to her. She will never get over it and will carry this event with her like a badge of honor. We are wasting our breath with her.
Even if her husband does leave her, which he will, she won't really care. So why should we? She's a lost cause. Another freaking pea mental case.
Is 32/33 the same poster? You were at a friends house and someone there tied you to the bed? Where the hell was your friend when someone was doing this to you? Did this person go to jail?
And you think we would want to go jack off after hearing your description of rape? Is that what you really think? You really have some deep problems. I don't believe for one second that you had any type of therapy. You need it big time! The way you talk here, I also don't believe for one second that you are patient with your husband about it or that you "try" to show him love. You have a nasty attitude.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm confused by it though and you don't have to answer but are you saying that you went to a friends house and someone there tied you up and raped you? Was your friend not there? Was it her relative or an older school mate? I didn't understand the post. Was this man prosecuted?
The only person "fucked up" in this situation are the people beating this lady up for where she is in her recovery. It's not for any of you to decide where she should be in that recovery and how much she should be enjoying her sex life. So STFU and go find another pea brained topic, because you sound like people with serious mental health issues yourselves. If there is actually more than one of you and not just some seriously whacked out bitch with nothing better to do.
It was a school mate who lied about their parents being home you know before cell phones and all that. I was doing a project for an Ap class with an assigned senior. No he was not. I was stupid and did not tell. I walked the 3 miles home and didnt tell til years later.
There really has to be something better to do with your time than beating up on a rape victim and telling her how to recover according to your schedule.
The only person "fucked up" in this situation are the people beating this lady up for where she is in her recovery. It's not for any of you to decide where she should be in that recovery and how much she should be enjoying her sex life. So STFU and go find another pea brained topic, because you sound like people with serious mental health issues yourselves. If there is actually more than one of you and not just some seriously whacked out bitch with nothing better to do. _____
Recovery? What recovery? I think that's the point - this lady seems completely focused on an event that is more than 20 years in her past. This is an issue because she decided to post here after someone mentioned that her husband isn't as happy as she thinks he is.
50, this place is not an accurate account of a person's mental health. It's merely a snapshot of one section of their life. You can't make an accurate assessment of someone's mental health based on the one portion of their life they choose to share here or at the bucket.
23Anonymous said... 23 Dare I say it? I actually don't mind scrappower, she is one of the few that will stand up to and call out the RWNJs on their frequent crazy rantings. I never understood the hate for her.
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ITA. She may be harsh at times, but she has more sense than the rest of 'em put together. *********************
I like that she's not a sheep (she's pro-life and not because Jeebus/the GOP told her so. She's pro-life in everything). And she doesn't kiss pea asses.
Recovery? 20 years later for something that happened when she was 13?
A high school boy actually tied you up and had sex with you? Why did he tie you up? Did he just happen to have the ropes with him? Where was your friend?
That Kinder egg thread was crazy. Of course GrinningCat would have a problem with anything pink or girly or feminine. We know how she hates anything like that. Who cares if they make toys just for girls or just for boys? Soem girls are girly. Some are tomboys. Some are both. Who gives a fuck? Let them be which way they want to be even if that mean they love pink and only like girly things. Big fucking whoop.
What's with all the blog bitches breaking their anonymity? It's like the smack-blog version of breaking the fourth wall.
It's like a reality show now. I don't like it.
Plus, now I've tied (or think I have) some of the more ridiculous and annoying posts here to justlittletike and berrysmoothie based on their recent posts here.
It's shocking that they both come here and put out their personal issues all over the place then they want to cry when they get negative comments or someone who knows them posts something about them. Freaks.
I don't care if you believe me or not. It happened. He graduated and went into the military. He is a sick bastard.
I have sex all the time. I just don't crave it get all excited over it. I'm only talking about my rape because we are discussing it. That is no soapbox. I don't use my rape as a crutch. I'm just answering what you are asking me.
justalittletike has a lot of medical issues too. She always posts on all of the medical type threads with experiences or information. I think she's a huge drama queen and is probably loving the attention she's getting here.
Wait you were 13 and taking AP classes with seniors?
I am sorry for your pain and the traumatic rape but how did your parents not notice something was wrong?
You had to have came home very upset.
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Stop trying to dig out more information to pick apart and beat her up with. Move on and get a life. Or call and get your meds refilled, because you are sick and twisted to keep trying to beat up on a rape victim.
justalittletyke, you don't like having sex with your husband but what is the reason you don't actually sleep together? You say you sleep in separate rooms. Why? You can't even sleep in the same bed as him? What a weird fucking marriage. Either like someone else said, they have an arrangement or that man has a mistress.
Leslie's a 911 police dispatcher. Has to sit around all day hearing about crimes (and probably rapes) when she can't get over being assaulted at 13. Poor thing. :eyeroll: I'm starting to believe she's full of shit.
So traumitized she can't let her husband touch her, has to sleep in separate beds, has to "try" (her words) in other ways to show him love, yet sits her ass down everyday at work to listen to crime after crime. Okey dokey.
The pea that stated that this is a very critical time in his life, that goes without saying...but - how exactly am I supposed to act when I see him / talk with him ? Of course, I would not *freak out* ... but, is there something I should specifically do or not do ? Who guides me ? Quinnlove
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You're the grown up guide your self and stay out of it until your dd let's you in.
Ok, so a high school boy rapes you and you come home and act like nothing ever happened, yet you are now 30 and still can't get over it????? Not only did he rape you but he tied you up to do it? The tying up part is where I'm having a problem. Did the kid carrying around ropes to tie up girls and rape them? Did you friend invite you over just so he could rape you? You have yet to answer any questions about where the friend was in all of this and what happened afterward.
And I have NOT had CPS called multiple times. It happened 1 time and it is now over. The person who called cited multiple reasons for their "concern". I suppose they wanted to try to make their "concern" seem legit. They were lying and my husband and I proved it.
The all caps bitch? Yeah, you are the picture of sanity. Glad you have such a fantastic local school system. I don't.
And for those of you who refuse to believe you can be arrested for no reason here ya go: http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/03/us/lawsuit-accuses-fired-utah-trooper-of-falsifying-dui-arrests.html?_r=0
LOL she won't have sex with him willingly and she makes him sleep somewhere else because he snores. Yeah Mr Tike is getting him some somewhere else. She can't even show him intimacy or love by sleeping in the same room with the man. What a shitty marriage.
But you keep on forcing yourself to lay there every once in awhile and keep on having those kids, ok? Keep on going until you have 4 or 5, then have fun when he divorces you.
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DD: My mother is a nosy, bossy nutbag. We moved further away from her to get some peace. She blames my DH for it. Now my son is having some not uncommon problems, and she's posting on the Internet about it and how sucky we are at parenting. She called my DH a POS and me an idiot. She's posted which hospital my son's in. What do I do--move to Australia?
OMG really? Is she really a 911 dispatcher? No way! Someone that still can't get over a crime 20 years ago actually works a day to day job dealing with crime. Hmmmm, I'm calling BS on the whole thing now.
I think she made the comment she didn't like sex on the board and then the blog slammed her and she came over to the blog and said she was raped and on and on it went. I think she's full of shit. She wanted to be a blog bitch so she joined in the convo and posted the rape story so we wouldn't make fun of her for not liking sex like all the other weirdo peas.
Yuck, I have a friend with herpes and ever since she told I make sure to NEVER share anything she's drinking.
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FWIW, I read somewhere recently that pretty much the entire adult population carries the virus, but it's only a smallish % who are prone to actual outbreaks.
279--there is a BIG difference between a rogue cop making illegal arrests and an ordinary citizen getting somebody arrested. If you don't understand that...
It took months to get a relative arrested for prescription fraud, and she has a record a mile long AND had a warrant out for her arrest. For the same thing.
Yuck, I have a friend with herpes and ever since she told I make sure to NEVER share anything she's drinking.
February 22, 2013 at 3:17 PM
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FWIW, I read somewhere recently that pretty much the entire adult population carries the virus, but it's only a smallish % who are prone to actual outbreaks.
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Kind of like the zombie virus in the Walking Dead?
Either way I'm still sharing my margarita with her.
Whoa 911 dispatcher. LOL She must have forgotten she posted her occupation over there. I don't believe a word of it now. Nice try lady trying to get sympathy for a rape after you were laughted at for not liking sex. Shame on you.
288 - I gave just ONE example. There are a ton of cases out there where people get arrested and then the prosecutor doesn't file charges because there isn't enough evidence. But that doesn't stop the fact that people have to pay ridiculous amounts of money to fight the false charges and they get to have their mug shots plastered all over the internet with their home address listed and dealing with all the crap that goes along with it.
You can live in your bubble where the world is perfect and nothing bad ever happens to good people all you want. I hope you manage to go your whole life and keep that belief.
So what if I was a freshman at 14 dating a senior 18 and then I am a sophomore now 15 and he graduates and turns 19.
That shouldn't make him a sexual offender I dont think.
No I didn't date seniors when I was a freshman but there was a lot of that going on at my school and a lot of freshman were 14 and a lot of seniors 17 or 18...
I went to a tiny school and it happened a lot. **leslie**
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I agree that entertaining vendors is very common and drinking is usually involved... Bosses usually go.
However to me that is a lot of wine and I know from experience that things can happen in situations like that although I was not married and neither was he but we both got into a situation we really should have avoided.
I worked for a telecommunications company and we went to sporting events, dinners and lunches with prospective clients a lot...
Interesting old post. Interesting that justalittletike doesn't mention one single thing about the rape when the thread is exactly about older boys and younger girls/rape/sex etc. She doesn't really even seem to be that concerned about it. Doesn't sound like the traumitized rape victim we keep hearing from now, does it? Same for her getting drunk and having sex with a stranger/coworker before she got married.
Tike, ignore these idiots. Lots of people have been raped/had traumatic experiences and still go through life without dwelling on it. I don't see you dwelling on it because of a few message board topic discussions. These chicks act like you dwell on it all day long and think of nothing else. Also, sex is part of life, not ALL of life and it's not like sex has to be dwelled on all day long either (unless it's a man lol).
I can't imagine you're hung up on the past all day long and think about how to avoid sex constantly either. Ignore these people who've had pristine lives and never had anything bad happen in their lives (yet, karma and all that right?)
Good luck tike. I don't care about the idiots wanting to tear apart this post either. Do what you feel you need to.
You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
And you obviously can't read and have your own ignorant preconceived notions of sex. Only men dwell on sex? WTF are you talking about?
You missed like 99% of the posts that relate to this issue if you think people are saying tike is dwelling on her rape only because she doesn't obsess over sex 24/7.
Leslie, you hate having sex with your husband. You have said many times you don't enjoy sex and have to basically force yourself to do it to please him. Yet you posted you got drunk and had sex with someone else. Long term dated? You insinuated in that post that you got drunk and hooked up.
You've also posted on several threads where the subjects were about older boys being with younger girls or threads about rape and never mentioned a thing about your situation, yet you all of a sudden have no problem mentioning your rape when you are a part of a thread that is laughed at on the blog.
We get it. You are/were a blog bitch and you didn't like being a part of the crew that was made fun of so you came here with a rape story and it got out of control. I dont believe you were raped now. Nothing you say is consistant or makes any sense. I think you are a huge drama queen.
Personally, I think that her name should be justalittleDYKE.
It is obvious from her scrapbook pages that she has it bad for her "girlfriend." I think that she is using rape as an excuse to stay away from dick. --------------------------- I kind of agree with this. LOL
A woman who says she was tied up and raped by an 17-18 year old when she was 13 wouldn't defend 17-18 year olds dating younger girls on more than one thread. Because she did. She defended the older boys dating the younger girls because they were all in the same school therefore peers. This coming from someone who was raped by a "senior" and still so bothered by it that she can't enjoy sex. Sorry I'm not buying what she's selling. She loves this attention as much as berrysmoothie so maybe we should ignore her now.
I'm with 110. Life is a hell of a lot more complicated than these blog bitches let on- seriously, I wonder sometimes if they have ever even moved out of their parents house. It's all "well, I'd do this" and "why not do that" like life is some fucking hypothetical exercise.
It's not. It's messy, complicated and yeah- your husband can love you even if you have lingering issues from am rape at 13. And a rape at 13 certainly can co,or your entire life, particularly if it was your first sexual experience....how could it not?! "get over it" is more misogynist swill. Please ignore it.
You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
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Dumb cunt? Really? LOL Hi MissHostile. Get this straight dear, I never wished rape on anyone (learn to read). She works as a dispatcher for 911, not all bad things that happen are rape.
Karma for you too. Whatever that may be. You know it might just be loss of a job or something people get over quickly. Not rape LOL
Still laughing at the "dumb cunt" comment. Not even going to bother reading the rest of your crap, I'm sure it's not worth reading.
I dated a married man, it came back to bite me in the ass. I met him in a foreign country (though we shared the same nationality and job, shoulda known) and it was a fling. Then, bam, I'm working at a place and there he is, photos of his wife and kids everywhere, and I feel like worlds most awful fucking slut home wrecker.
yeah, it's his fault, I was single, but still- I felt terrible and still do. Not cool.
I left the job and took a step down to get away from him, I just felt so gross. He was above me, and kept giving me perks and recognition because he felt guilty, it sucked.
Learn from me: don't go out with a married guy! You'll feel like a dirty whore.
Blog bitches are dwelling on a rape more in one day than tike probably has her whole life. Why so invested in whether she was or wasn't and linking posts from there (Yubflub style) as if to tear her down more. You want her to "let it go" but you can't. Walk away. Seriously.
You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
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Dumb cunt? Really? LOL Hi MissHostile. Get this straight dear, I never wished rape on anyone (learn to read). She works as a dispatcher for 911, not all bad things that happen are rape.
Karma for you too. Whatever that may be. You know it might just be loss of a job or something people get over quickly. Not rape LOL
Still laughing at the "dumb cunt" comment. Not even going to bother reading the rest of your crap, I'm sure it's not worth reading.
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Oh, you just wish job loss and other hateful shit on people. Interesting. Karma's a bitch and I'm sure you've got a big date with the karma bus coming your way with an attitude like that.
And the fact that we're not obsessed with the bad things that have happened to us doesn't mean we've all had perfect lives. It means we're not weaklings who'd rather sit around and cry about shit. Some of us just get on with life.
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104- I doubt it. She is saying she has sex and the bitches say she isn't . They are asking so she is telling. They are jumping. I say move on to some one else less fortune we jumped on her over what peanuts and sex. We are slacking.
If the seat is pushing against your knees when it's in the upright position, then when it reclines it comes down more on the top of your knees (I wish I could draw a little picture to illustrate this) Admittedly, the seats have to be jammed in pretty tight for this to happen, but it does happen. I'm only 5'1" and I've been on flights (Virgin Atlantic, QANTAS, Iberia and American) where that's happened. _________________________________
If you're 5'1" and your knees touch the seat in front of you, with or without the seat reclining, your ass is fat as fuck.
I seriously do not get the anger around the seat recline.
All your imported threads dont mean crap except I don't feel the need to tell my life story every time I post. Like I said it isn't about me. I only talk about when addressed or I feel it will benefit someone.
littletyike just STFU. you are full of it. You say things in your posts then want to backtrack and say it was something else. Like several people have said, stop oversharing and maybe it won't come back to bite you in the ass.
YOU yourself posted that you got drunk with someone at a work related event and had sex (you said things got out of control because you both drank. you also felt the need to point out neither of you were married). So yes, that sounds like you got drunk and had sex with someone you just met, especially because the OP was about getting drunk and having sex. Now you want to say that was a long term boyfriend. Ok, whatever.
Maybe there has been a lot of posts about you and your rape today but you know what? I don't believe you were raped after reading the posts that people brought over here and I think you are the one who sucks to lie about such a thing. Either way it goes, you are a liar and full of shit. None of your posts or stories jive together.
All your imported threads dont mean crap except I don't feel the need to tell my life story every time I post. Like I said it isn't about me. I only talk about when addressed or I feel it will benefit someone. --------------------------------- Yeah right. You've never mentioned it once over there. Only over here after it was discussed about you (and others) saying they didn't like having sex with their husbands.
So which is it? You were raped and hate sex so bad you can't have sex with your husband?
Or you get drunk and have sex with someone you just met? Or a long term boyfriend as you are NOW saying? Can you have sex with him at 22 but not your husband at age 30? What are you, regressing? You were raped by an older boy but have no problem with those older boys dating younger girls as you stated in a couple of different threads? You makes no sense and that's why several people here are calling you on it.
Stop talking to/about littletike whatever her name is. She's obviously a big fat lying drama queen. You are all wasting your time with her.
Let her continue not enjoying sex and sleeping in a different room than her husband. Who cares. Just be glad you're not him or in a crappy marriage like hers.
Oh, you just wish job loss and other hateful shit on people. Interesting. Karma's a bitch and I'm sure you've got a big date with the karma bus coming your way with an attitude like that.
And the fact that we're not obsessed with the bad things that have happened to us doesn't mean we've all had perfect lives. It means we're not weaklings who'd rather sit around and cry about shit. Some of us just get on with life.
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but you sludge around in someone elses shit. ok
and what's this *WE* shit? Not everyone is on the same bus trip as you LOL
Screw that littletyke bitch. I'm sick of her lying stories.
Let's move on. What dumbass shit has KristinL16 done today? Has Lauren freaked out on anyone today? Did Annabella say anything dumb? What new tv show is CADoodle watching? Has Nightowl told us another story about how her precious sons have confided their disgust for the slutty teenage girls at their school? LOL
littletyike just STFU. you are full of it. You say things in your posts then want to backtrack and say it was something else. Like several people have said, stop oversharing and maybe it won't come back to bite you in the ass.
YOU yourself posted that you got drunk with someone at a work related event and had sex (you said things got out of control because you both drank. you also felt the need to point out neither of you were married). So yes, that sounds like you got drunk and had sex with someone you just met, especially because the OP was about getting drunk and having sex. Now you want to say that was a long term boyfriend. Ok, whatever.
Maybe there has been a lot of posts about you and your rape today but you know what? I don't believe you were raped after reading the posts that people brought over here and I think you are the one who sucks to lie about such a thing. Either way it goes, you are a liar and full of shit. None of your posts or stories jive together. February 22, 2013 at 6:49 PM
Why are you dredging her shit then? Get off her ass and out of her shit. You don't believe her, so what, she owes you nothing.
You know you bitches are stupid. I slept with lots of people after I got raped because I lost sense of worth. I am not ashamed about that. It is very common Everyone handles it differently. Until I met the person ironically that you are messing with over above I didn't like myself. That didnt work out (not sex related) met DH and been with him ever sense. So ya it works put.
I rarely talk about the rare it just came up today. I don't talk about being bipolar either unless it can help educate people. You life isn't over if you stayed controlled.
There are a lot of peas who have said over the years they don't enjoy having sex with their husbands. Maybe their husbands just suck at it, but I'm more than willing to bet it's the Peas. They are an uptight bunch over there who only care about controlling their childrens every move or what the new medical illness to have is. They are very self centered women. I'd say there's honestly only a handful of what I'd consider normal women who post there.
I used to think the normal ones posted on the blog (Meat blog) but now I don't even think that's the case. LOL
And what the hell would I have to lie about. That is pretty Damn elaborate to make up when I only had like 400 in my whole school.. How do you think I ended up early onset bipolar? I got my shit in order and got it all taken care of.
littletyke, I get ya. But I still do agree you need some help so you can actually enjoy sex with your husband. Both for your sake and his. It sounds like you are fine with the way things are but I really do wish you'd consider getting some help so you can actually enjoy it and *want* him. It would be great for him too.
I can't imagine having sex out of obligation. It makes me sad for both of you.
141- I said above I all the mess. We are actively seeking help
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I agree that entertaining vendors is very common and drinking is usually involved... Bosses usually go.
However to me that is a lot of wine and I know from experience that things can happen in situations like that although I was not married and neither was he but we both got into a situation we really should have avoided.
I worked for a telecommunications company and we went to sporting events, dinners and lunches with prospective clients a lot...
So did the guy end up like a serial rapist or something? Because the way you described it he sounds like a sex offender who wouldn't have done that just once. He would have kept going until someone went to the police.
Tying a girl to a bed and raping her is so far over the line I can't see it being a one time thing.
143 ITA. The tie me up rape is probably something she saw in a movie when she was manic.
People freak out when they think someone is keeping a spreadsheet or if they go back and read a peas posts or heck even if some people just have a good memory but......you can get a pretty good picture about who someone is or what kind of person they are when they post a LOT. It's not rocket science. People show you who they are. If you don't want to create an impression for people, then don't post your shit at the bucket all day every day.
143- I am actually the exact opposite. I can't lie to save my life. It is actually a huge fault. I tell way too much information even to the point it gets me into trouble.
144. I took myself for depression and mania. I didn't share the rest until later and my mother and I fight about it still to this day on when I told her. I think she ignored me telling her and she said I didn't tell her until I was a senior. This is part of the issue. The douche bag came and apologized as if that would help at my senior party to allow him to live his life. You know cause I am so nice and all.
That says drunk good time with another employee whom I had been flirting with for a long time and it finally happened. May sex maybe not ************* Ok then fine thats what it was. Doesn't sound like a traumitized rape victim to me. You're the one who has went on and on about how you can't enjoy sex with your dh but you sound perfectly ok to me being drunk and messing around with someone else. Get your stories and convictions straight.
I guess I don't get the whole tie her up thing either. Sure I can see an older boy taking advantage of a younger girl but the fact he tied her up and did these things to her doesn't ring true to me. The way she described it earlier in this thread sounded like a very brutal rape that would leave physical as well as mental scars. Not sure how no one, including her parents, didn't notice any of it. It just sounds far fetched. It's either embellished or a lie. Keep in mind she's bipolar.
More than likely it was a regretted sexual encounter with an older boy that she has now conjured up into a brutal rape from something she saw or read.
Hey tike, maybe you should just hook up with your BFF. You don't seem to like men much.
For Christ's sake, where is the gang mentality coming from? As a former clinician, believe me - there are a zillion couples not having regular, fantastic, both-loving-it sex. It's not like her DH is some major victim. There are a ton of other reasons why people get and stay married other than sex. He probably loves her, loves their family, thinks she's funny or smart or whatever. Just be grateful you have a fabulous sex life and get off the poor girl's back. She's far from the only one with a less than perfect sex life.
And seriously, even if she did have a drunken one night stand? WTF ever. So does probably 75% of the world. It's ridiculously common and normal.
LOOK I don't know. I don't speak his name, I don't look him for him, I don't drive by his old house, I don't investigate him or try to see what he is up too. He ruined a huge part of my life. He left 4 fingernail marks in my wrists I can see whenever I want. He tied me too a bed...with the draw string to my cross country hoodie. I was young. i was 13 and very innocent. I didnt even like boys. What more do you want. I get it. Smack. I am done. You for sure win because I can take anymore reliving it.
Its common and normal to have a druken one night stand for some people but not someone who still cries about being raped 20 years ago and doesn't like doing it with their husband.
Former clinician? LOL Alrighty then.
It would be a different story if it was the dh refusing to have sex or only having sex out of obligation or saying they hate having sex with their wife (a pea) then it would be poor poor pitiful Pea woman.
I am not crazy bipolar I'm just manic depression. I have no problems having sex drunk or on ambien enjoying it but that tends to make things easier and since I want to enjoy it well that helps! Stupid.
I wasn't the one bitching about it. I answering a direct question to someone else. Someone else smack my response and I told them why I said it the way I did. I never even mentioned IT to begin with.
152 is another pea who doesn't like sex or a pea who has a dh who won't fuck her so she has to believe that it's normal and a good marriage doesn't need sex. Keep telling yourself that. I hope you're not one of those SAHM's with a bunch of kids running around.
Ok, but did you enjoy sex with the other long term boyfriend you spoke of earlier?
YOU are saying you only do it because you feel you have to. YOU are saying he KNOWS you don't like it. Do you really not see thats a huge problem for him and actually for you too? Why don't you seek help? That is NOT normal nor is it just something you should live with. A healthy 30 year old married woman should enjoy her sex life. So should her husband.
Your dh knows you don't like having sex with him but you pretend and do it anyway. Do you really think that's a happy healthy marriage? It's NOT and anyone here who says it is as delusional as you are.
153 Anonymous said...He left 4 fingernail marks in my wrists I can see whenever I want.
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How the fuck did your parents not see that? I realize you were 13 but that would be a serious wound. Something that would take more then a day or two to heal.
LMAO! I am floored that justalittletike and berrysmoothie both have talked and talked and talked so much on this blog about their personal business. They just can't shut up about it. They keep responding and adding more information. LOL It's unbelievable. It's amazing to me the things people will share.
No I didn't necessarily enjoy it then but I don't hate it now. I don't think about it every time. We are noticeable. Sometime we have great sex sometimes not.
I have said about 50 time I am going for help. I have several people I work with including the doctor who just tile be she is sick that I am not allowed to be upset over. I also go to a pysch doctor.
164 they didn't see it because it didn't happen. A little innocent 13 year old comes home from being tied up, raped in every orifice, fingernail marks on arms and doesn't say a word and her parents don't notice anything is wrong with her. They don't see physical marks? They don't see her emotionally upset or acting weird or different? Yet she says she was diagnosed with manic depression or bipolar at an early age and to this day it affects her marriage and sex life. None of it makes any sense.
My mom traveled to Germany and came home once a month and my dad left at 5a and got home after 7p. You people act like you can't hide anything. I wore cross country sweats nearly every day anyway.
My parents were in denial anyway about the bipolar and I screamed and cried most the time so what is new..... get off my fucking case. Goodnight happy blog bitches.
littletyke, you and your family sound like a hot mess. Are you related to berrysmoothie? Are you both from the same "small town" with crooked cops, crazy arrests and rapists running around all over the place? Sounds like it.
She was on cross country ya'll! She wore her cross country sweats everyday. She got tied up with her cross country hoodie. Cross country cross country cross country......passes out drunk.
Way to badger someone. Damn girls, give it a rest. So what she talked about it. People asked more and she gave answers and you tell her she lies. So what if YOU don't think it adds up. YOU didn't/haven't lived her life.
What a bunch of low life bitches. As someone said above, this is a new low.
My dh is working tonight and I will sex him up good when he gets home. Just wanted to say thanks blog bitches. The blog has been really good tonight. Very entertaining with a glass of wine! Kept me busy waiting for him to get home. Thanks again pirate hookers.
My mom traveled to Germany and came home once a month and my dad left at 5a and got home after 7p. You people act like you can't hide anything. I wore cross country sweats nearly every day anyway. *************** Well ok then but this is new information. I doubt most of us realized that a 13 year old little girl would have been left to her own devices. I for one, wouldn't have thought you were basically raising yourself at that age. Sounds like you had some super sucky parents as well. They didn't have a clue what their little girl was up to.
Howdy! I just discovered your internet site: Blogger: Wow. Just. Wow. when I was browsing reddit.com. It looks as though someone enjoyed your blog so much they decided to bookmark it. I'll absolutely be coming back here more often.
Well since you mentioned it, there was a home invasion in my small town that included raping the female homeowner just 2 nights ago. Horrible story. Hope the keystone cops around here actually work that case.
Well since you mentioned it, there was a home invasion in my small town that included raping the female homeowner just 2 nights ago. Horrible story. Hope the keystone cops around here actually work that case. ------------------------------- Maybe they'll arrest you for it since you say that are so incompetant and shady. You seem to get accused of lots of things you "didn't do".
192 it's killing me. I really want to but I can't because then she'll know who I am and how I know the things I know. I don't care about her but It's not fair to the other people in her life.
Ok somebody is off their meds and it ain't littletyke or whatever her name is. Judging from how often the poster keeps getting the comments twisted and not understanding what they are reading, I'd say it's shannoninkc.
Shannon honey, you need to put down the glass and go take your meds or call somebody, because you are coming unglued with your obsession over littletyke.
Really this is just getting to be even a little much for me. This has sunk to a new low. Wake me when we change topics.
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I agree completely.
Berry and Tike: there are poster(s) here that play a game of contrarian/adversarial posting, and twisting statements ("I didn't even like boys" at 13 = "Why are you married if you don't like boys??!!"), and crank up the outrageous outraged froth up to 11.
You are playing into their hands. Just stop and walk away. /my two cents
Because if I tell certain things she will know who I am and and I don't want to out other people. I'm the one on this blog saying I know her, they aren't. I don't want them mad at me. I know I shouldn't have said anything about it at all but I had a moment of pissed off weakness and posted. I'm still pissed off and I can't believe Leslie is speaking so much about this on here. I hope the other people in her life don't find out what all she's shared here and over at Two Peas and God knows where else on the internet.
To the person who said imagine if the roles were reversed, I agree. What if a husband was online talking like that?
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Why didn't you tell her? Even if someone ruined my marriage I would want to know.
Sorry but I feel bad for any husband whose wife refuses to have sex with him. I was married to a man like that. He had a low sex drive and while I didn't cheat (I divorced him & am happily remarried) I admit that I wanted to. I wanted to feel desired and loved and heck I wanted to have sex. A coworker hit on me constantly and he made me feel what I wanted to feel from my husband so it couldve happened but I didn't do it. While I hate cheating and will never condone it, I do have a tiny bit more sympathy for a man who may end up seeing another woman when his wife constantly turns him down. It's like saying no I don't love you. I'm sure someone will bash me for that opinion but oh well that's how I feel because I was on that side of it.
We have sex. I just don't like it. I don't typically deny him.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
We have sex. I just don't like it. I don't typically deny him.
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Must be awesome for him.
You choose not to get help and you choose to continue to be victimized. No sympathy from me.
I won't have sympathy when you're at the bukkit crying about how your husband is fucking someone who doesn't treat sex like a disgusting chore, either.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
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Well, at least you ended the affair.
201, no I'm not going to say who the pea is. No way. You don't have to believe my story. It's true but no, I'm not going to do that to her.
I don't know why you say I continue to be victimized. I take meds, I go to a psych, I talk openly about it... Not sure what else I am supposed to do.
I don't recall ever asking for ANYONE'S sympathy. Do you?
Who are you, 11? I don't even know what you're talking about? Are you justalittletike?
If so, who is giving you sympathy? Seems like the sympathy here is for your husband.
Do you only hate actual sexual intercourse? Do you enjoy doing other intimate things with your husband like kissing, touching, oral sex, etc? Is it just the act of intercourse that you hate?
I don't know why you say I continue to be victimized. I take meds, I go to a psych, I talk openly about it... Not sure what else I am supposed to do.
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Your husband obviously isn't as happy as you think he is if he is complaining to friends and saying you use your past as an excuse to turn sex into a chore.
And it's great you haven't asked for my sympathy, because you won't get it. Being raped is a horrible experience, and I wish it on no one. I am sorry you went through that.
But it's sad that you allow that to hurt your marriage and seem just fine with ignoring your husband's needs. It would suck to be constantly rejected and to know that my partner was closing her eyes and thinking of England instead of enjoying sex with the man she married. In essence, you are giving your rapist more power over your sex life than you give yourself and your husband.
Don't be crying when he meets a woman who makes him feel desirable and NOT like a sexual predator. Sounds like he's closer to the end of you his rope than you think.
I knew someone would ask why I didn't tell her. The answer is I don't know. I just didn't. I stopped seeing him shortly after and relocated for my job. I admit that I still read her posts to see if she's still "happily married". She seems to be. Maybe he's changed. Maybe he hasn't. I don't know. I didn't tell her and now I won't. They have youngish children and I don't know. I just don't want to hurt her or them. I know I sound like a hypocrite but that's how I feel now.
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I think you made the right choice (not telling her), given the circumstances you laid out.
I was in a similar circumstance years ago. I found out the truth pretty quickly (within a month or so) and ended all contact immediately. I did some digging and found out he had been fucking anything with a vagina all throughout his 20+ year marriage. Small town too. It was apparent that there was no point cluing wifey in on his shenannigans - she was aware that he was a man-slut, but was making the choice to look the other way. Their problem, not mine.
Also too: I did not want it getting around town that I slept with a married man.
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14 Anonymous said...
It would suck to be constantly rejected and to know that my partner was closing her eyes and thinking of England instead of enjoying sex with the man she married.
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WTH are you trying to do? Humiliate her into being all better? Humiliate her into enjoying sex to YOUR satisfaction? WTH is wrong with you?
this is justa-my sympathy comment was addressing 7
no one says he was talking to anyone about our sex life except the coward poster who "says" they know me
Anyone saying my husband would even talk to you about that obviously doesn't know my husband. He just doesn't speak about those type of things. He finds them overly personal and gets mad at me for even discussing openly about my rape.
I constantly work on my rape situation. It is not something you just turn off. I pray every day I just "get over it". I want that for me and desperately want that for him.
JFC. We're blog bitches, not therapists.
I know you bitches have a hard on for homeschoolers, but that is your problem. I am sure none of you are qualified to teach your own children and I'd also bet you love the public schools because you hate spending time with your own kids so much you can't wait to get them out the door every day.
I ACTUALLY LIKE MY KIDS, AND I AM SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO EDUCATE THEM AS WELL AS OUR EXCELLENT SCHOOL DISTRICT DESPITE MY ADVANCED SCIENCE DEGREE.
You don't care if they get bullied, you don't care if they are actually learning anything, all you care about is that you don't have to deal with them during the day.
WOMEN WHO SAY THIS TRY TO BOLSTER THEIR OWN SUCKTASTIC SELF-ESTEEM.
And if they act anything like the way you people act here, hell I wouldn't want them home all day with me either.
THIS IS ACTUALLY THE FIRST TIME I HAVE POSTED HERE, I JUST COULDN'T LET YOUR STUPIDITY RUN UNCHECKED. YOU SOUND LIKE AN IDIOT, AND I WOULDN'T TRUST YOU TO EDUCATE MY KIDS. I DON'T PERSONALLY KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN ARRESTED BY THE COPS FOR IDENTITY FRAUD NOR ANYONE WHO HAS HAD CPS REPEATEDLY INVESTIGATE THEM.
YOU ARE DOING YOURSELF NO FAVORS HERE, IN FACT, YOU LOOK LIKE THE REDNECK LOWLIFE THAT YOU PROBABLY ARE IN REAL LIFE. I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR POOR CHILDREN.
SORRY FOR THE HEARTCAT-ESQUE POST, BERRYSMOOTHIE/BANANA LADY IS AN IDIOT, I COULDN'T HELP MYSELF.
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Do you only hate actual sexual intercourse? Do you enjoy doing other intimate things with your husband like kissing, touching, oral sex, etc? Is it just the act of intercourse that you hate?
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sex/oral sex. I try very hard to be loving in other ways.
I talk very openly about it. I was 13 and forced to have oral sex and sex. I had lots of vaginal tearing that was fixed thank you OB at my first birth.
NOW you fuckers if that isn't enough info for you, get over it. I don't use it as an excuse. My husand is more than nice about it and if he chooses to leave me over that than I guess I will let him go. I highly doubt any of you have perfect sex lives.
What's a perfect sex life? If you mean we both enjoy having sex with each other then yeah thats perfect. I can't imagine not enjoying sex with my husband or him just pretending to enjoy having sex with me or just doing it with me because it was his obligation. How sad.
Dare I say it? I actually don't mind scrappower, she is one of the few that will stand up to and call out the RWNJs on their frequent crazy rantings. I never understood the hate for her.
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ITA. She may be harsh at times, but she has more sense than the rest of 'em put together.
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I agree.
Traumitized by vaginal tearing and rape so much that you don't/can't/won't have enjoyable sex but no problem blowing some kids through your V hole, right? Because we all know, to some women having children is the end all be all no matter what.
You say you try very hard to be loving in other ways. Try very hard? You have to try? Why do you have to even try? You have to force yourself to do things that should come naturally in your marriage and to the person who supposedly love? You really need help if you are still this fucked up from 13.
Wait, you were raped at age 13? Age 13? And you are still not over it?
Meh, either her husband is bitching about her constantly or he's not bitching and getting it on the side all along. That guy isn't happy with their sex life. No way no how. LOL.
24- c sections and you're a cunt. When I say try I just try and make sure I don't leave room for question.
I know it may sound harsh that a few people here are saying get over the rape that happened when you were 13 but lady, if you can't enjoy sex with your own husband then you need major help. Or maybe your husband needs a lesson on how to please a woman or make her feel desired, needed, wanted and loved. Something major is amiss here.
Sounds like someone I know who was raped at 13. She was modeling a bikini to a man in his early 30's... WTF? Where were her parents? But she has no problem whoring around town.
She's full of it. She is using it as a crutch. She has to TRY to show love (in other ways, not sexual) to her husband because she was raped 20 years ago? Like the other poster said, she'll be boo hooing in a year or two when he leaves her ass and all of the other "I don't sleep with my husband because I'm too tired or he snores" peas will kiss her ass and tell her what an jerk he is. :eyeroll:
I was suffered through long term sexual abuse as a child (thanks, uncle asshole) and was also violently assaulted as an adult (beaten and raped at 21).
I say this as kindly and respectfully as possible: please seek different help and do your damnedest to move through this. It isn't healthy to be so obsessively focused on an incident from your past. You hurt yourself and your family. You make your husband a victim of your rape, too.
You deserve to be healthy, happy and you deserve to enjoy a mutually satisfactory sex life. Please find a therapist who will help you stop defining your life by this assault. You are stronger than you think. You deserve to be happy.
I'm sorry for the fact that you were violstill and hurt. No one deserves that. It's sad that you're still trapped by the grief, anger and confusion this assault created in your life.
Yes I am not over it. I doubt you would be completely over it. I still have sex on a regular basis.I'm still happily married. I think if you say otherwise you are a lying sack of shit. I lost my virginity tied to bed kicking and screaming against my will by someone I know who repeated shoved their dick down my throat and then jizzed on me. Ya good times. Know go jack off you dirty fuck.
I'm not saying anything else. My parents we home and I was at a friend house who lied and I got left alone with a school mate much older. I am a very tiny person and weighed about 60 pounds. I hadn't even kissed a boy at the time or held hands.
I didn't say I am over being raped for years as a child (orally, anally and vaginally) or over being beaten and raped as an adult. We are not playing a game of whose sexual abuse was worse, btw. One never really gets over such things.
But I am emotionally healthy in spite of my past. I have learned not to define myself by the acts of others. I have learned that I and my own happiness are much greater than the cowardice of two sexual predators.
It wasn't easy, and I was fucked up for a long while in my teens and early 20's because of it. At the end of the day, though, I had to choose to grow and move away from my past.
I was blessed with a phenomenally patient and loving boyfriend who helped me begin to truly heal, and with him I began to associate sec with pleasure and my own power. I am married now to a different man, and our sex life is wonderful.
I healed not because I was less hurt than you, but because I chose to heal and move forward.
32, you were raped at age 13? Just trying to make sure I'm not getting you confused with someone else.
If you are so traumitized by this event that took place when you were 13 why did you scrap about that time in your life? Here you are saying it fucked you up so bad you can't enjoy sex with your husband and you have to even try to show him love in other ways because you are so fucked up over the rape (sounds pretty major to me) but yet you scrapbooked yourself cheerleading when I'm assuming you were around that age, probably even a little older.
I also looked at her gallery. All pages with her and her "best friend". Maybe something else is going on here. LOL. When you are married with children, why would you only post your scrapbook pages of you and your friend and not your family/husband. This chick is all kinds of weird.
All my scrapbook pages I was in my mid 20's only 1 page was high school. Thanks.
It doesn't ruin anything about us. I just don't enjoy sex. I sex as not an act of love and more physical... So what.
I don't think anyone thinks it's not a horrible thing to go through especially at age 13 when I'm assuming you were a virgin and a very innocent girl. However, that was 20 years ago and not being able to enjoy the act of sex in any way, shape, or form, is a huge problem and not normal even under the circumstances. You really seem like you DONT want to get over it because you want to continue using it as an excuse not to have sex with your husband. You really seem to enjoy having this story to tell. I'm willing to bet a million dollars that your marriage will not last, but then again, you don't seem to care if it does or not.
Sex IS an act of love. That's where you are wrong. Rape isn't an act of love and you are combining the two. Have you EVER been to counseling? Because if you have, you need to go again....somewhere else.
You obviously don't care if you enjoy sex or not. Not even for your husband. What a bitchy attitude you have. You are really coming across as standing on a soapbox screaming "I was raped at 13 and I hate sex and I hate men and nothing you say will change my mind and screw everyone one including the man I'm married to". You're a cunty little thing aren't you?
I am over it. I'm only discussing it because I'm being questioned. I do think about it from time to time yes. I'm always working on that.
Look ladies, nothing we keep saying is going to change her. She hates sex. She doesn't care about her husbands needs or feelings. She doesn't care about getting past it and enjoying life as a normal woman. She was assaulted at 13 and that's all that matters to her. She will never get over it and will carry this event with her like a badge of honor. We are wasting our breath with her.
Even if her husband does leave her, which he will, she won't really care. So why should we? She's a lost cause. Another freaking pea mental case.
Is 32/33 the same poster? You were at a friends house and someone there tied you to the bed? Where the hell was your friend when someone was doing this to you? Did this person go to jail?
And you think we would want to go jack off after hearing your description of rape? Is that what you really think? You really have some deep problems. I don't believe for one second that you had any type of therapy. You need it big time! The way you talk here, I also don't believe for one second that you are patient with your husband about it or that you "try" to show him love. You have a nasty attitude.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm confused by it though and you don't have to answer but are you saying that you went to a friends house and someone there tied you up and raped you? Was your friend not there? Was it her relative or an older school mate? I didn't understand the post. Was this man prosecuted?
Justatyke, you need to read and re-read 234's post. She seems to have her shit together in spite of having experienced major trauma.
Whoever said you wear your rape like a badge of honor hit the nail on the head.
Some people just don't want to be healthier.
Bloggers, justalittletike has posted she is bipolar. That should tell you something. She's freaking whackadoo. Who knows if anything she says is true.
The only person "fucked up" in this situation are the people beating this lady up for where she is in her recovery. It's not for any of you to decide where she should be in that recovery and how much she should be enjoying her sex life. So STFU and go find another pea brained topic, because you sound like people with serious mental health issues yourselves. If there is actually more than one of you and not just some seriously whacked out bitch with nothing better to do.
It was a school mate who lied about their parents being home you know before cell phones and all that. I was doing a project for an Ap class with an assigned senior. No he was not. I was stupid and did not tell. I walked the 3 miles home and didnt tell til years later.
There really has to be something better to do with your time than beating up on a rape victim and telling her how to recover according to your schedule.
The only person "fucked up" in this situation are the people beating this lady up for where she is in her recovery. It's not for any of you to decide where she should be in that recovery and how much she should be enjoying her sex life. So STFU and go find another pea brained topic, because you sound like people with serious mental health issues yourselves. If there is actually more than one of you and not just some seriously whacked out bitch with nothing better to do.
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Recovery? What recovery? I think that's the point - this lady seems completely focused on an event that is more than 20 years in her past. This is an issue because she decided to post here after someone mentioned that her husband isn't as happy as she thinks he is.
I will be honest now I'm done discussing it. I've been honest but I'm at the point of losing my lunch. So let us move on.
50, this place is not an accurate account of a person's mental health. It's merely a snapshot of one section of their life. You can't make an accurate assessment of someone's mental health based on the one portion of their life they choose to share here or at the bucket.
23Anonymous said... 23 Dare I say it? I actually don't mind scrappower, she is one of the few that will stand up to and call out the RWNJs on their frequent crazy rantings. I never understood the hate for her.
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ITA. She may be harsh at times, but she has more sense than the rest of 'em put together.
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I like that she's not a sheep (she's pro-life and not because Jeebus/the GOP told her so. She's pro-life in everything). And she doesn't kiss pea asses.
For the love of zod, let's move on.
Recovery? 20 years later for something that happened when she was 13?
A high school boy actually tied you up and had sex with you? Why did he tie you up? Did he just happen to have the ropes with him? Where was your friend?
I call BS.
That Kinder egg thread was crazy. Of course GrinningCat would have a problem with anything pink or girly or feminine. We know how she hates anything like that. Who cares if they make toys just for girls or just for boys? Soem girls are girly. Some are tomboys. Some are both. Who gives a fuck? Let them be which way they want to be even if that mean they love pink and only like girly things. Big fucking whoop.
justalittletike hates men. She likes women and only got married to have kids.
What's with all the blog bitches breaking their anonymity? It's like the smack-blog version of breaking the fourth wall.
It's like a reality show now. I don't like it.
Plus, now I've tied (or think I have) some of the more ridiculous and annoying posts here to justlittletike and berrysmoothie based on their recent posts here.
How do you know this 57?
By the looks of it, Kim Kardashian is gonna blow up like a balloon with this pregnancy.
What's with all the blog bitches breaking their anonymity? It's like the smack-blog version of breaking the fourth wall.
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Heh. Crazy.
justalittletyke has 2 kids? How come she only ever talks about one?
It's shocking that they both come here and put out their personal issues all over the place then they want to cry when they get negative comments or someone who knows them posts something about them. Freaks.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3222431#30823375
Did I miss the smack on this? SEVEN cold sores on your face. WTF???? Gross.
And it looks like a lot of peas has the herpes. LOL.
I don't care if you believe me or not. It happened. He graduated and went into the military. He is a sick bastard.
I have sex all the time. I just don't crave it get all excited over it. I'm only talking about my rape because we are discussing it. That is no soapbox. I don't use my rape as a crutch. I'm just answering what you are asking me.
62-I talk about the both, my 2nd one is new.
Wait you were 13 and taking AP classes with seniors?
I am sorry for your pain and the traumatic rape but how did your parents not notice something was wrong?
You had to have came home very upset.
justalittletike has a lot of medical issues too. She always posts on all of the medical type threads with experiences or information. I think she's a huge drama queen and is probably loving the attention she's getting here.
64 Anonymous said... 64
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3222431#30823375
Did I miss the smack on this? SEVEN cold sores on your face. WTF???? Gross.
And it looks like a lot of peas has the herpes. LOL.
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Somebody alert the peas.
67 Anonymous said...
Wait you were 13 and taking AP classes with seniors?
I am sorry for your pain and the traumatic rape but how did your parents not notice something was wrong?
You had to have came home very upset.
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Stop trying to dig out more information to pick apart and beat her up with. Move on and get a life. Or call and get your meds refilled, because you are sick and twisted to keep trying to beat up on a rape victim.
justalittletyke, you don't like having sex with your husband but what is the reason you don't actually sleep together? You say you sleep in separate rooms. Why? You can't even sleep in the same bed as him? What a weird fucking marriage. Either like someone else said, they have an arrangement or that man has a mistress.
No I didn't come home upset. Yes I had a senior in my AP class.
OK not trying to dig out information and I don't find it odd a senior was in a AP class. I find it odd a 13 yo was.
You guys are weird. He snores. I don't have any medical issues worth mentioning but I do have a lot of medical knowledge.
Leslie's a 911 police dispatcher. Has to sit around all day hearing about crimes (and probably rapes) when she can't get over being assaulted at 13. Poor thing. :eyeroll: I'm starting to believe she's full of shit.
So traumitized she can't let her husband touch her, has to sleep in separate beds, has to "try" (her words) in other ways to show him love, yet sits her ass down everyday at work to listen to crime after crime. Okey dokey.
The pea that stated that this is a very critical time in his life, that goes without saying...but - how exactly am I supposed to act when I see him / talk with him ? Of course, I would not *freak out* ... but, is there something I should specifically do or not do ? Who guides me ? Quinnlove
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You're the grown up guide your self and stay out of it until your dd let's you in.
I'd love to hear her dd's side of things.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3223273&pg=2
Ok, so a high school boy rapes you and you come home and act like nothing ever happened, yet you are now 30 and still can't get over it?????
Not only did he rape you but he tied you up to do it? The tying up part is where I'm having a problem. Did the kid carrying around ropes to tie up girls and rape them? Did you friend invite you over just so he could rape you? You have yet to answer any questions about where the friend was in all of this and what happened afterward.
I have never posted here as anonymous.
And I have NOT had CPS called multiple times. It happened 1 time and it is now over. The person who called cited multiple reasons for their "concern". I suppose they wanted to try to make their "concern" seem legit. They were lying and my husband and I proved it.
The all caps bitch? Yeah, you are the picture of sanity. Glad you have such a fantastic local school system. I don't.
And for those of you who refuse to believe you can be arrested for no reason here ya go:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/03/us/lawsuit-accuses-fired-utah-trooper-of-falsifying-dui-arrests.html?_r=0
She may be making it up.
LOL she won't have sex with him willingly and she makes him sleep somewhere else because he snores. Yeah Mr Tike is getting him some somewhere else. She can't even show him intimacy or love by sleeping in the same room with the man. What a shitty marriage.
But you keep on forcing yourself to lay there every once in awhile and keep on having those kids, ok? Keep on going until you have 4 or 5, then have fun when he divorces you.
Shut.the.fuck.up banana lady. We don't care.
I'd love to hear her dd's side of things.
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DD: My mother is a nosy, bossy nutbag. We moved further away from her to get some peace. She blames my DH for it. Now my son is having some not uncommon problems, and she's posting on the Internet about it and how sucky we are at parenting. She called my DH a POS and me an idiot. She's posted which hospital my son's in. What do I do--move to Australia?
Reason #247 not to share your personal info on the Internet.
OMG really? Is she really a 911 dispatcher? No way! Someone that still can't get over a crime 20 years ago actually works a day to day job dealing with crime. Hmmmm, I'm calling BS on the whole thing now.
I think she made the comment she didn't like sex on the board and then the blog slammed her and she came over to the blog and said she was raped and on and on it went. I think she's full of shit. She wanted to be a blog bitch so she joined in the convo and posted the rape story so we wouldn't make fun of her for not liking sex like all the other weirdo peas.
Yuck, I have a friend with herpes and ever since she told I make sure to NEVER share anything she's drinking.
February 22, 2013 at 3:17 PM
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FWIW, I read somewhere recently that pretty much the entire adult population carries the virus, but it's only a smallish % who are prone to actual outbreaks.
LOL I see bananalady/berrysmoothie was jealous we were talking about justalittletike for too long.
279--there is a BIG difference between a rogue cop making illegal arrests and an ordinary citizen getting somebody arrested. If you don't understand that...
It took months to get a relative arrested for prescription fraud, and she has a record a mile long AND had a warrant out for her arrest. For the same thing.
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Yuck, I have a friend with herpes and ever since she told I make sure to NEVER share anything she's drinking.
February 22, 2013 at 3:17 PM
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FWIW, I read somewhere recently that pretty much the entire adult population carries the virus, but it's only a smallish % who are prone to actual outbreaks.
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Kind of like the zombie virus in the Walking Dead?
Either way I'm still sharing my margarita with her.
Whoa 911 dispatcher. LOL She must have forgotten she posted her occupation over there. I don't believe a word of it now. Nice try lady trying to get sympathy for a rape after you were laughted at for not liking sex. Shame on you.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3223520
Pretty pathetic that you ask the peas.
laughed not laughted. Yes I know how to spell before someone points it out. LOL
288 - I gave just ONE example. There are a ton of cases out there where people get arrested and then the prosecutor doesn't file charges because there isn't enough evidence. But that doesn't stop the fact that people have to pay ridiculous amounts of money to fight the false charges and they get to have their mug shots plastered all over the internet with their home address listed and dealing with all the crap that goes along with it.
You can live in your bubble where the world is perfect and nothing bad ever happens to good people all you want. I hope you manage to go your whole life and keep that belief.
The question was ...what would you & Dh do if one of you were paralyzed.
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If it was DH paralyzed I wouldn't care about that.
Me paralyzed. I'm not sure. His life revolves more around when and how long between
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So he obviously does care about sex. Sounds like he cares a lot. Or so she says in this post.
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Stay tuned!
WTH is up with MontanaCOW? What a bitch!
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So what if I was a freshman at 14 dating a senior 18 and then I am a sophomore now 15 and he graduates and turns 19.
That shouldn't make him a sexual offender I dont think.
No I didn't date seniors when I was a freshman but there was a lot of that going on at my school and a lot of freshman were 14 and a lot of seniors 17 or 18...
I went to a tiny school and it happened a lot.
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MontanaCOW, she's not a bitch. I agree with her. Aslan spewing shit again.
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It usually has to do with attention... I don't mean she is trying to get it...
But the same way a boy telling your your pretty at that age and it makes you feel good so you keep doing it.... It can be addicting
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I agree that entertaining vendors is very common and drinking is usually involved... Bosses usually go.
However to me that is a lot of wine and I know from experience that things can happen in situations like that although I was not married and neither was he but we both got into a situation we really should have avoided.
I worked for a telecommunications company and we went to sporting events, dinners and lunches with prospective clients a lot...
**leslie**
Post 101 is why I don't share my life experiences on the Internet.
that leslie/justalittletyke lady is crazy. Scary that DFW will hire bipolars to be 911 dispatchers.
That's just asking for all kinds of drama and bullshit.
Is justalittletyke the one that was raped at 13 and doesn't have sex with her husband? And someone here knows her and her husband?
bananalady is fucking tikes husband on the sly.
101 what is the point in posting about a man I almost married and long term dated when I was 22x. Clever.
Wow ur just clueless pulling at nothing.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&thread_id=3191678&pg=2
Interesting old post. Interesting that justalittletike doesn't mention one single thing about the rape when the thread is exactly about older boys and younger girls/rape/sex etc. She doesn't really even seem to be that concerned about it. Doesn't sound like the traumitized rape victim we keep hearing from now, does it? Same for her getting drunk and having sex with a stranger/coworker before she got married.
She's lying, folks.
Personally, I think that her name should be justalittleDYKE.
It is obvious from her scrapbook pages that she has it bad for her "girlfriend." I think that she is using rape as an excuse to stay away from dick.
Tike, ignore these idiots. Lots of people have been raped/had traumatic experiences and still go through life without dwelling on it. I don't see you dwelling on it because of a few message board topic discussions. These chicks act like you dwell on it all day long and think of nothing else. Also, sex is part of life, not ALL of life and it's not like sex has to be dwelled on all day long either (unless it's a man lol).
I can't imagine you're hung up on the past all day long and think about how to avoid sex constantly either. Ignore these people who've had pristine lives and never had anything bad happen in their lives (yet, karma and all that right?)
Good luck tike. I don't care about the idiots wanting to tear apart this post either. Do what you feel you need to.
You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
And you obviously can't read and have your own ignorant preconceived notions of sex. Only men dwell on sex? WTF are you talking about?
You missed like 99% of the posts that relate to this issue if you think people are saying tike is dwelling on her rape only because she doesn't obsess over sex 24/7.
Leslie, you hate having sex with your husband. You have said many times you don't enjoy sex and have to basically force yourself to do it to please him. Yet you posted you got drunk and had sex with someone else. Long term dated? You insinuated in that post that you got drunk and hooked up.
You've also posted on several threads where the subjects were about older boys being with younger girls or threads about rape and never mentioned a thing about your situation, yet you all of a sudden have no problem mentioning your rape when you are a part of a thread that is laughed at on the blog.
We get it. You are/were a blog bitch and you didn't like being a part of the crew that was made fun of so you came here with a rape story and it got out of control. I dont believe you were raped now. Nothing you say is consistant or makes any sense. I think you are a huge drama queen.
Personally, I think that her name should be justalittleDYKE.
It is obvious from her scrapbook pages that she has it bad for her "girlfriend." I think that she is using rape as an excuse to stay away from dick.
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I kind of agree with this. LOL
A woman who says she was tied up and raped by an 17-18 year old when she was 13 wouldn't defend 17-18 year olds dating younger girls on more than one thread. Because she did. She defended the older boys dating the younger girls because they were all in the same school therefore peers. This coming from someone who was raped by a "senior" and still so bothered by it that she can't enjoy sex. Sorry I'm not buying what she's selling. She loves this attention as much as berrysmoothie so maybe we should ignore her now.
I'm with 110. Life is a hell of a lot more complicated than these blog bitches let on- seriously, I wonder sometimes if they have ever even moved out of their parents house. It's all "well, I'd do this" and "why not do that" like life is some fucking hypothetical exercise.
It's not. It's messy, complicated and yeah- your husband can love you even if you have lingering issues from am rape at 13. And a rape at 13 certainly can co,or your entire life, particularly if it was your first sexual experience....how could it not?! "get over it" is more misogynist swill. Please ignore it.
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You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
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Dumb cunt? Really? LOL Hi MissHostile. Get this straight dear, I never wished rape on anyone (learn to read). She works as a dispatcher for 911, not all bad things that happen are rape.
Karma for you too. Whatever that may be. You know it might just be loss of a job or something people get over quickly. Not rape LOL
Still laughing at the "dumb cunt" comment. Not even going to bother reading the rest of your crap, I'm sure it's not worth reading.
I dated a married man, it came back to bite me in the ass. I met him in a foreign country (though we shared the same nationality and job, shoulda known) and it was a fling. Then, bam, I'm working at a place and there he is, photos of his wife and kids everywhere, and I feel like worlds most awful fucking slut home wrecker.
yeah, it's his fault, I was single, but still- I felt terrible and still do. Not cool.
I left the job and took a step down to get away from him, I just felt so gross. He was above me, and kept giving me perks and recognition because he felt guilty, it sucked.
Learn from me: don't go out with a married guy! You'll feel like a dirty whore.
Blog bitches are dwelling on a rape more in one day than tike probably has her whole life. Why so invested in whether she was or wasn't and linking posts from there (Yubflub style) as if to tear her down more. You want her to "let it go" but you can't. Walk away. Seriously.
I'm sure most of us would not go out with a married man. It's the married men that never tell us they are married that's the problem.
bananalady is fucking tikes husband on the sly.
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That's the only thing that would make this tired-ass thread worthwhile.
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You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
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Dumb cunt? Really? LOL Hi MissHostile. Get this straight dear, I never wished rape on anyone (learn to read). She works as a dispatcher for 911, not all bad things that happen are rape.
Karma for you too. Whatever that may be. You know it might just be loss of a job or something people get over quickly. Not rape LOL
Still laughing at the "dumb cunt" comment. Not even going to bother reading the rest of your crap, I'm sure it's not worth reading.
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Oh, you just wish job loss and other hateful shit on people. Interesting. Karma's a bitch and I'm sure you've got a big date with the karma bus coming your way with an attitude like that.
And the fact that we're not obsessed with the bad things that have happened to us doesn't mean we've all had perfect lives. It means we're not weaklings who'd rather sit around and cry about shit. Some of us just get on with life.
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104- I doubt it. She is saying she has sex and the bitches say she isn't . They are asking so she is telling. They are jumping. I say move on to some one else less fortune we jumped on her over what peanuts and sex.
We are slacking.
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You're a dumb cunt, 110. Wishing rape on people? NICE.
And you obviously can't read
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Um, who is it that can't read? That would be you 111.
Probably that dumbass shannoninc again.
112- I'm confused it is not all about me. I'd don't just share my story at the drop of a hat for many reasons
I'm not sure what thread your talked about long term. Before I met DH I slept with my boyfriend who we frequently did business stuff together.
If the seat is pushing against your knees when it's in the upright position, then when it reclines it comes down more on the top of your knees (I wish I could draw a little picture to illustrate this) Admittedly, the seats have to be jammed in pretty tight for this to happen, but it does happen. I'm only 5'1" and I've been on flights (Virgin Atlantic, QANTAS, Iberia and American) where that's happened.
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If you're 5'1" and your knees touch the seat in front of you, with or without the seat reclining, your ass is fat as fuck.
I seriously do not get the anger around the seat recline.
All your imported threads dont mean crap except I don't feel the need to tell my life story every time I post. Like I said it isn't about me. I only talk about when addressed or I feel it will benefit someone.
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There really are some freaks out there.
littletyike just STFU. you are full of it. You say things in your posts then want to backtrack and say it was something else. Like several people have said, stop oversharing and maybe it won't come back to bite you in the ass.
YOU yourself posted that you got drunk with someone at a work related event and had sex (you said things got out of control because you both drank. you also felt the need to point out neither of you were married). So yes, that sounds like you got drunk and had sex with someone you just met, especially because the OP was about getting drunk and having sex. Now you want to say that was a long term boyfriend. Ok, whatever.
Maybe there has been a lot of posts about you and your rape today but you know what? I don't believe you were raped after reading the posts that people brought over here and I think you are the one who sucks to lie about such a thing. Either way it goes, you are a liar and full of shit. None of your posts or stories jive together.
231 you're awesome. Nice to see a class act blog bitch once in a while.
All your imported threads dont mean crap except I don't feel the need to tell my life story every time I post. Like I said it isn't about me. I only talk about when addressed or I feel it will benefit someone.
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Yeah right. You've never mentioned it once over there. Only over here after it was discussed about you (and others) saying they didn't like having sex with their husbands.
So which is it? You were raped and hate sex so bad you can't have sex with your husband?
Or you get drunk and have sex with someone you just met? Or a long term boyfriend as you are NOW saying? Can you have sex with him at 22 but not your husband at age 30? What are you, regressing? You were raped by an older boy but have no problem with those older boys dating younger girls as you stated in a couple of different threads? You makes no sense and that's why several people here are calling you on it.
Oh no- he was after that.. Not then. But I didn't just meet him., we had been flirting a long time. I see how I made that confusing.
I have sex all the time!!!! I have said that a billion times!
Stop talking to/about littletike whatever her name is. She's obviously a big fat lying drama queen. You are all wasting your time with her.
Let her continue not enjoying sex and sleeping in a different room than her husband. Who cares. Just be glad you're not him or in a crappy marriage like hers.
Now, what else can we talk about? LOL
Oh, you just wish job loss and other hateful shit on people. Interesting. Karma's a bitch and I'm sure you've got a big date with the karma bus coming your way with an attitude like that.
And the fact that we're not obsessed with the bad things that have happened to us doesn't mean we've all had perfect lives. It means we're not weaklings who'd rather sit around and cry about shit. Some of us just get on with life.
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but you sludge around in someone elses shit. ok
and what's this *WE* shit? Not everyone is on the same bus trip as you LOL
Screw that littletyke bitch. I'm sick of her lying stories.
Let's move on. What dumbass shit has KristinL16 done today? Has Lauren freaked out on anyone today? Did Annabella say anything dumb? What new tv show is CADoodle watching? Has Nightowl told us another story about how her precious sons have confided their disgust for the slutty teenage girls at their school? LOL
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littletyike just STFU. you are full of it. You say things in your posts then want to backtrack and say it was something else. Like several people have said, stop oversharing and maybe it won't come back to bite you in the ass.
YOU yourself posted that you got drunk with someone at a work related event and had sex (you said things got out of control because you both drank. you also felt the need to point out neither of you were married). So yes, that sounds like you got drunk and had sex with someone you just met, especially because the OP was about getting drunk and having sex. Now you want to say that was a long term boyfriend. Ok, whatever.
Maybe there has been a lot of posts about you and your rape today but you know what? I don't believe you were raped after reading the posts that people brought over here and I think you are the one who sucks to lie about such a thing. Either way it goes, you are a liar and full of shit. None of your posts or stories jive together.
February 22, 2013 at 6:49 PM
Why are you dredging her shit then? Get off her ass and out of her shit. You don't believe her, so what, she owes you nothing.
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You know you bitches are stupid. I slept with lots of people after I got raped because I lost sense of worth. I am not ashamed about that. It is very common Everyone handles it differently. Until I met the person ironically that you are messing with over above I didn't like myself. That didnt work out (not sex related) met DH and been with him ever sense. So ya it works put.
I rarely talk about the rare it just came up today. I don't talk about being bipolar either unless it can help educate people. You life isn't over if you stayed controlled.
There are a lot of peas who have said over the years they don't enjoy having sex with their husbands. Maybe their husbands just suck at it, but I'm more than willing to bet it's the Peas. They are an uptight bunch over there who only care about controlling their childrens every move or what the new medical illness to have is. They are very self centered women. I'd say there's honestly only a handful of what I'd consider normal women who post there.
I used to think the normal ones posted on the blog (Meat blog) but now I don't even think that's the case. LOL
And what the hell would I have to lie about. That is pretty Damn elaborate to make up when I only had like 400 in my whole school.. How do you think I ended up early onset bipolar? I got my shit in order and got it all taken care of.
littletyke, I get ya. But I still do agree you need some help so you can actually enjoy sex with your husband. Both for your sake and his. It sounds like you are fine with the way things are but I really do wish you'd consider getting some help so you can actually enjoy it and *want* him. It would be great for him too.
I can't imagine having sex out of obligation. It makes me sad for both of you.
Sounds like the only person she has trouble having sex with is her husband. He must be bad at it.
Every bipolar I've ever met, including my own mother, is a compulsive liar. My counselor said lying is part and parcel for bipolars.
How did you get your shit in order and taken care of early when it happened at 13 and you said you didn't tell anyone? Just asking.
141- I said above I all the mess. We are actively seeking help
Looks like justalittletike had no problem getting drunk and sleeping with a stranger before she got married.
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I agree that entertaining vendors is very common and drinking is usually involved... Bosses usually go.
However to me that is a lot of wine and I know from experience that things can happen in situations like that although I was not married and neither was he but we both got into a situation we really should have avoided.
I worked for a telecommunications company and we went to sporting events, dinners and lunches with prospective clients a lot...
Sorry that too me doesn't say one night stand with random drunk person I don't know...
That says drunk good time with another employee whom I had been flirting with for a long time and it finally happened. May sex maybe not
So did the guy end up like a serial rapist or something? Because the way you described it he sounds like a sex offender who wouldn't have done that just once. He would have kept going until someone went to the police.
Tying a girl to a bed and raping her is so far over the line I can't see it being a one time thing.
143 ITA. The tie me up rape is probably something she saw in a movie when she was manic.
People freak out when they think someone is keeping a spreadsheet or if they go back and read a peas posts or heck even if some people just have a good memory but......you can get a pretty good picture about who someone is or what kind of person they are when they post a LOT. It's not rocket science. People show you who they are. If you don't want to create an impression for people, then don't post your shit at the bucket all day every day.
143- I am actually the exact opposite. I can't lie to save my life. It is actually a huge fault. I tell way too much information even to the point it gets me into trouble.
144. I took myself for depression and mania. I didn't share the rest until later and my mother and I fight about it still to this day on when I told her. I think she ignored me telling her and she said I didn't tell her until I was a senior. This is part of the issue. The douche bag came and apologized as if that would help at my senior party to allow him to live his life. You know cause I am so nice and all.
That says drunk good time with another employee whom I had been flirting with for a long time and it finally happened. May sex maybe not
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Ok then fine thats what it was. Doesn't sound like a traumitized rape victim to me. You're the one who has went on and on about how you can't enjoy sex with your dh but you sound perfectly ok to me being drunk and messing around with someone else. Get your stories and convictions straight.
I guess I don't get the whole tie her up thing either. Sure I can see an older boy taking advantage of a younger girl but the fact he tied her up and did these things to her doesn't ring true to me. The way she described it earlier in this thread sounded like a very brutal rape that would leave physical as well as mental scars. Not sure how no one, including her parents, didn't notice any of it. It just sounds far fetched. It's either embellished or a lie. Keep in mind she's bipolar.
More than likely it was a regretted sexual encounter with an older boy that she has now conjured up into a brutal rape from something she saw or read.
Hey tike, maybe you should just hook up with your BFF. You don't seem to like men much.
For Christ's sake, where is the gang mentality coming from? As a former clinician, believe me - there are a zillion couples not having regular, fantastic, both-loving-it sex. It's not like her DH is some major victim. There are a ton of other reasons why people get and stay married other than sex. He probably loves her, loves their family, thinks she's funny or smart or whatever. Just be grateful you have a fabulous sex life and get off the poor girl's back. She's far from the only one with a less than perfect sex life.
And seriously, even if she did have a drunken one night stand? WTF ever. So does probably 75% of the world. It's ridiculously common and normal.
LOOK I don't know. I don't speak his name, I don't look him for him, I don't drive by his old house, I don't investigate him or try to see what he is up too. He ruined a huge part of my life. He left 4 fingernail marks in my wrists I can see whenever I want. He tied me too a bed...with the draw string to my cross country hoodie. I was young. i was 13 and very innocent. I didnt even like boys. What more do you want. I get it. Smack. I am done. You for sure win because I can take anymore reliving it.
Its common and normal to have a druken one night stand for some people but not someone who still cries about being raped 20 years ago and doesn't like doing it with their husband.
Former clinician? LOL Alrighty then.
It would be a different story if it was the dh refusing to have sex or only having sex out of obligation or saying they hate having sex with their wife (a pea) then it would be poor poor pitiful Pea woman.
I am not crazy bipolar I'm just manic depression. I have no problems having sex drunk or on ambien enjoying it but that tends to make things easier and since I want to enjoy it well that helps! Stupid.
I wasn't the one bitching about it. I answering a direct question to someone else. Someone else smack my response and I told them why I said it the way I did. I never even mentioned IT to begin with.
You don't like boys but you are married?
152 is another pea who doesn't like sex or a pea who has a dh who won't fuck her so she has to believe that it's normal and a good marriage doesn't need sex. Keep telling yourself that. I hope you're not one of those SAHM's with a bunch of kids running around.
So you need to be drunk or on Ambien to enjoy sex?
By the way you sound drunk right now. Maybe you should stop posting and go let your dh have a little.
Suck it up and pretend I want to do it for my marriage. I feel it is my duty as a wife whether I want to do it or not really.
He knows I don't like it. I just make the choice to do it. I can only procrastinate for so long and then have to give in.
I just don't enjoy it from past bad memories and I really want to. I just can't so I do the next best thing... Pretend
Never once said a word about it until someone address it
157-what?
Ok, but did you enjoy sex with the other long term boyfriend you spoke of earlier?
YOU are saying you only do it because you feel you have to. YOU are saying he KNOWS you don't like it. Do you really not see thats a huge problem for him and actually for you too? Why don't you seek help? That is NOT normal nor is it just something you should live with. A healthy 30 year old married woman should enjoy her sex life. So should her husband.
Your dh knows you don't like having sex with him but you pretend and do it anyway. Do you really think that's a happy healthy marriage? It's NOT and anyone here who says it is as delusional as you are.
Really this is just getting to be even a little much for me. This has sunk to a new low. Wake me when we change topics.
153 Anonymous said...He left 4 fingernail marks in my wrists I can see whenever I want.
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How the fuck did your parents not see that? I realize you were 13 but that would be a serious wound. Something that would take more then a day or two to heal.
LMAO! I am floored that justalittletike and berrysmoothie both have talked and talked and talked so much on this blog about their personal business. They just can't shut up about it. They keep responding and adding more information. LOL It's unbelievable. It's amazing to me the things people will share.
http://www.twopeasinabucket.com/mb.asp?cmd=display&forum_id=15&thread_id=3223059
Damn,Stephi has always been a raging cunt but this is extreme even for her. She's lost her fucking mind.
I wish they would STFU.
No I didn't necessarily enjoy it then but I don't hate it now. I don't think about it every time. We are noticeable. Sometime we have great sex sometimes not.
I have said about 50 time I am going for help. I have several people I work with including the doctor who just tile be she is sick that I am not allowed to be upset over. I also go to a pysch doctor.
Go Stephi go!
164 they didn't see it because it didn't happen. A little innocent 13 year old comes home from being tied up, raped in every orifice, fingernail marks on arms and doesn't say a word and her parents don't notice anything is wrong with her. They don't see physical marks? They don't see her emotionally upset or acting weird or different? Yet she says she was diagnosed with manic depression or bipolar at an early age and to this day it affects her marriage and sex life. None of it makes any sense.
Ya my typing sucks. I'm going to bed.
My mom traveled to Germany and came home once a month and my dad left at 5a and got home after 7p. You people act like you can't hide anything. I wore cross country sweats nearly every day anyway.
My parents were in denial anyway about the bipolar and I screamed and cried most the time so what is new..... get off my fucking case. Goodnight happy blog bitches.
Fuck off Stephi, fuck off!
tike sounds like she's on drugs tonight. LOL Must be in an Ambien stupor.
170- not anally thanks
And ya I'm pretty sure my mom knew. She just isn't that kind to say. That is a whole other source of therapy I had to address that I'm not going into.
littletyke, you and your family sound like a hot mess. Are you related to berrysmoothie? Are you both from the same "small town" with crooked cops, crazy arrests and rapists running around all over the place? Sounds like it.
173 must be Aslan.
Drink everytime tike says cross country!!!!!
She was on cross country ya'll! She wore her cross country sweats everyday. She got tied up with her cross country hoodie. Cross country cross country cross country......passes out drunk.
Way to badger someone. Damn girls, give it a rest. So what she talked about it. People asked more and she gave answers and you tell her she lies. So what if YOU don't think it adds up. YOU didn't/haven't lived her life.
What a bunch of low life bitches. As someone said above, this is a new low.
My dh is working tonight and I will sex him up good when he gets home. Just wanted to say thanks blog bitches. The blog has been really good tonight. Very entertaining with a glass of wine! Kept me busy waiting for him to get home. Thanks again pirate hookers.
Let it go 178 you sound like you missed your meds.
My mom traveled to Germany and came home once a month and my dad left at 5a and got home after 7p. You people act like you can't hide anything. I wore cross country sweats nearly every day anyway.
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Well ok then but this is new information. I doubt most of us realized that a 13 year old little girl would have been left to her own devices. I for one, wouldn't have thought you were basically raising yourself at that age. Sounds like you had some super sucky parents as well. They didn't have a clue what their little girl was up to.
fuck off 181 and stop telling others what to post.
LOL What would we do without these oversharing drama queens? They are the new Sass!
I agree with the other poster. Thanks for keeping me entertained. Lots of bickering back and forth but at least it wasn't boring political crap.
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LOL @ Sass. She was fun to smack. You could practically see her head exploding. What a crazy nutter. The good ole days.
Well since you mentioned it, there was a home invasion in my small town that included raping the female homeowner just 2 nights ago. Horrible story. Hope the keystone cops around here actually work that case.
I'm the one who knows Leslie and boy am I biting my tongue.
What is this, the fucking Dr. Phil show? Enough already.
tike is in love with her bff. her layouts are creepy.
Spill it 189!
Well since you mentioned it, there was a home invasion in my small town that included raping the female homeowner just 2 nights ago. Horrible story. Hope the keystone cops around here actually work that case.
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Maybe they'll arrest you for it since you say that are so incompetant and shady. You seem to get accused of lots of things you "didn't do".
You guys need to stop talking about Tyke's rape. BananaBerry is getting jealous. Look for her to drop another bomb to get the focus back on her.
192 it's killing me. I really want to but I can't because then she'll know who I am and how I know the things I know. I don't care about her but It's not fair to the other people in her life.
Looks like I spoke too soon. They managed to get the US Marshals to pick their guy up for them.
195- what is so unfair? Bc her DH is unhappy she said she knew that. Just say.
Ok somebody is off their meds and it ain't littletyke or whatever her name is. Judging from how often the poster keeps getting the comments twisted and not understanding what they are reading, I'd say it's shannoninkc.
Shannon honey, you need to put down the glass and go take your meds or call somebody, because you are coming unglued with your obsession over littletyke.
Really this is just getting to be even a little much for me. This has sunk to a new low. Wake me when we change topics.
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I agree completely.
Berry and Tike: there are poster(s) here that play a game of contrarian/adversarial posting, and twisting statements ("I didn't even like boys" at 13 = "Why are you married if you don't like boys??!!"), and crank up the outrageous outraged froth up to 11.
You are playing into their hands. Just stop and walk away. /my two cents
199, maybe you need to put down the bottle and go to bed.
Because if I tell certain things she will know who I am and and I don't want to out other people. I'm the one on this blog saying I know her, they aren't. I don't want them mad at me. I know I shouldn't have said anything about it at all but I had a moment of pissed off weakness and posted. I'm still pissed off and I can't believe Leslie is speaking so much about this on here. I hope the other people in her life don't find out what all she's shared here and over at Two Peas and God knows where else on the internet.
To the person who said imagine if the roles were reversed, I agree. What if a husband was online talking like that?
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